The Boss
The Braxtons Lyrics


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Fancy me
Thought I had my degree
In life and how love
Ought to be right

I had a one step plan to prove it
Guide in my pocket for fools
Falling in love
Love had to show me one thing

I was so right thought I could
Turn emotion on and off
I was so sure but love taught me
Who was the boss

I defy anyone who claims
That I didn't control
Whatever moved
In my soul

I could touch, touch delight
Just because you fell for me
Why should I feel uptight
Love had to show me one thing

I was so right thought I could
Turn emotion on and off
I was so sure but love taught me
Who was the boss

I was so right thought I could
Turn emotion on and off
I was so sure but love taught me
Who was the boss

I was so right thought I could
Turn emotion on and off
I was so sure but love taught me
Who was the boss

I was so right thought I could
Turn emotion on and off




I was so sure but love taught me
Who was the boss

Overall Meaning

In The Braxtons's song The Boss, the singer describes her overconfidence in her ability to control her emotions and navigate love. She introduces herself as someone who believed she had a degree in life and how love ought to be right. She believed she had a one-step plan to prove it and a guide in her pocket for fools who fell in love. However, she soon realizes that love had to show her one thing: who was the boss.


The singer is initially convinced that she has complete control over her emotions and falls in love on her terms. However, she learns that love is not something that can be turned on and off at will. She realizes that she was so sure of herself, but love taught her who was actually in charge. The repetition of the last four lines of the song reinforces this message, emphasizing the singer's realization that she was not as in control as she had initially believed.


Overall, The Braxtons's song The Boss is a reflection of the singer's journey in learning to relinquish control and open herself up to the power of love. Through her experience, she recognizes the importance of humility and vulnerability in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Fancy me
I used to feel special and important


Thought I had my degree
I used to think I had the knowledge and experience needed to understand and handle love


In life and how love
I thought I knew everything about life and love


Ought to be right
I thought I knew the right way to approach love and relationships


I had a one step plan to prove it
I had a simple and confident strategy to demonstrate my expertise in love and how to handle it


Guide in my pocket for fools
I carried around advice for those who were not as experienced as I was


Falling in love
Getting into a romantic relationship


Love had to show me one thing
I had to learn something important about love


I was so right thought I could
I was very confident in my ability to control and understand my emotions


Turn emotion on and off
I believed I could choose to feel emotions or not feel them at will


But love taught me
However, I learned a valuable lesson from being in a real romantic relationship


Who was the boss
I learned that love and emotions can't be controlled or manipulated by anyone, and that love has power over me


I defy anyone who claims
I challenge anyone who thinks that I didn't have full control over my emotions and actions


That I didn't control
That I wasn't in full control of my own thoughts and feelings


Whatever moved
My emotions and desires


In my soul
In the deepest parts of me


I could touch, touch delight
I was able to experience pleasure and happiness in my relationships


Just because you fell for me
Simply because you were attracted to me and wanted to be with me


Why should I feel uptight
I didn't see why I should be worried or anxious about my relationships


I was so right thought I could
I continued to believe that I had complete control over my emotions and relationships


But love taught me
But once again, I learned a valuable lesson from love


Who was the boss
I learned that love has power over me and that I am not always in control of my emotions and relationships


I was so right thought I could
Despite my previous lessons, I still believed that I could control my emotions and relationships


Turn emotion on and off
I still thought I could choose to feel emotions or not feel them at will


But love taught me
Once again, love taught me a valuable lesson


Who was the boss
Once again, I learned that love has power over me and that I am not always in control of my emotions and relationships


I was so right thought I could
Even after all my previous experiences, I still believed that I could control my emotions and relationships


Turn emotion on and off
I still believed that I could choose to feel emotions or not feel them at will


But love taught me
And once again, love taught me a lesson


Who was the boss
Once again, I learned that love has power over me and that I am not always in control of my emotions and relationships




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, ONErpm, Songtrust Ave
Written by: Nickolas Ashford, Valerie Simpson

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@CondomsRoseCondoms

It was but there was only 1 album. Toni's sisters went through 3 contracts before releasing the album "so many ways" in 1996.

All 5 sisters (Toni, Tamar, Trina, Towanda, Traci) had a single on LaFace's (the label Toni signed to as a solo artist) parent company Arista called "Good Life" in 1990 (first contract). The song didn't chart but rather than get rid of them, Clive Davis of Arista decided to give them another try on LaFace Records. LA Reid and Babyface only wanted Toni as a solo artist because the other sisters were still teenagers and pre-teens plus they had already signed another girl group TLC and they didn't want to manage 2 girl groups.

LA and Babyface also felt like Toni was Anita Baker Jr. Some of the songs that ended up on Toni's first albums, Toni had demoed them for Anita Baker. Anita didn't like the songs but she told LA and Babyface that the demo singer needed to release them herself because she sounded amazing.

After Toni came out with her debut, She talked LA And Babyface into signing her sisters as a separate group. They did even though they didn't want to (Second contract) and they went to work on their album in 1994. But LA Reid's brother Bryrant Reid left his position at LaFace to go work for Atlantic Records in 1995 and he offered to take the group with him since LA and Babyface didn't want them in the first place. They left with Bryant Reid and the material they had recorded already and were re-signed to Atlantic Records (3rd contract.)

Atlantic refused to let Traci be a member because she was pregnant with her son Kevin Surratt Jr. Trina, Tamar and Towanda went on as a trio. They released the album "So Many ways" in 1996. The lead single of the same name was produced by Jermaine Durpi and sampled "Outstanding" by the Gap Band. Traci has backgrounds and Co-writers credits on 2 songs but these were recorded while they had a short-lived deal with LaFace.

In 1998, While Towanda was trying to renegoiate the contract for a second album, but things fell apart. Tamar left for a solo deal with Dreamworks records and Trina got pregnant. So they were dropped by Atlantic.



All comments from YouTube:

@Blissedx

I still live for Towandas bone structure 🙌🙌

@MoDicky

Yes 100% I've always thought Towanda has the best features

@rlast4698

Yes!!! Stunning!

@notaytguru8214

And that damn haircut! 😍

@jeremiahtray5621

​@@MoDickyall do

@dstn2bgrt

Seriously though!

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@Ter-el

Baby Tamar and her braces🥹

@symmonep9591

Adorbs!!!🥹🫶🏾

@pierredee3188

It's how Tamar's vocals and voice stands out so strong and good even during that era in The Braxtons group

@nathc540

Yes. So much vocal flare

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