A Lonely Man
The Chi-Lites Lyrics


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Ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...
Doo...doo...doo...
You better let me tell you
Ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...ah...
Doo...doo...doo...

You better let me tell you
You know some time ago our pathways parted
Now you may have found bliss
But I found regret
Maybe you can smile, maybe even laugh
Yeah, but all the while
I'm trying to forget

Tears cannot express my grief nor words my loneliness
For they can only tell apart
Let my heart tell you the rest
I would season every day of my life with you
You better let me tell you
I would show you just what it means to be true, girl
You better let me tell you

'Cause after love has come and gone, baby, I'm the lonely one
Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh... [Ooh...ooh...]
Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh... [Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh...]
But why should a man be lonely
[Why should a man be lonely, why should a man be lonely]
When he had someone like you
How can I make you believe
That I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]
Yes, I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]
Oh, I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]

I would sweeten every hour of my day with you
You better let me tell you
I would give you all the things a good lady would need
You better let me tell you
For you I?d save up all of my time, give you every dime
For you, girl, you better let me tell you
'Cause after love has come and gone, baby, I'm the lonely one
Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh... [Ooh...ooh...]
Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh... [Ooh...ooh...ooh...ooh...]

But why should a man be lonely
[Why should a man be lonely, why should a man be lonely]
When he had someone like you
How can I make you believe
That I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]
Yes, I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]
Oh, I got to have you, baby [Got to have you, baby]

I got to travel alone
Down life's highway
Searching faces, some old, some new
Seeking someone whom I need the most
I know there can't be two
Yeah, I'm searching for someone
Who's the closest thing to you
Gotta go on, gotta go on
I'm so lonely, I gotta go, I'm so lonely, gotta go, yeah...

Oh, I just gotta go
I said, baby, baby, baby, baby, oh
I just-just-just-just got to go (I've got to go, I've got to go)
I'm so lonely (Hey), I gotta go (Oh), I'm so lonely, gotta go, yeah...
(Gotta go on, yeah, yeah)
(Oh, I gotta go, I gotta go, I just gotta go)
Gotta go on, gotta go on
I'm so lonely, I gotta go, I'm so lonely, yeah...yeah
I've just gotta go
Hey, hey, got to, got to, oh, I got to, I just to go on




(I've got to go, I've got go)
I'm so lonely (Hey), I gotta go (Oh)

Overall Meaning

The Chi-Lites’ song, A Lonely Man, is a heartbreaking ballad that tells the story of a man who lost the love of his life, but still can’t move on. It’s a story about the pain of unrequited love and the despair of searching for someone who can replace the one who got away. The opening verse speaks about the singer and his former lover who have gone their separate ways. While the woman may have moved on and found happiness, the singer is still struggling to forget her. He is alone, regretful, and deeply saddened by the loss of what they once had.


The chorus repeats the phrase, “Why should a man be lonely when he has someone like you?” The singer is addressing his former lover, trying to convince her to come back to him. He offers to give her everything she needs, to sweeten every hour of her day, and to love her wholly and completely. He ultimately recognizes that he cannot convince her or make her believe, and he must continue his search for a love that can heal his broken heart. The song ends with the singer on his own, still searching for a love he can never quite replace.


Overall, the song is a poignant and powerful exploration of the pain of lost love and the desperate longing to feel that connection once again. The lyrics are incredibly emotional and raw, with a unique and powerful delivery from the lead singer. It’s easy to see why the song has endured for so long and continues to resonate with listeners today.


Line by Line Meaning

You better let me tell you
The singer wants to convey something important


You know some time ago our pathways parted
The singer is referring to a past relationship that ended


Now you may have found bliss
The singer assumes that his former partner has moved on and found happiness


But I found regret
The singer admits to feeling regret over the way things ended


Maybe you can smile, maybe even laugh
The singer acknowledges that his former partner may seem happy now


Yeah, but all the while, I'm trying to forget
Despite this, the singer is still struggling to forget about the past


Tears cannot express my grief nor words my loneliness
The singer is saying that his pain is so great that words and tears cannot convey it adequately


For they can only tell apart
Words and tears can only communicate part of what the singer is feeling


Let my heart tell you the rest
The singer wants to communicate the full extent of his emotions and feelings


I would season every day of my life with you
The singer would do everything in his power to make his former partner happy if they were still together


I would show you just what it means to be true, girl
The singer is emphasizing that he would be a faithful partner if given the chance


'Cause after love has come and gone, baby, I'm the lonely one
The singer is expressing that even after the relationship has ended, he is still alone and unhappy


But why should a man be lonely when he had someone like you
The singer is wondering why he is still alone when he had such a wonderful partner in the past


How can I make you believe that I got to have you, baby
The singer is expressing to his former partner that he still feels strongly about them


I would sweeten every hour of my day with you
The singer would make every moment with his partner feel special and enjoyable


I would give you all the things a good lady would need
The singer is emphasizing that he would be a good partner who would take care of his loved one's needs


For you, I'd save up all of my time, give you every dime
The singer is willing to go to great lengths to make his former partner happy


'Cause after love has come and gone, baby, I'm the lonely one
The singer reiterates that he is still alone and unhappy without his former partner


I got to travel alone down life's highway
The singer is expressing that he now has to move forward in life without his former partner


Searching faces, some old, some new
The singer is trying to find someone new to share his life with


Seeking someone whom I need the most
The singer is looking for a partner who he feels a deep emotional connection with


I know there can't be two
The singer understands that he can't be with two people at once and needs to make a choice


Yeah, I'm searching for someone who's the closest thing to you
The singer is expressing that he is hoping to find someone who reminds him of his former partner


Gotta go on, gotta go on
The singer is expressing that he needs to keep moving forward in life, even if it is difficult


I'm so lonely, I gotta go, I'm so lonely, gotta go, yeah...
The singer is expressing that he is lonely and needs to move on in life




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: EUGENE RECORD, J. EDWARD HAYCRAFT

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Comments from YouTube:

Donald Clark

45 years later... these harmonies make me feel good and takes me back to my innocence.

Cecilia Diana Francis

teenage love was alive and well.

John Robertson

the best

Derrick Edney

This is a true love song that will outlast the age of time! The Chi-lites were the 70's R&B musical giants and did put forth some memorable love songs, but A LONELY MAN proved to be their best song EVER! Thanks for the post!

Charles Perry-Kelly

Sing on!

Six Three

Classic Chi-lites.   This song brings out the true meaning of relationships good and bad.  Let the lyrics tell you the rest.

CJ Jeanie

Ohhh My; I remember my Big brother growing up getting ready for school playing this.  Wow, over 45 years later still sound sooo GOOD!!!  Thanks for posting

Realmusiclover1957

By far one of the most harmonious groups in the industry & most under-rated. If you really listen to The Chi-Lites you will notice they have the most perfect tone in their vocal illustrations.

Johnny Campbell

For sure

DEVINE JUSTICE ALLAH!!

One of the best harmonizing groups ever.Right up there with The Dells.

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