Same Old Same Old
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I wanna leave you
I wanna lose us
I wanna give up
But I won't

I wanna miss this
I want a heartache
I wanna run away
But I won't

Do I love you
Oh, I do
And I'm going to 'til I'm gone
But if you think that I can stay in this
Same old, same old
Well, I don't
I don't

I'm gonna break things
I'm gonna cross the line
And make you wake up
'Cause you won't

I'm gonna name names,
I'm gonna call us out
I'm gonna say it
If you won't

'Cause do I love you
Oh, I do
And I'm going to 'til I'm gone
But if you think that I can stay in this
Same old, same old
Well, I don't

Oh I don't wanna fight
But I'll fight with you
If I have to, If I have to

Do I love you
Oh, I do
And I'm going to 'til I'm gone
But if you think that I can stay in this
Same old, same old
Same old, same old




Well, I don't
I don't

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Civil Wars's song Same Old Same Old convey a sense of frustration and weariness in a relationship that seems stale and repetitive. The singer expresses a desire to break free from this pattern, to leave and give up, but also to stay and work on the relationship. The lyrics are full of contradictions, highlighting the complexity of emotions involved in a struggling relationship.


The singer expresses a longing for change and growth, but also acknowledges their own limitations and fears. They want to break things and cross lines, but they also don't want to fight. Ultimately, the lyrics suggest that the singer is willing to work on the relationship and fight for it, but only if there is a real chance for something new and different.


The song is a powerful reflection on the challenges and rewards of love, and the difficulties of breaking free from old patterns and habits. The Civil Wars's haunting vocals and sparse instrumentation add to the emotional depth of the lyrics, creating a poignant and powerful track that resonates with listeners.


Line by Line Meaning

I wanna leave you
I have the desire to walk away from you


I wanna lose us
I wish for us to be apart and no longer a couple


I wanna give up
I feel like giving up on our relationship


But I won't
However, I will not give up on us


I wanna miss this
I want to feel nostalgic about us


I want a heartache
I desire to be hurt and suffer due to our relationship


I wanna run away
I would like to escape from our relationship's problems


But I won't
Despite that, I will not run away from our relationship


Do I love you
I wonder if I still love you


Oh, I do
Yes, I still love you


And I'm going to 'til I'm gone
I will continue to love you until the end of my life


But if you think that I can stay in this
However, if you believe that I am willing to stay in this current state of our relationship


Same old, same old
Which is repetitive and unchanging


Well, I don't
Then you are wrong, I do not want that


I'm gonna break things
I will take action and break the usual pattern of our relationship


I'm gonna cross the line
I will behave in ways that are not acceptable in our usual pattern of relationship


And make you wake up
My actions will force you to realize the problems in our relationship


'Cause you won't
You have been ignoring our relationship's issues


I'm gonna name names,
I will point out the individuals who have caused problems in our relationship


I'm gonna call us out
I will point out the issues within our relationship and hold us responsible


I'm gonna say it
I will speak up about our relationship's problems


If you won't
If you refuse to acknowledge our issues


'Cause do I love you
Back to questioning whether I love you


Oh, I do
But, yes, I still love you


And I'm going to 'til I'm gone
It is my intention to continue loving you forever


But if you think that I can stay in this
However, if you expect me to continue being in this unchanging state of our relationship


Same old, same old
Which is mundane, monotonous and unsatisfactory


Well, I don't
Then you are mistaken, I do not want that


I don't wanna fight
I do not wish to argue with you


But I'll fight with you
However, if push comes to shove, I will argue with you to make things right


If I have to, If I have to
If that is what it takes to save our relationship




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Written by: JOY WILLIAMS, JOHN WHITE

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@RussianRanger47

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