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Stoned out of My Mind
The Chi-Lites Lyrics


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Baby, when I found out you were lyin'

Playin' around and connivin'

Undesired tears I was cryin'

'Cause sugar coated lies I was buyin'

I was just a backseat driver in a car of love

Goin' wherever you take me

Don't know why I put up with the pain

'Cause nobody else could make me

You got me goin'

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin', hey, hey

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin'

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin', hey, hey

(Stoned out of my mind)

When you led me to the water I drank it

Man, I drank more than I could hold

When you took my mind and body

You know you wanna take my soul

Where can I run

Where can I hide

Who can I talk to

Tell me what, what can I do

You got me goin'

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin', hey, hey

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin'

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin', hey, hey

(Stoned out of my mind)

Hee, you got me goin'

(Stoned out of my mind)

You got me goin', hey hey

(Stoned out of my mind)

Been around with every guy in town

(Stoned out of my mind)

Funny but I just can't put you down

(Stoned out of my mind)

Overall Meaning

The Chi-Lites' song "Stoned out of My Mind" tells the story of a man who has been deceived by his lover, causing him to feel lost and powerless in the relationship. The lyrics describe the pain and frustration he feels upon discovering his lover's lies and the struggles he faces to move on from the toxic relationship.


The opening lyrics reveal the man's vulnerability upon realizing that his lover has been unfaithful. He has been crying tears of disappointment and frustration because he believed the "sugar-coated lies" that she was telling him. Despite the pain he is experiencing, he continues to remain in the "car of love" as a passenger while his lover drives the relationship wherever she wants.


Throughout the song, the man expresses his feelings of being lost and trapped, as if he cannot escape the relationship. He compares himself to a person who is "stoned out of [his] mind," suggesting that the relationship is a drug that he cannot stop using. The repetition of the phrase "you got me goin'" emphasizes his inability to resist his lover's charm and her hold over him.


Overall, the lyrics of "Stoned out of My Mind" express the anguish, frustration, and powerlessness of a man who has been deceived by his lover. The use of metaphors and vivid imagery help to convey the depth of his emotions and the turmoil he is experiencing.


Line by Line Meaning

Baby, when I found out you were lyin'
When I discovered that you were being dishonest


Playin' around and connivin'
Engaging in deceptive and manipulative behavior


Undesired tears I was cryin'
Crying tears of sadness and disappointment


'Cause sugar coated lies I was buyin'
Because I believed the false and sweet-tasting lies you were telling me


I was just a backseat driver in a car of love
I had no control in the relationship and was just being taken wherever you wanted to go


Goin' wherever you take me
Following your lead and going wherever you went


Don't know why I put up with the pain
I don't understand why I tolerated the emotional pain you caused me


'Cause nobody else could make me
No one else had the power to make me feel the way you did


When you led me to the water I drank it
When you presented me with an opportunity, I took it eagerly


Man, I drank more than I could hold
I took in more than I can handle


When you took my mind and body
When you had control over my thoughts and physical actions


You know you wanna take my soul
You want to have complete control over me, even my very being


Where can I run
I feel trapped and can't escape this situation


Where can I hide
I can't find a safe space to avoid being hurt


Who can I talk to
I have no one to confide in about my struggles


Tell me what, what can I do
I'm at a loss for what action to take to improve my situation


Been around with every guy in town
You've been with many other men before me


Funny but I just can't put you down
I find it ironic that I can't seem to let go of you, despite the hurt you've caused me




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@cherylcade334

Wow what a great classic. I graduated from high school in 1973 and i remember listening to this song on an R&B radio station. Along with so many other great hits from that time. Songs that still sound good today! ❤ i loved watching Soul Train on Saturday mornings and dancing the day away...good memories/good times.

@shirleybutler2623

OMG Cheryl You just hit a homerun with those comments 🎯I'm back here again can't help it this beautiful classic just moves one's soul in the right direction 4SURE!!!!! We were blessed we grew up on this magical sound so grateful to have lived through this era of beautiful music this kind of music will never go out of style 😂😛💃💖The lyrics that yank ur heartstrings for decades💞💞Do U Agree?? I will always have ode skool music in my blood 4EVER!!!!Can't have it no other way AMEN!!! Cheryl SOUL TRAIN Hell Yeah every Saturday morning. 💃💃💃😛😛 A trip down memory lane good ode days 🎯❤️❤️ I graduated in 1974. Cheryl we may be older now but we definitely young at HEART 🥰🥰🥰🥰Still listening how you July 06 2022

@dortheamcnulty3098

1974

@mikehorgan6025

one of those under-rated classics by the mighty Chi-Lites !!!!!

@derrickpowell5531

Yep!

@ebntje

Actually my favorite from the Chi Lites.

@NOV123

I don’t see how when it almost topped the charts

@dalewimbish1435

N eye neighborhood they were never underrated ❤❤🎉

@shermanw711

Only to those who are not true fans classic !🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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@dkt1976dt

It's 50 years later and this song still sounds great, my parents were both 18 in 1973 and we're crazy in love with each other. They would get married a year later in November of 1974 and just celebrated 48 years of marriage.

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