The Absentee
The Boxer Rebellion Lyrics


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Throw yourself in front of this
Before it goes too long
Ask the questions that you want
When they all seem wrong

Because
I saw you first drift right by
I saw you first drift right by

Open up, let us in
When you shut down you
Open up, listen here
When you shut down you
Open up, stay right here
When you look down you slide

Keep the pace for every move
When it goes too fast
Take the place the absentee
If they're running back

Because, because
I saw you first drift right by
I saw you first drift right by

Open up, let us in
When you shut down you
Open up, listen here
When you shut down you
Open up, stay right here
When you look down you slide

Don't throw it all away
I can be your guide
Don't throw it all away
I can be your guide





I saw you first drift right by

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of this song seem to be about trying to reach someone who has shut themselves off emotionally. The singer is pleading with this person to "throw yourself in front of this," meaning to confront their issues and not let them go too long unresolved. They urge the person to ask the questions they want, even if they seem wrong. It's as if the person in question has withdrawn from the world and the singer is trying to encourage them to open up and be vulnerable again.


The phrase "I saw you first drift right by" seems to indicate that the singer has known this person for a while and has seen them change, possibly for the worse. The chorus repeats the plea to "open up" and not shut down emotionally. The second half of the song seems to suggest that the singer is willing to stick with this person and help guide them through their difficulties. The line "I can be your guide" is repeated twice, emphasizing that the singer is willing to be there for the person in question even if they are struggling.


Overall, the song comes across as a plea to someone who has withdrawn from the world to come back and be present in their own life. The lyrics are simple yet effective in conveying this message, and the repetitive chorus emphasizes the urgency of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Throw yourself in front of this
Take action and get involved before it's too late


Before it goes too long
Before the situation becomes more difficult to handle


Ask the questions that you want
Don't be afraid to seek answers


When they all seem wrong
Especially when the answers seem off


Because
The following lines serve as an explanation for why the singer gives advice


I saw you first drift right by
I noticed you became passive and ignored the issue


Open up, let us in
Be receptive to suggestions from others


When you shut down you
Don't close yourself off mentally and emotionally


Open up, listen here
Pay attention to what's being said


When you shut down you
Referring to the same idea as above: don't isolate yourself


Open up, stay right here
Stay present in the moment


When you look down you slide
Don't disregard or avoid the problem, face it


Keep the pace for every move
Stay active and mindful


When it goes too fast
During times of rapid change


Take the place the absentee
Step up and fill in the gaps left by those who left


If they're running back
In case people return and need support


Don't throw it all away
Don't waste potential opportunities


I can be your guide
I can offer support and direction


I saw you first drift right by
Reiterating that the singer has noticed the other person's reluctance until now




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Comments from YouTube:

CaptainOatwright

Wonderful. One of my fav BR songs- and there's a lot of quality to choose from

Bastion NCIS

This song reminds me of when I was 8 years old.

GrandeLeon04

La mejor banda,,,

Paulo Martins

I remember first time i listen this Band. It was 2011 and i was at Paris at MK2 near BNF watch the movie "going in a distance" when in one of the movie scenes the "guy" takes a girl to a bar and the Band playing in the stage was TBR...
Since then 10 years gone and i kept fall in love.

Tamiles Doralicio

Me too đź’™

Zora Z

Gorgeous!

Erkan Onur Güleç

i'm sorry i said but tbr is best unknown band in the world..they are doing much  melodic music..they should be known.

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