Is it just me
The Darkness Lyrics


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I know that absence might
Make the heart grow fonder
Or is it 'out of sight'
Out of mind' I wonder

And do you yearn for me
When the nights grow cold
'til death us do part
To have and to hold
I wanna give you my love, my love, my love!

But is it just me or am I all on my own again?
You're up at John O Groats, I'm down in Land's End
On you I depend!

I see your face when I close my eyes,
And there ain't no place
Like between your thighs
Don't want a life alone
All by myself
To honor and trust
In sickness and health
I wanna give you my love, my love, my love!

But is it just me or am I all on my own again?
You're in the Taj Mahal, I'm outside Big Ben
It's driving me round the bend!

Forever and ever
And ever, amen
I wanna give you my love, my love, my love,

Is it just me or am I all on my own again?
Is it just me or am I all on my own again?
You're in the Vatican, I'm in the Yemen




And it feels like the end,
The end!

Overall Meaning

The Darkness's song "Is It Just Me?" is a romantic ballad filled with a mix of longing and insecurity about a lover's feelings. The opening lines show the singer contemplating whether the old adage "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is true or if there is more to it. The chorus reveals the singer's doubts about the relationship and whether they are the only one committed to it. The lyrics reference being apart in different locations such as Land's End and John O Groats, the Taj Mahal and Big Ben, and the Vatican and Yemen. Despite being away from their partner, the singer still yearns to be with them and to give them their love.


The lyrics in "Is It Just Me?" convey the complexities of relationships that occur when people are physically separated. The chorus suggests that despite the singer's desire to be with their partner, they are plagued by doubts about whether their love is reciprocated. This theme is further highlighted in the lines "On you, I depend!" where the singer openly admits to being emotionally reliant on their partner. It is a vulnerable position to be in and one that causes them to ask the question "is it just me?".


The song has a slow tempo and a mixture of acoustic and electric guitars, with the latter becoming more prominent in the chorus. The melody and rhythm comprise a classic rock ballad, which sets the tone for the introspective and pained lyrics. The Darkness's ability to blend rock and pop sensibilities is evident in this track, as they create a sound that is unique yet familiar. Ultimately, "Is It Just Me?" is a powerful and emotive song that captures the joys and sorrows of love.


Line by Line Meaning

I know that absence might
I understand that being away from someone can make you miss and love them more


Make the heart grow fonder
Being away from someone can make you miss and love them more


Or is it 'out of sight'
But maybe the saying 'out of sight, out of mind' is also true


Out of mind' I wonder
I contemplate whether someone who is out of sight is also out of mind


And do you yearn for me
I wonder if you also miss and long for me


When the nights grow cold
Especially when you're feeling lonely or sad


'til death us do part
The wedding vow to stay committed to each other until death


To have and to hold
And to always cherish and care for each other


I wanna give you my love, my love, my love!
I want to express and show you how much I love you


But is it just me or am I all on my own again?
I'm starting to feel like I'm alone in this relationship


You're up at John O Groats, I'm down in Land's End
You're far away from me and I feel like I'm at the opposite end of the country


On you I depend!
I rely and count on you to be there for me


I see your face when I close my eyes,
Even when you're not physically here, I still picture and think about you


And there ain't no place
There's nowhere else that I'd rather be


Like between your thighs
Than being intimately close to you


Don't want a life alone
I don't want to go through life without you by my side


All by myself
Feeling lonely and isolated is not something I desire


To honor and trust
I want to always respect and have faith in the relationship we have


In sickness and health
I want to be there for you and take care of you even when times get tough


Forever and ever
I want this love to last forever


And ever, amen
And never fade away


Is it just me or am I all on my own again?
I'm still uncertain if I'm the only one feeling this way or if you're also distant


You're in the Taj Mahal, I'm outside Big Ben
You're in another part of the world while I'm in a different country entirely


It's driving me round the bend!
It's making me go crazy and I can't handle the distance anymore


And it feels like the end,
This separation is making me feel like this relationship is ending


The end!
And I don't want it to end like this




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: DANIEL FRANCIS HAWKINS, FRANCIS GILLES POULLAIN-PATTERSON, JUSTIN DAVID HAWKINS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@joshgibbs9377

I know that absence mightΒ 
Make the heart grow fonder
Or is it "out of sight
out of mind" I wonder
And do you yearn for me
When the nights grow cold
Til death us do part
To have and to hold
I wanna give you my love, my love, my love

But is it just me or am I all on my own again
You're up at John O'Groats, I'm down in Land's End
On you I depend

I see your faceΒ 
When I close my eyes
And there ain't no place
Like between your thighs
Don't want a life alone
All by myself
To honour and trust
In sickness and health
I wanna give you my love, my love, my love

But is it just me or am I all on my own again
You're at the Taj Mahal, I'm outside Big Ben
It's driving me round the bend

Forever and ever
And ever, amen
I wanna give u my love, my love, my love

But is it just me or am I all on my own again
You're in the Vatican, I'm in the Yemen
And it feels like the end
The end



All comments from YouTube:

@somebody4244

Justin Hawkins is one of the most underrated frontmen of all time. If not the entire band. I just feel like they deserve more success

@Lezleyannshaw

Utterly tremendous live. He makes the audience really feel part of the performance. I mean I am biased as I have a huge crush on Justin!

@PatrickPierceBateman

Drug problems and the sibling rivalry between Dan and Justin threw the band off track. They could have been huge.

@kangabangaz334

They have had more than enough recognition

@louiealcala3623

You're damn right friend

@AlpLimIndFox

Can anyone please tell me what is this song is about?

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@GregGallagher

Goddamnit, why this band was never immensely popular in the US still boggles my mind. They were and still are one of the greatest acts in rock music in general. Even if this album wasn’t the same without Frankie, I’m so glad that made a comeback 10 years ago and have been consistently releasing fantastic albums. I absolutely love this band and I adore Justin Hawkins, what a great frontman and a really smart guy. His YouTube channel is one of my favorites and definitely worth checking out

@MrDMF567

These guys are absolutely hilarious. They make great music and their live show is an absolute must-see. Just an awesome group.

@AlpLimIndFox

Can anyone please tell me what is this song is about?

@squarejawpublishing

The genius of that line cannot be overstated. β€œIs it just me or am I on my own again”.

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