Are You My Woman?
The Chi-Lites Lyrics


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Seems to be a misunderstanding
Bout who you belong to
I'm tired of he saying, she saying

I don't know where he came from
But he better go back where he's been
Cause I don't want my heart broken
Don't wanna commit no sin

Cause I'm so tired
Oh, you set my soul on fire
I'm so tired
Well, you set my soul on fire

Are you my woman, tell me so
Are you my woman, tell me so
Are you my woman, tell me so
Are you my woman, let me go

Just get on down

Don't you know that
I'll never be the same, no
Cause you know my life
Is in your name

Girl, I really, really
Hate to lose you
Ah, just got to keep on moving

Cause I'm so tired
Oh, you set my soul on fire
I'm so tired
Well, you set my soul on fire





Are you my woman, tell me so
Are you my woman, tell me so

Overall Meaning

"Are You My Woman" was a 1970s hit by the R&B group, The Chi-Lites. The song is characterized by its funky, catchy groove and its vivid portrayal of a romantic triangle. In interpreting the lyrics, it is clear that the singer is experiencing conflict over his romantic feelings for a woman who may or may not be committed to someone else. He is unsatisfied with the rumors and gossip surrounding her love life, however, his ultimate desire is to determine the nature of their relationship, and whether or not she truly belongs to him.


In the song, the singer expresses frustration with all the "he said-she said" surrounding the woman's affections, and warns the other man to stay away. However, the singer expresses a conflict of conscience that signals his rebellion against risking heartbreak or committing any wrongdoing, towards the lady in the center of the drama. He acknowledges being tired of the uncertainties and that she sets his heart on fire.


The singer then delivers his most direct plea to the woman. He asks her to tell him if she is his woman or not, echoing the central question of the song's title. His tone becomes more urgent as he repeats this question throughout the song, raising the suspense in listeners. Despite his pleading, however, he realizes he has to let her go, causing him great sadness.


In summary, the song is an honest reflection of love, jealousy, and obsession. The struggles of the singer are not unique, he is a man going through the timeless struggle of whether his love interest is truly interested in him too.


Line by Line Meaning

Seems to be a misunderstanding
There appears to be a lack of understanding or confusion about something


Bout who you belong to
About who you are supposed to be with


I'm tired of he saying, she saying
I am exhausted by hearing different rumors and opinions about us from other people


I don't know where he came from
I am unsure of where he originated from


But he better go back where he's been
He should return to where he came from


Cause I don't want my heart broken
I do not want to experience the pain of a broken heart


Don't wanna commit no sin
I do not want to do anything wrong or immoral


Cause I'm so tired
I am exhausted and worn out


Oh, you set my soul on fire
You excite and ignite my passion and desire


Are you my woman, tell me so
Confirm whether you truly belong to me or not


Are you my woman, let me go
If you are not mine, then please let me move on


Just get on down
Let us just continue dancing and enjoying ourselves


Don't you know that
Do you not realize


I'll never be the same, no
My life will never be the same without you


Cause you know my life
You are aware of how much I am affected by you


Is in your name
You have a significant role in my life and have influenced me greatly


Girl, I really, really
I seriously, honestly


Hate to lose you
I do not want to lose you


Ah, just got to keep on moving
I have to continue moving forward and leave you behind




Lyrics © Royalty Network, Peermusic Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: EUGENE RECORD

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