Don't Let Me Be the Man My Daddy Was
The Chi-Lites Lyrics


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He's worth more

Than every star in the sky

With that look of forgiveness

That's always in his eyes
He works so hard

But gentle as a lamb

He gave up so much

To make me just what I am and, oh

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

When I was young

Sometimes foolishly I played

But he reached out and, oh

Showed me the way

Now he's only human

And bound to make mistakes

But it was all right

By the moment I would awake and, oh

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

Sometimes I hope

I don't live to see the day

When he reaches down

And take them both away

And look at my children

Sometimes foolishly they play

Let me live long enough

Let me show them the way

My clothes were sometimes untidy

And that bed was never made

But mom and dad would scold me good

Never doubted I've made the grade

But now that I'm a man

I ask the Lord up above

Please let me raise my children right

And be the man my daddy was and, oh

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

Oh, let me be

The man my daddy was

He was a good man

He was a poor man





Oh, let me be

Overall Meaning

The Chi-Lites' song Let Me Be The Man My Daddy Was is a heartwarming tribute to a kind and loving father. The lyrics express the deep respect and admiration the singer has for his dad, who is described as being worth more than every star in the sky. His father's forgiveness is also highlighted, shown by the look that's always in his eyes. Despite working hard, the father is gentle and gave up a lot to make the singer who he is. The chorus drives home the point of the song, with the singer requesting to be like his dad, to be the man his daddy was.


The verses go on to recount how the father helped guide the singer when he was young, sometimes foolishly playing. The father's humanity is also acknowledged, with the realization that he's bound to make mistakes. Nevertheless, the singer's faith in his father remains unshaken. The song tugs at the heartstrings, especially when the singer expresses hope that he'll be able to raise his children right and be like his father.


Line by Line Meaning

He's worth more
The singer's father has immeasurable value to him.


Than every star in the sky
His father's worth is indescribable and impossible to measure in comparison to anything else.


With that look of forgiveness
The singer's father consistently conveys an expression of forgivingness.


That's always in his eyes
The expression of forgiveness in his father's eyes is constant and unwavering.


He works so hard
The artist's father is a diligent and hardworking man.


But gentle as a lamb
His father's nature is soft and tender like that of a lamb.


He gave up so much
The singer's father sacrificed a lot for his children's well-being.


To make me just what I am and, oh
The father's sacrifices are what molded the artist into who he is now.


Oh, let me be The man my daddy was Oh, let me be The man my daddy was
The artist aspires to be like his father and follow in his footsteps.


When I was young Sometimes foolishly I played But he reached out and, oh Showed me the way
As a child, the son made mistakes but the father was always there to guide him and show him the right path.


Now he's only human And bound to make mistakes But it was all right By the moment I would awake and, oh
The father, being human, isn't perfect and is prone to making mistakes. However, his love and care for his son are unwavering.


Sometimes I hope I don't live to see the day When he reaches down And take them both away
The artist fears the thought of losing his father and hopes he passes away before his children do.


And look at my children Sometimes foolishly they play Let me live long enough Let me show them the way
The singer hopes to live long enough to guide his own children, the way his father guided him.


My clothes were sometimes untidy And that bed was never made But mom and dad would scold me good Never doubted I've made the grade
As a child, the singer was scolded for not always having tidy clothes or an unmade bed, but his parents never doubted his academic success.


But now that I'm a man I ask the Lord up above Please let me raise my children right And be the man my daddy was and, oh
As an adult, the singer prays to be able to emulate his father's parenting and raise his own children well.


He was a good man He was a poor man Oh, let me be
Despite being poor, the artist's father was a great man and the artist hopes to be like him.




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