Been It
The Cardigans Lyrics


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Baby boy
Your face is pretty and your life's a toy
Master man
I'm never better than your latest plan

Poor donee
what are you gonna try to be
where are you gonna go without me now
I've been your mother I've been your father

who can ask me for more
I've been your sister I've been your mistress
maybe I was your whore
who can ask me for more

Superstar
I've tried to educate your childish heart
I made your bed
and I was in it when your faith was dead

poor donee
what are you gonna try to be
where are you gonna go without me now
Sweetiepie





I'm you personal pro, you know
you know what number to try when to cry

Overall Meaning

The Cardigans' song "Been It" is a haunting and enigmatic exploration of a complicated relationship between a powerful and manipulative figure and their subservient partner. The lyrics describe the dynamic between a male "baby boy," who is described as having a "pretty face" and a life that's a "toy," and a female narrator who has played many roles in his life, including mother, father, sister, mistress, and maybe even his whore. The singer is deeply invested in the life of the baby boy, having made his bed and even been in it when his faith was dead. She's tried to educate him and be his personal pro, but it's unclear whether this is a loving or controlling relationship. The repeated refrain of "poor donee, what are you gonna try to be, where are you gonna go without me now" suggests a complicated power struggle that may soon be coming to an end.


One possible interpretation of the song is that it's about a prostitute who has formed an intense bond with one of her clients. She's played many roles in his life over the years, and has been deeply invested in his well-being, perhaps even to the point of falling in love with him. However, the client is ultimately in control of the relationship, and the singer fears that without him, she won't know who she is or where to go.


Another possible interpretation is that the song is about a codependent relationship between two people, one of whom is more powerful and dominant than the other. The singer may be afraid of losing her identity and purpose if she can no longer play a role in the other person's life.


Overall, "Been It" is a complex and fascinating exploration of power, control, love, and identity, and its enigmatic lyrics leave plenty of room for interpretation and reflection.


Line by Line Meaning

Baby boy
Addressing the listener as a young and immature boy


Your face is pretty and your life's a toy
Commenting on the listener's physical appearance and carefree life


Master man
Addressing the listener as a controlling and dominating figure


I'm never better than your latest plan
Acknowledging the listener's ability to always come up with new ideas and plans, while feeling inferior to them


Poor donee
Addressing the listener as someone who receives gifts or benefits


what are you gonna try to be
Questioning the listener's future goals and aspirations


where are you gonna go without me now
Indicating the importance of the singer in the listener's life, while questioning their ability to function without them


I've been your mother I've been your father
Comparing the artist's role in the listener's life to a parental figure


who can ask me for more
Boasting about the extent of their involvement in the listener's life


I've been your sister I've been your mistress
Comparing the artist's role in the listener's life to a sibling and a lover


maybe I was your whore
Admitting the possibility of being viewed as a prostitute in their relationship


Superstar
Addressing the listener as a person who is famous and admired


I've tried to educate your childish heart
Attempting to teach the listener about life and love, while feeling frustrated with their immaturity


I made your bed
Claiming responsibility for their actions and decisions


and I was in it when your faith was dead
Being present and supportive during a difficult and challenging time in the listener's life


Sweetiepie
Addressing the listener as a term of endearment


I'm you personal pro, you know
Asserting their role as a professional and expert in the listener's life


you know what number to try when to cry
Indicating that the listener knows the singer's phone number and when to call them for comfort




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: NINA PERSSON, PETER ANDERS SVENSSON

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@enriquediazocampo9267

Baby boy
Your face is pretty and your life's a toy
Master man
I'm never better than your latest plan
Poor donee
what are you gonna try to be
where are you gonna go without me now
I've been your mother I've been your father
who can ask me for more
I've been your sister I've been your mistress
maybe I was your whore
who can ask me for more
Superstar
I've tried to educate your childish heart
I made your bed
and I was in it…



All comments from YouTube:

@BigPaulyCee

Most underrated band I can think of

@rockocosta8578

She ain’t sell her soul for no fuck boi shiiiii 😛

@Elliottcharlesking

Right??!!

@mrshawnism

I can’t agree more

@eliot8664

ok hear me out they have a few popular songs ok

@Toddobvious

Yeppers (except for XTC)

@mchoneyofficial4761

Unreal song. Great melody and loved the heavy parts too. This band is so underrated!

@rickmcquillis6626

Always love this group, Nina Pearson and the Cardigans. Awesome video, great song, and as always Nina, you are so beautiful ❣️

@xTheOxx

One of the hardest riffs in an accessible pop song ever. Their Black Sabbath fetish showed every once in a while, and that's a shining example.

@denzil4

In my opinion the best band of the 90's

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