Something To Say
The Connells Lyrics


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Oh, you never learned the 'Whens' and 'Wheres' and 'Whys'
And I still believe that you were dying to be everything
To everyone and for all time
Ah, the golden boy did you stop trying?

Did it turn out stale, or did it simply lose its wonder?
Could you hold it up from out and under?
Does the distance seem to dim-dumb-dim your memory?
Does the distance seem to fell the hunger?

So, you're left with your thoughts and where do you go
Out the window or an open door
And once you believed they could keep you awake
It's so deceiving

So, you talk to yourself and what do you know
You answer back with a, "Don't say so"
And once you believed you had something to say
It's so deceiving

So, you never learned the way to hold a crowd
And it turns out now that you were dying to be everything
To everyone and for all time
Ah, the golden boy did you stop trying?

So you're left with your thoughts and where do you go
Out the window or an open door
And once you believed they could keep you awake
It's so deceiving

So you talk to yourself and what do you know
You answer back with a, "Don't say so"




And once you believed you had something to say
It's so deceiving

Overall Meaning

The Connells's song Something To Say is a poignant reflection on the pressures of living up to the expectations of others, and the consequences of losing oneself in the pursuit of those expectations. The opening lines of the song, "Oh, you never learned the 'Whens' and 'Wheres' and 'Whys'" suggest that the subject of the song never learned the essential elements of life, resulting in a sense of aimlessness and unfulfillment. Despite this, the singer still believes that the subject was "dying to be everything to everyone and for all time", highlighting the immense pressure that can be placed on individuals to meet social expectations.


As the song progresses, the singer questions whether the subject has lost their sense of wonder and purpose, asking "Did it turn out stale, or did it simply lose its wonder?", and "Does the distance seem to dim-dumb-dim your memory? / Does the distance seem to fell the hunger?" The latter questions present the idea that distance, both literal and figurative, has led to a loss of passion and a reduced appetite for life. The chorus then brings us back to the subject's struggles with self-doubt and disappointment, as they talk to themselves and are met with unconvincing answers.


The final verse of the song offers a more sympathetic view, as the singer acknowledges that the subject was never taught how to hold a crowd or deal with the pressures of life. However, despite this lack of guidance, the subject is still left feeling unfulfilled, leading to the same self-doubt and deception that permeates throughout the song.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh, you never learned the 'Whens' and 'Wheres' and 'Whys'
You lack the knowledge of timing, location, and cause


And I still believe that you were dying to be everything
I am convinced that you were so overwhelmed with ambition that you wanted to excel at everything


To everyone and for all time
And you wanted this to last forever and be recognized by everyone


Ah, the golden boy did you stop trying?
I am wondering if you lost your motivation, my once successful and talented friend


Did it turn out stale, or did it simply lose its wonder?
Did your success lose its charm or was it a fleeting phase?


Could you hold it up from out and under?
Could you keep it alive and not let it die?


Does the distance seem to dim-dumb-dim your memory?
Does distance have a dulling effect on your memory?


Does the distance seem to fell the hunger?
Did distance weaken your determination?


So you're left with your thoughts and where do you go
Now that you are alone with your own thoughts, where would they take you?


Out the window or an open door
Would you do anything to escape from your thoughts, like jumping out of a window or walking through an open door?


And once you believed they could keep you awake
You used to think that your thoughts could keep you alert and stimulated


It's so deceiving
But that feeling was just an illusion


So you talk to yourself and what do you know
When you talk to yourself, do you have anything useful to say?


You answer back with a, 'Don't say so'
Or do you argue with yourself and hold back your opinions?


And once you believed you had something to say
You used to think that you had a message to deliver


It's so deceiving
But it turns out that this belief was also false


So, you never learned the way to hold a crowd
You lacked the ability to captivate an audience


And it turns out now that you were dying to be everything
But now it seems that you were simply craving for recognition and power.


To everyone and for all time
You wanted everyone to see how great you were, and you wanted this to last forever.


Ah, the golden boy did you stop trying?
Did you lose your motivation, my once successful and talented friend?




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: MICHAEL CONNELL

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on In my Head

I always thought this was being sung to an aborted baby.

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