I Wanna Be Your Lover
The Cascades Lyrics


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You don't now the way I feel, oh no
Well, you think we're just friends
So I go along like nothing's wrong
But I know that is only pretense

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(don't wanna be your friend)

Well I don't kow what to tell you, oh no
I just can't find the words
Cause there's so many things That I wanna say
But I just don't know where to begin

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(don't wanna be your friend)

You don't know just how much I love you
Though it's easy to see
Cause if you knew how much I love you
And maybe someday, well you might love me

So I hope in time you'll love me, oh yeah
Love me as I love yu
But if this can't be, I'd rather see
The whole thing come to an end

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(don't wanna be your friend)





No I don't wanna be your friend
(don't wanna be your friend)

Overall Meaning

The Cascadesโ€™ โ€œI Wanna Be Your Loverโ€ is a popular love song that explores the frustration and longing of unrequited love. The singer professes his love for the subject of the song, but feels stuck in the โ€œfriend zoneโ€. He is unable to express his feelings to her directly, so he pretends that he is content with their friendship. The lyrics express a strong desire to be something more than just friends, but the singer is afraid to take the risk of confessing his true feelings, fearing that it could ruin the relationship entirely. He hopes that, with time, she will come to love him too, but he acknowledges that they may never have a romantic relationship at all.


The song is filled with unfulfilled desires and emotions. The repetition of the line โ€œI wanna be your lover, I donโ€™t wanna be your friendโ€ emphasizes the singerโ€™s desperation and determination. The lyrics suggest that love is complicated, and sometimes it requires taking a leap of faith. The songโ€™s dreamy melodic quality adds to its sense of longing and yearning.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't know the way I feel, oh no
You are unaware of the intensity of my emotions towards you


Well, you think we're just friends
You perceive our relationship as platonic


So I go along like nothing's wrong
I act as if everything is fine


But I know that is only pretense
But it is simply an act, a pretense


I wanna be your lover (I wanna be your lover)
I desire to be in a romantic relationship with you


I don't wanna be your friend (don't wanna be your friend)
I do not desire a friendship with you


Well I don't know what to tell you, oh no
I do not know how to express my feelings to you verbally


I just can't find the words
I am at a loss for words to describe my feelings towards you


Cause there's so many things That I wanna say
There are numerous things I wish to express


But I just don't know where to begin
However, I do not know where to start


You don't know just how much I love you
You are unaware of the extent of my love for you


Though it's easy to see
Although it should be evident


Cause if you knew how much I love you
If you are cognizant of the intensity of my love for you


And maybe someday, well you might love me
There is a possibility that you may reciprocate my love someday


So I hope in time you'll love me, oh yeah
I aspire for you to love me eventually


Love me as I love you
To love me as much as I love you


But if this can't be, I'd rather see
However, if this is not possible, I prefer for our relationship to end


The whole thing come to an end
For us to terminate our relationship altogether


No I don't wanna be your friend (don't wanna be your friend)
I reiterate that I do not desire a platonic friendship with you




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Quinnie Myell Rayiane Glinogo

You don't know the way I feel, oh no
Well, you think we're just friends
So I go along, like nothing's wrong
But I know that is only pretense

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)

Well, I don't know what to tell you, oh no
I just can't find the words
'Cause there's so many things That I wanna say
But I just don't know where to begin

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)

You don't know just how much I love you
Though it's easy to see
'Cause if you knew how much I love you
And maybe someday, well, you might love me

So I hope in time you'll love me, oh yeah
Love me as I love yu
But if this can't be, I'd rather see
The whole thing come to an end

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)
I don't wanna be your friend



All comments from YouTube:

The Cricketeer

That's just the song I wanted at this moment. Friendzoned :'^(

Rene Mercolita

@The Cricketeer aa

The Cricketeer

@Frankie Fox thank you!

Frankie Fox

@The Cricketeer I'm happy for you

The Cricketeer

@Frankie Fox thanks a lot, Frankie. But I'm okay with it now. Just had a hard time accepting it; but I did, eventually.

Frankie Fox

you'll be okay :)

Quinnie Myell Rayiane Glinogo

You don't know the way I feel, oh no
Well, you think we're just friends
So I go along, like nothing's wrong
But I know that is only pretense

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)

Well, I don't know what to tell you, oh no
I just can't find the words
'Cause there's so many things That I wanna say
But I just don't know where to begin

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)

You don't know just how much I love you
Though it's easy to see
'Cause if you knew how much I love you
And maybe someday, well, you might love me

So I hope in time you'll love me, oh yeah
Love me as I love yu
But if this can't be, I'd rather see
The whole thing come to an end

I wanna be your lover
(I wanna be your lover)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)
I don't wanna be your friend
(Don't wanna be your friend)
I don't wanna be your friend

NOOM NONT

Beautiful song.!!

Allexes jay Carillo Flores

Still listening 2020 quarantine days ๐Ÿ˜‚

Mabel Jones Alim

Cascades songs will never be forgotten they'll be people in the whole world's all time favorite

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