It's Not You
The Cure Lyrics


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You wear your smile
Like it was going out of fashion
Dress to inflame
But douse any ideas of passion
You carry your love in a trinket
Hanging round your throat
Always inviting
Always exciting
But I must not take off my coat

Well I'm tired of hanging around
I want somebody new
I'm not sure who I've got in mind
But I know
That it's not you
That it's not you

You ask me questions
That I never wanted to hear
I am the only one
Just until you finish this year
I would murder you
If I had the alibi
Here in my hand
And you just laugh
'cause you don't understand

That I'm tired of hanging around
I want somebody new
I'm not sure
Who I've got in mind
But I know that it's not you
It's not you
It's not you
It's not you
It's not you
It's not you
No it's not you
That it's not you




It's not you
It's not you

Overall Meaning

The song "It's Not You" by The Cure is a prime example of the band's iconic new wave and post-punk sound characterized by synthesizers, drums, and bass. The song's lyrics speak to a situation where the singer feels stuck in a relationship that is no longer fulfilling, while the other partner doesn't seem to understand or recognize the issues. The opening lines "You wear your smile like it was going out of fashion. Dress to inflame but douse any ideas of passion" emphasizes how the partner is trying too hard but lacks emotional depth, leading to a lack of intimacy in the relationship. The line "you carry your love in a trinket hanging round your throat" suggests that the partner displays affection superficially and only for the sake of appearing desirable.


The lyrics reveal a feeling of frustration and dissatisfaction with the relationship as the singer wants to move on to someone new whilst the lyric "Well I'm tired of hanging around, I want somebody new" make it clear. The line "you ask me questions that I never wanted to hear" suggest that the partner is no longer interested in hearing the other's opinions and holds themself higher. The desire for a new relationship is further highlighted in the chorus' repetitive line of "It's not you," which emphasizes the importance of moving on from a stagnant relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You wear your smile Like it was going out of fashion
You put on a facade of happiness that seems fake and forced.


Dress to inflame But douse any ideas of passion
You dress provocatively to attract attention but then quickly shut down any potential for romantic or physical intimacy.


You carry your love in a trinket Hanging round your throat Always inviting Always exciting But I must not take off my coat
You wear a piece of jewelry that symbolizes your love for someone, but while it may seem inviting and exciting, the singer must maintain a distance and not get too close.


Well I'm tired of hanging around I want somebody new I'm not sure who I've got in mind But I know That it's not you That it's not you
The artist is bored with their current situation and desires a change, possibly with someone else. However, they know for certain that it is not the current person they are with.


You ask me questions That I never wanted to hear I am the only one Just until you finish this year
The other person is asking the artist uncomfortable or unwanted questions. The artist is sticking with this person temporarily until a certain point in time, such as the end of the year, possibly due to obligations or convenience.


I would murder you If I had the alibi Here in my hand And you just laugh 'cause you don't understand
The singer expresses violent thoughts towards the other person, but the other person is oblivious and laughs it off, not realizing the severity of the statement.


It's not you It's not you It's not you It's not you It's not you No it's not you That it's not you It's not you It's not you
The chorus repeats, emphasizing that the singer is sure that the person they are with is not the one they want to be with, and that they are seeking something or someone else.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: LAURENCE ANDREW TOLHURST, MICHAEL STEPHEN DEMPSEY, ROBERT JAMES SMITH

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