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The Best In Me
The Dells Lyrics


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Party every night as if it's the only thing I know
Mama said I chase too many thrills, need to take it slow
But I got no brakes, I keep my foot on the gas
Been going way too hard, I just hope I don't crash
Girl ever since you left I need something to help me fill the void
Baby our matrimony was unholy
Get drunk to help console me
You walk around like you don't know me
When you used to know me best
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo
You my drug of choice, now you're gone and I'm feeling withdrawals
Deep down I know I should've never got my feelings involved
'Cause I get no sleep without you here in my bed
I'm going nuts, I gotta get you out of my head
I hate the thought of you with someone else and I'm so paranoid
Baby our matrimony was unholy
Get drunk to help console me
You walk around like you don't know me
When you used to know me best
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo
I hate that these memories still get the best of me
Need to get you out of my head
I hate that these memories still get the best of me
Need to get you out of my head
My head
Baby our matrimony was unholy
Get drunk to help console me
You walk around like you don't know me
When you used to know me best
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo
(Used to know me best)
Ooooo

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Dells's song "The Best In Me" convey a sense of longing and heartbreak, exploring the aftermath of a failed relationship. The first verse sets the scene of a protagonist who has been living life to the fullest, indulging in parties and thrills. However, their mother admonishes them for their recklessness and advises them to slow down. Despite this caution, the singer admits to having no brakes and continues to live on the edge. There is a fear of crashing, both metaphorically and possibly literally.


The chorus reveals the central theme of the song – the absence of the person they once loved. The singer feels a void since their departure and seeks comfort in temporary distractions such as drinking. They express frustration as the person now acts as if they are strangers, when they used to know each other intimately. The repetition of the line "Used to know me best" serves to emphasize the loss and sense of betrayal.


In the second verse, the singer acknowledges their dependency on the person they have lost. They liken them to a drug of choice, highlighting the withdrawal symptoms they experience without their presence. The line "I'm going nuts, I gotta get you out of my head" depicts the internal struggle they face in trying to let go. They despise the thought of their former lover being with someone else and admit to being paranoid about it.


The final chorus expresses the ongoing torment caused by memories of the past. The singer recognizes the need to move on and free themselves from the lingering thoughts of their lost love. However, the battle to let go remains an ongoing struggle, as the memories continue to have power over them.


Overall, "The Best In Me" captures the raw emotions of heartbreak, loss, and the difficulty of letting go. It delves into the intense longing for someone who was once everything, and the pain of trying to navigate life without them.


Line by Line Meaning

Party every night as if it's the only thing I know
I constantly engage in wild and extravagant activities, as if they are the only things that define me.


Mama said I chase too many thrills, need to take it slow
My mother cautioned me about my excessive pursuit of excitement and advised me to slow down.


But I got no brakes, I keep my foot on the gas
I have no intention of slowing down; I continue to push forward with unwavering intensity.


Been going way too hard, I just hope I don't crash
I have been living my life excessively and recklessly, and I hope that it does not lead to a destructive outcome.


Girl ever since you left I need something to help me fill the void
Since you departed from my life, I have desperately sought something or someone to fill the deep emptiness within me.


Baby our matrimony was unholy
Our marriage was tainted and impure, lacking the sanctity and righteousness it should have possessed.


Get drunk to help console me
I turn to alcohol as a means of seeking solace and comfort in order to alleviate my emotional pain.


You walk around like you don't know me
You behave as though you are unfamiliar with my existence and have distanced yourself from the deep connection we once shared.


When you used to know me best
There was a time when you possessed the greatest understanding and familiarity with who I truly am.


You my drug of choice, now you're gone and I'm feeling withdrawals
You were the substance of choice that brought me immense pleasure and addiction, and now that you're gone, I am experiencing the painful symptoms of withdrawal.


Deep down I know I should've never got my feelings involved
In my innermost being, I am aware that I made a mistake by allowing myself to become emotionally invested in our relationship.


'Cause I get no sleep without you here in my bed
The absence of your presence beside me in bed prevents me from experiencing any restful sleep.


I'm going nuts, I gotta get you out of my head
I am slowly losing my sanity, and it is imperative that I find a way to remove you from my constant thoughts and obsession.


I hate the thought of you with someone else and I'm so paranoid
The mere idea of you being with another person fills me with intense hatred, fueling my overwhelming sense of paranoia.


I hate that these memories still get the best of me
It frustrates me immensely that these memories continue to have such a profound impact on my emotions and well-being.


Need to get you out of my head
It is crucial for my peace of mind and mental stability that I find a way to remove you from my constant thinking.


My head
All of these conflicting thoughts and memories reside within my mind, causing me great distress and anguish.




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Written by: Dell Ngonga

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