Sticks and Stones
The Divine Comedy Lyrics


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You and I go together like the molar and the drill.
Flesh is weak but darling we know that the ego's weaker still.
I've been hung, drawn and quartered,
Slowly slaughtered like a goat,
By the tongue of a woman who just couldn't let it go.

Sticks and stones may break my body but words can tear me apart.
So be careful what you tell me, spare a thought for my heart.

Broken bones fuse together, bruises never last for long,
But once they're said words stay spoken
And hearts stay broken from that moment on.





Sticks and stones may break my body, but words can tear me apart.
So be careful what you tell me, spare a thought for my heart.

Overall Meaning

In The Divine Comedy's song Sticks and Stones, the lyrics paint a picture of the lasting impact of hurtful words on a person's emotional well-being. The opening line, "You and I go together like the molar and the drill", cleverly sets the stage for the theme of the song, comparing a painful experience like drilling at the dentist's office to being hurt by words. The second line, "Flesh is weak but darling we know that the ego's weaker still", expands on the idea that although physical pain can heal, emotional pain can linger, affecting a person's self-esteem.


The following lines describe the singer's own experiences of being verbally attacked by a woman who could not let go of a grudge. The simile of being "hung, drawn and quartered, slowly slaughtered like a goat" creates a vivid image of the pain the singer felt. The chorus reinforces the idea that physical wounds may heal, but hurtful words can leave lasting scars on a person's heart.


The song ultimately serves as a warning for listeners to be careful with their words, as they have the power to hurt and possibly damage an individual in ways that physical violence cannot. As with much of The Divine Comedy's discography, the lyrics are cleverly crafted, packed full of metaphor and meaning.


Line by Line Meaning

You and I go together like the molar and the drill.
The relationship between you and I is similar to that of a molar and a dental drill; complementary in nature.


Flesh is weak but darling we know that the ego's weaker still.
While our physical body may be feeble, our ego is much more vulnerable.


I've been hung, drawn and quartered, Slowly slaughtered like a goat, By the tongue of a woman who just couldn't let it go.
The singer has been verbally attacked and criticized relentlessly by a woman who could not let go of her grievances against them.


Sticks and stones may break my body but words can tear me apart.
Physical wounds can heal while emotional pain caused by abusive language can have lasting traumatic effects.


So be careful what you tell me, spare a thought for my heart.
Choose your words with care because they can have a lasting impact on my emotional state.


Broken bones fuse together, bruises never last for long, But once they're said words stay spoken And hearts stay broken from that moment on.
Physical injuries can heal over time, but the damage from hurtful words can be long-lasting, causing emotional pain and trauma.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: NEIL HANNON, YANN PIERRE TIERSEN

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