Bruised
The Connells Lyrics


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So, they say I'm doing fine
And they say you're a friend of mine
That's very moving
But it's not really soothing
Insincere and color blind

Hey, ain't it funny?
Everybody knows how my skin shows

So, they say I'm doing fine
They've got nothing on me but time
Time to talk about it
Yeah, that's where I'm going
Do they really know how fine?

Hey, ain't it funny?
Everybody knows how my skin shows
Black and bruised




Hey, ain't it funny?
Everybody sees how my skin shows but you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Connells's song Bruised speak of a person who has been hurt emotionally or physically and is being told that they are doing okay. However, the singer feels that the comments are not sincere and that the people saying it are "color blind" or unaware of the pain they are feeling. The opening lines of the song capture this sentiment, with the singer saying that they are being told that they are doing fine but it is not really soothing. The second verse of the song speaks of how people have time to talk about the singer's situation, but they wonder if the people really know how fine they are.


The chorus of the song further emphasizes the feeling of being misunderstood and sidelined when it comes to their pain. The line "everybody knows how my skin shows" serves as a metaphor for the way the singer is perceived - superficially and without any real understanding of what is happening inside. The last line of the chorus, "hey, ain't it funny, everybody sees how my skin shows but you" shows that there is at least one person who understands the depth of the pain the singer is feeling.


The song expresses the universal experience of feeling like people aren't really seeing one's pain or acknowledging the struggle that one is going through. It is a poignant reminder that sometimes, people can be insensitive or unaware of the true impact of difficult situations. The Connells's Bruised is a powerful and emotional song that resonates with many people who have felt unseen or unheard.


Line by Line Meaning

So, they say I'm doing fine
People tell me things are good, but they don't know the truth behind my situation.


And they say you're a friend of mine
They also claim to know you and that we are friends.


That's very moving
Their words are emotional and sympathetic.


But it's not really soothing
Despite the kind words, they don't have a real solution to my pain.


Insincere and color blind
Their words lack authenticity and they fail to see the true extent of my struggles.


Hey, ain't it funny?
A rhetorical question highlighting the irony of the situation.


Everybody knows how my skin shows
People can see the visible signs of my emotional and physical pain.


So, they say I'm doing fine
People continue to make assumptions about my wellbeing.


They've got nothing on me but time
People have no true understanding of my inner turmoil and struggles, and all I have is time to address them.


Time to talk about it
I need time to vocalize my pain and seek help.


Yeah, that's where I'm going
I am moving towards addressing my pain and seeking healing.


Do they really know how fine?
A question to challenge the previous assumption that everything is 'fine'.


Black and bruised
Describing the physical and emotional pain and damage that is visible.


Hey, ain't it funny?
Reiterating the irony of the situation where everyone can see the visible signs of pain except one person.


Everybody sees how my skin shows but you
Highlighting the one person who sees beyond the visible signs and understands my true pain and struggles.




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B Bloem


on In my Head

I always thought this was being sung to an aborted baby.