Don't Blame Your Daughter
The Cardigans. Lyrics


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Don't blame your daughter
That's just sentimental
And don't blame your mum
For all that you've done wrong
Your daddy's is not guilty
You came out a little faulty
And the factory closed
So you can't hold them liable
You come from an island
You're cutting diamonds
With a rubber knife

Your autograph's is worthless
So don't send me letters
And don't mail me cash
'Cause your money is no good
What's left in your mattress
Is holes and lack of love left
Some hair from a horse
And none of it is yours, man
You come from an island
You're cutting diamonds
With a rubbery knife

And the song you sing today
Wasn't always in your head
The words you try to say
Are the ones you should've said
They're glistening like diamonds
Go out and find them
But don't blame your daughter

Read me your tombstone
Tell me you're sorry
Fax me your will
You owe me something still
Blood is like water
The bath that you poured me
Has drained and is gone
Don't blame it on your son

And the song you sing today
Wasn't always in your head
The words you try to say
Are the ones you should've said
They're glistening like diamonds
Go out and find them, boy!

The world is full of diamonds




Go out and find them
But don't blame your daughter

Overall Meaning

The Cardigans' "Don't Blame Your Daughter" is a poignant and thought-provoking song that cautions against blaming one's family for one's shortcomings. The lyrics encourage the listener to take responsibility for their own actions, despite any limitations or challenges presented to them by their upbringing. The song presents the idea that blaming others, particularly one's family, is sentimental and unhelpful, and ultimately perpetuates a cycle of negativity.


The first verse specifically addresses the listener's relationship with their parents. The lines "Don't blame your daughter / That's just sentimental / And don't blame your mum / For all that you've done wrong" challenge the idea that one's family is responsible for one's actions. The line "Your daddy's not guilty / You came out a little faulty / And the factory closed / So you can't hold them liable" suggests that the listener's faults are not the fault of their parents, but rather a result of their own inherent flaws or circumstances outside of their parents' control.


The second verse shifts to address the listener's personal possessions and financial situation, with the lines "Your autograph's worthless / So don't send me letters / And don't mail me cash / 'Cause your money is no good." This verse further emphasizes the idea that material possessions and money cannot replace or fix the problems caused by one's upbringing or personal flaws. The lines "What's left in your mattress / Is holes and lack of love left / Some hair from a horse / And none of it is yours, man" suggest a sense of disconnection from the listener's own personal belongings, highlighting the theme of personal responsibility and the idea that material possessions are ultimately meaningless.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't blame your daughter
Don't hold your daughter responsible for anything done wrong or faulty.


That's just sentimental
The feeling of blaming your daughter is just based on emotions.


And don't blame your mum
Do not accuse your mother for your mistakes.


For all that you've done wrong
Don't consider your mom responsible for all the wrong things you’ve done.


Your daddy's not guilty
Your father is not guilty of any wrongdoing.


You came out a little faulty
You had some defects when you were born.


And the factory closed
Your factory or source for development and growth is no longer available.


So you can't hold them liable
You cannot blame or demand accountability from anyone for your circumstances.


You come from an island
You come from a place of isolation or detachment.


You're cutting diamonds
You are refining yourself and finding value through difficult circumstances.


With a rubber knife
You are making progress, but not with the most efficient means or tools.


Your autograph's is worthless
Your signature or mark is of no value.


So don't send me letters
There is nothing of worth or significance you have to offer.


And don't mail me cash
Your money is of no use or value.


'Cause your money is no good
Your funds are not beneficial or useful in any way.


What's left in your mattress
The only things you have left are the lowest quality or value items.


Is holes and lack of love left
All you have left in your possession are gaps and deficiencies of love.


Some hair from a horse
The only thing you can offer is hair from an animal.


And none of it is yours, man
You do not truly own or possess anything significant.


And the song you sing today
The music you’re producing right now or the actions you’re taking.


Wasn't always in your head
These activities you engage in have not always been a part of your plans or intentions.


The words you try to say
The mutual feelings or thoughts you want to express.


Are the ones you should've said
You should have willingly expressed those thoughts or emotions earlier.


They're glistening like diamonds
These thoughts or emotions are valuable and worth paying attention to.


Go out and find them
You should persevere and seek out these valuable insights.


But don't blame your daughter
However, do not accuse or blame your daughter for the difficult circumstances or struggles you face.


Read me your tombstone
Give me your final words or sentiment.


Tell me you're sorry
Confess and apologize for any wrongdoings you committed.


Fax me your will
Show me your intentions for the future.


You owe me something still
You still have something left to offer or fulfill.


Blood is like water
Family connections can sometimes be weak or lacking.


The bath that you poured me
The experiences you’ve given me.


Has drained and is gone
Those experiences are not capable of being retrieved or repeated.


Don't blame it on your son
Do not hold your son responsible for any negative circumstances or experiences.


The world is full of diamonds
The world is full of opportunities and valuable insights.


Go out and find them
Go out into the world and seek those valuable insights and opportunities.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: NATHAN LARSON

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@dinarsetiawan

Don't blame your daughter
that's just sentimental
and don't blame your mom
for all that you've done wrong
Your dad is not guilty
you came out a little faulty
and the factory closed
so you can't hold them liable
You come from an island,
you're cutting diamonds
with a rubbery knife
Your autograph is worthless
so don't send me letters
and don't mail me cash
'cause your money is no good
What's left in your matress
is holes and lack of love left
some hair from a horse,
and none of it is yours, man
You come from an island,
you're cutting diamonds
with a rubbery knife
And the song you sing today
wasn't always in your head,
the words you tryin' to say
are the ones you shouldn't 've said
they're glistenin' like diamonds,
go out and find' em
but don't blame your daughter
Read me your tombstone,
tell me you're sorry, fax me your will,
you owe me something still
Blood is like water
the bath that you poured me
has drained and it's gone,
don't blame it on your son
And the song you sing today
wasn't always in your head,
the words you tryin' to say
are the ones you shouldn't 've said
they're glistening like diamonds,
go out and find'em
The world is full of diamonds
go out and find'em
but don't blame your daughter



All comments from YouTube:

@ROMANTIKILLER2

Super Extra Gravity is the most underrated album of the history of pop-music. It's pure beauty. So deep, well written, melanchonish, bittersweet. This song is a little masterpiece. The fact that such a great work sold poorly makes me think that maybe mainstream audience really deserve nothing more than hip-hop crap and JB... the Cardigans were far too good to be largely appreciated.

@nTrophy

Preach!

@cosmicaudrey

Listening to this as an adult, after so many years of trying to gain my psychological self-reliance and release the damage my family has done in raising me, I understand how well the song depicts the parent/child dynamics most of us get to suffer from and need to heal from...

@josedohimalaia9231

so true.

@felipewozniak

This album is the ultimate masterpiece. I like to enjoy it while drinking wine.

@AsphodelFilms

I'm constantly amazed how The Cardigans manage to output consistently interesting varied art of such high quality and never get the recognition for it they deserve. Beautiful clip!

@hayral

The Cardigans, ladies and gentleman. In 2023 and forever!

@bohdankobel

that song blew up my mind when I was a kid, one of those that made me the person I am

@politicalscientist8880

Changed me more as a father

@malehousecat

You know..Song writing is astonishing. How, who, and what inspires someone to come up with words like this. Even if this was a personal situation for the writer, just to be able to have the inspiration to sit down and write this is nothing more than a gift. Well done.

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