Son in Law
The Busters Lyrics


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when i saw you at the market hall
i thought you were lovely and nice
but after a few days out with you
i discovered you had your price

you want to get married
but i feel much too young
cruising and coupling all that things
anything will be dead and gone

oh, baby, don't wanna be a member of your family
oh, baby, don't wanna be your parents' son in law
oh, baby, don't wanna be the father of your kids
oh, baby

your father cleans his brand new car
at least every second day
and i bet he needs a hand
cause he's asked me to stay

your mama bought your wedding dress
your father bought a suit
i guess i'm gonna get away
although it might be rude

oh, baby, don't wanna be a member of your family
oh, baby, don't wanna be your parents' son in law
oh, baby, don't wanna be the father of your kids
oh, baby

you want to get married
but i feel much too young
cruising and coupling all that things
anything will be dead and gone

don't wanna hear sweet wedding bells
and won't wear a ring
so please get lost, it's nought for us
and shout out loud and sing

oh, baby, don't wanna be a member of your family
oh, baby, don't wanna be your parents' son in law




oh, baby, don't wanna be the father of your kids
oh, baby 3x

Overall Meaning

The song "Son In Law" by The Busters is about a man who meets a woman at the market hall and is initially smitten by her. However, after going out with her for a few days, he realizes that she has a price for everything and wants to get married while he feels too young for that commitment. He doesn't want to be a part of her family, become her parents' son in law, or be the father of her kids. He wants to continue living his life without any commitments and without having to hear wedding bells or wearing a ring.


The song is a commentary on the pressure society puts on people to get married and start families. The singer of the song doesn't want to succumb to that pressure and wants to live his life on his own terms. The lyrics are written in a light-hearted and humorous manner, with the singer sarcastically joking about how he can't handle the expectations of being a son in law.


Line by Line Meaning

when i saw you at the market hall
Upon first laying eyes on you at the market hall


i thought you were lovely and nice
I initially found you pleasant and charming


but after a few days out with you
Subsequently, after spending some time with you


i discovered you had your price
I determined that you had ulterior motives or were focused on material gains


you want to get married
You desire to enter into matrimony


but i feel much too young
However, I believe that I am too young to get married


cruising and coupling all that things
Exploring romantic relationships and experiences


anything will be dead and gone
All of these experiences and relationships will eventually come to an end


oh, baby, don't wanna be a member of your family
Expressing a desire to not become a part of your family through marriage


oh, baby, don't wanna be your parents' son in law
Declaring reluctance to become your parents' son-in-law


oh, baby, don't wanna be the father of your kids
Expressing a lack of interest in becoming the father of your future children


your father cleans his brand new car
Your father takes great care in keeping his new car clean


at least every second day
He polishes it or washes it at least every other day


and i bet he needs a hand
It's likely that he needs assistance with this task


cause he's asked me to stay
Asking me to lend a helping hand in his car maintenance efforts


your mama bought your wedding dress
Your mother purchased your wedding gown


your father bought a suit
Your father procured a suit for the occasion


i guess i'm gonna get away
I suppose I will have to distance myself from this situation


although it might be rude
Even though it may be perceived as impolite


don't wanna hear sweet wedding bells
I do not wish to hear the sound of wedding bells


and won't wear a ring
Nor do I have any desire to wear a wedding band


so please get lost, it's nought for us
Thus, I implore you to depart as this is not a good fit for me


and shout out loud and sing
And perhaps you should sing at the top of your lungs in celebration of our parting ways




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