Start To Love
The Cowsills Lyrics


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B. Cowsill-B. Cowsill-Pulver

When I walk by her window,
Does she know that I watch her?
Has she heard that I want her.
How do I start to love her?

Maybe if my friends knew her,
Someone could take me to her.
Tell her for me she's pretty.
How do I start to love?

When I see her, with all her friends in town,
Want to show her, that I'm alive and well when she's around.

How can I make her notice?
Know that her eyes are bluer?
How can I get close to her?
How do I start to love?

When I see her with all her friends in town,
Want to show her that I'm alive and well when she's around.

How can I make her notice?
Know that her eyes are bluer?
How can I get close to her?

Hard to begin to love.




It's so hard to begin to love.
Yes, it's hard to love.

Overall Meaning

In the song "Start To Love" by The Cowsills, the singer is expressing his desire to be with a girl whom he admires from a distance. He wonders if she knows that he watches her and wants her. He is unsure of how to begin to love her, but thinks that if his friends knew her, they could facilitate an introduction. He is drawn to her when she is around her friends and wishes to prove to her that he is alive and well when she is near.


The lyrics illustrate the universal struggle of wanting to be with someone but not knowing how to approach them. It highlights the fear of rejection and the uncertainty surrounding starting a new romantic endeavor. The line "hard to begin to love" is a reflection of the challenges that come with falling in love and how it's not always an easy process.


Overall, "Start To Love" is a relatable love song with a catchy melody that captures the excitement and nerves that come with developing feelings for someone.


Line by Line Meaning

When I walk by her window,
As I stroll beside her house, gazing through the window panes, I ponder if she is aware of my yearning affection.


Does she know that I watch her?
Is she cognizant of my surveillance, observing her every move and expression?


Has she heard that I want her.
Has she been informed of the fact that I desire her company and adore her deeply?


How do I start to love her?
What steps should I take to foster a blossoming relationship and cultivate mutual feelings of love?


Maybe if my friends knew her,
Perhaps if my companions were acquainted with her, they could introduce us and facilitate a potential romantic encounter.


Someone could take me to her.
If someone could escort me to her presence, it would alleviate my anxiety and nervousness.


Tell her for me she's pretty.
Could you kindly convey to her that I find her breathtakingly beautiful and captivating?


When I see her, with all her friends in town,
Whenever I catch a glimpse of her in the company of her friends in the vicinity,


Want to show her, that I'm alive and well when she's around.
I wish to demonstrate to her that my existence is meaningful and fulfilling when she is near me.


How can I make her notice?
I wonder what measures I should undertake to make her aware of my existence and stand out amidst the crowd of other potential admirers.


Know that her eyes are bluer?
Is there a way to let her acknowledge that I perceive her dazzling blue eyes to be the most alluring feature of her captivating persona?


How can I get close to her?
What steps can I take to approach her in a way that does not come across as intrusive or unwelcome?


Hard to begin to love.
It is a strenuous endeavor to start loving someone when the likelihood of reciprocity is uncertain or elusive.


It's so hard to begin to love.
It requires immense courage and fortitude to commence the arduous journey of falling in love.


Yes, it's hard to love.
In reality, the process of loving someone is not easy and involves confronting various uncertainties, fears, and vulnerabilities.




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Tom Coss - Connecticut USA

I first saw Susan on The Ed Sullivan Show! I still LOVE HER TODAY! Keep Up The Good Work!!!!

USMC Veteran

Tom Coss she's still good looking in her 50s

Beatles❤Girl

Great song ~ wonderful job on this 7liswoc!

Steven Orsinelli

Love this! i had a crush on her when i was a young man. The band was totally boss!

Veneta Shepherd

Love the bit at 0.36 when her brothers drag her away from the microphone, prompted by her answer of "Miss February" to Hugh Hefner's question of "who do you want to be when you grow up?"  "Not THIS year!" said one of her bros (Paul?) as he grabbed her by the collar lol!  The whole episode is from their appearance on Playboy After Dark which is available on youtube.

Janet Mavis

She's adorable than and now never stopped.

Beth Wade

So talented!

Royalchess1

I had only limited exposure to the Cowsills on my poor quality radio back when the group came out, which I think was monaural. Just recently, I've discovered that the Cowsills were ACTUALLY A REAL FAMILY! I honestly thought they were a group of people put together by a producer so the public would be convinced they were a family. Oh Well! And now I find that they actually have still stayed together making music. And I didn't know how talented (and cute) AND POPULAR Susan was back then. I understand she has to be close to 60?!!

Royalchess1

Les Paul , Let me clarify...I know your choice of BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, then there is CUTE, Grace Vanderwaal and Jackie Evancho are CUTIFUL...cute+beautiful (my conjugation). Suzie Cowsill was cute!

Royalchess1

I was also there for the PARTRIGE FAMILY, I have NO CONFUSION between them and the COWSILLS. And Susan Dey was also cute!

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