Lady Friend
The Byrds Lyrics


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Here it comes again, it's going to happen to me
Here it comes, I should have learned to duck
She's going to say, she's going away
And I will have to live without her and survive

Here it comes, it looks just like the last wave I drowned in
Here it comes and I'm so far from shore
She's going to go and take her trinkets
And I will have to live without her and survive

Here it comes again, the night is going to fall
Here it comes, she's going to say goodbye

She's going to go and leave only me
And I will have to live without her and survive

Overall Meaning

The Byrds' song Lady Friend is a melancholic rendition of a lover awaiting the inevitable loss of his beloved. The phrase "here it comes again" is a clear indication that this is not the first time he's going through this cycle of losing someone he loves, and the repetitive nature of the phrase indicates that it's not going to be the last time. He almost seems resigned to his fate because he knows how it's going to play out. The phrase "it looks just like the last wave I drowned in" also indicates dread and hopelessness, almost as if he's accepted that he's bound to make the same mistakes over and over again.


The lyrics suggest that the persona is not entirely to blame for the impending separation as he urges that he's learned to "duck", and even with that, it's still going to happen. The lines "She's going to go and take her trinkets" suggests that the woman in focus is leaving with nothing but her personal belongings, signifying that she has nothing left emotionally to invest in the relationship. The use of the word "trinkets" is a clear indication of the emotional emptiness in the relationship.


The song is a lamentation of a love affair in its death throes. It's a warning to the persona to brace for the inevitable loss that he has grown accustomed to. It's a poignant reminder that sometimes in life, despite our best intentions, things may very well not work out.


Line by Line Meaning

Here it comes again, it's going to happen to me
I know what's coming: heartbreak. History is repeating itself, and I'm about to get hurt again.


Here it comes, I should have learned to duck
I saw it coming, and I should have done something to protect myself, but I didn't.


She's going to say, she's going away
My partner is about to break the news that she's leaving me. I can feel it coming, and it's going to be hard to hear.


And I will have to live without her and survive
If she leaves, I'll have to learn how to carry on without her. It's going to be tough, but I'll do my best to get through it.


Here it comes, it looks just like the last wave I drowned in
This situation feels like I'm drowning again, just like I did before. It's overwhelming and scary.


Here it comes and I'm so far from shore
I feel like I'm trapped and alone in this tough situation, and there's no easy way out.


She's going to go and take her trinkets
My partner is going to take her belongings and leave. It's a reminder that she's really gone and not coming back anytime soon.


Here it comes again, the night is going to fall
Just like darkness falls at the end of the day, this relationship is nearing its end. It's coming whether I'm ready for it or not.


Here it comes, she's going to say goodbye
The moment I've been dreading – my partner is going to say goodbye and leave my life for good.


She's going to go and leave only me
When she leaves, I'll be the only one left. The thought of being alone and without her is overwhelming.


And I will have to live without her and survive
I'll have to figure out how to live without her. It's not going to be easy, but I'll do my best to move on and survive.




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Written by: DAVID VAN CORTLANDT CROSBY

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Comments from YouTube:

@daveguy11

One of the most exhilarating songs ever recorded. It sounds like it dropped out of the sky. R.I.P. David.

@charlesflett2818

I said what you’re saying back in 1967/68

@AnthonyMonaghan

What a song. It barely touched the top 50 when released. Completely baffling, its got 1967 all over it. No accounting for taste.

@Eponagirl0810

I miss David and his musical magic!

@stevepotocin9501

David Crosby's greatest song, one of the 60s most glorious Pop moments!

@bobh28630

Fun track... but David's best? have a listen to DELTA:

https://youtu.be/bBXCWHAP6WI?si=7IcR4EwVh3ORvqVR

It's great, but I would put Renaissance Fair above it.

@immaterialimmaterial5195

Oh wow!!! Forgot how GOOD this song is!!! ABSOLUTELY CHARGED!!! One of their best!!!

@TheMafrand

Hands down the best Crosby song in Byrds. Problably the best Byrds song at all. R.I.P Crosby.

@jimroberts7178

My favorite song from the Byrds an underrated song from the 60's!

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