Hold Me
The Cardigans Lyrics


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Hold me, don't ever leave me
Know me, never believe me
Stay here but don't get too near me
Leave me, leave me alone
But don't ever let me go

Show me, but don't ever teach me
Touch me, don't try to reach me
Hold me but don't ever keep me
Baby, don't ever let me in

And don't let me win

'cause I leave myself to you
Yes, I release myself with you
I believe in me and you
So don't ever say you do

Love me, try not to need me
Need me but don't let the greed in
Feel free but don't ever leave me
Give in, don't ever let me
No, don't ever let me win

Hold me, don't ever leave me
Ask me but don't ever make me
Save me, don't ever forsake me
Call me but don't ever say my name

Know what you do

'cause I leave myself to you
Yes I release myself with you
I believe in me and you
So don't ever say you do

Don't let me win
Just hold me

And you say "nina nina ninana...."

Now how can I let you go?

Hold me, don't ever leave me




Love me but don't ever let me
No, don't ever let me win

Overall Meaning

The Cardigans' "Hold Me" is a song about relationship insecurity and the internal struggle that arises when one wants love but fears vulnerability. The singer asks for their lover to hold them close, but warns them not to get too close or to leave them alone. Their contradictory statements speak to the push-pull nature of many intimate relationships. The singer wants to feel loved but is afraid of being hurt or abandoned. They ask for touch but warn not to reach, asking to be held but not kept. They ask to be saved but not forsaken, showing their fear of being left alone. Despite this contradictory nature, the singer still seeks the comfort and intimacy that comes with a relationship. They want love but don't want to admit it, as seen in the lines "I believe in me and you / So don't ever say you do." Their fear of rejection causes them to hide their true feelings.


The chorus repeats "Don't ever let me win / Just hold me," showing that the singer wants to be held but doesn't want to be the one to come out on top in the relationship. They give themselves up to their lover and ask for their care, but also warn against greed and the dangers of wanting too much. They want love but don't want to become too attached or vulnerable.


Overall, "Hold Me" is a poignant look at the internal struggles that can come with romantic relationships. It shows the difficulty of letting oneself be vulnerable and the fear of being hurt that often comes with opening up to someone else.


Line by Line Meaning

Hold me, don't ever leave me
Stay by my side and do not abandon me


Know me, never believe me
Understand who I am, but do not trust everything I say


Stay here but don't get too near me
Stay in my life but do not invade my personal space


Leave me, leave me alone
Sometimes I need to be alone, so please respect my space


But don't ever let me go
Even though I may push you away, I still need you to be there for me


Show me, but don't ever teach me
I want to learn and understand things on my own, but you can still guide me


Touch me, don't try to reach me
I want physical affection, but I may withdraw emotionally


Hold me but don't ever keep me
Show me love and support, but do not control me


Baby, don't ever let me in
I may have walls up, but I still want you to be there for me


And don't let me win
Do not let me manipulate or control situations


'cause I leave myself to you
I trust you with my true self


Yes, I release myself with you
I am comfortable and vulnerable with you


I believe in me and you
I have faith in our relationship and the bond we share


So don't ever say you do
Do not make promises you cannot keep


Love me, try not to need me
Love me for who I am, not for what I can do for you


Need me but don't let the greed in
You can depend on me, but do not take advantage of me


Feel free but don't ever leave me
I want you to be independent, but I need you in my life


Give in, don't ever let me
Do not let me control or manipulate you


No, don't ever let me win
Do not let me have power over you


Ask me but don't ever make me
You can request things of me, but I want to make my own decisions


Save me, don't ever forsake me
I want your support and love, not abandonment


Call me but don't ever say my name
I want to be connected with you, but I also want my privacy


Know what you do
Understand the impact of your actions and decisions


And you say "nina nina ninana...."
Vocals with no specific meaning


Now how can I let you go?
I cannot imagine being without you


Love me but don't ever let me
Love and care for me, but do not let me control you


No, don't ever let me win
Do not let me have power or control over you




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: NINA PERSSON, PETER ANDERS SVENSSON

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Fatih Katmerci

Hold me, don't ever leave me
Know me, never believe me
Stay here but don't get too near me
Leave me, leave me alone
But don't ever let me go
Show me, but don't ever teach me
Touch me, don't try to reach me
Hold me but don't ever keep me
Baby, don't ever let me in
And don't let me win
'cause I leave myself to you
Yes, I release myself with you
I believe in me and you
So don't ever say you do
Love me, try not to need me
Need me but don't let the greed in
Feel free but don't ever leave me
Give in, don't ever let me
No, don't ever let me win
Hold me, don't ever leave me
Ask me but don't ever make me
Save me, don't ever forsake me
Call me but don't ever say my name
Know what you do
'cause I leave myself to you
Yes I release myself with you
I believe in me and you
So don't ever say you do
Don't let me win
Just hold me
And you say "nina nina ninana...."
Now how can I let you go?
Hold me, don't ever leave me
Love me but don't ever let me
No, don't ever let me win...

THANX FOR THIS GOOD SONG...