Family
The Dodos Lyrics


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Family, family first
Sworn to be brought up then burst
Quiet car rides
Acknowledgement of
Who is in there, who is inside
Born between desert and storm
And where they meet never gets warm
Quiet car rides
Memories of
Consenting adults reading on us
Caught between
Desert and storm
But further deeds
That living in
Success, success is failure
Failure is unsure
Success, success is failure




Failure is unsure
Success, success is failure

Overall Meaning

The Dodos's song "Family" explores the complexity of familial relationships, love and expectations. The first verse, "Family, family first, Sworn to be brought up then burst" suggests the importance of family as the primary institution in shaping a person's upbringing, but at the same time, acknowledges the possibility of this construct falling apart. The quiet car rides could indicate the tension or discomfort one might experience during family road trips, where acknowledgement of each other is a negotiated experience.


The second verse, "Born between desert and storm, And where they meet never gets warm" portrays the conflict that can exist within a family, and the struggle of reconciling opposing personalities or ideologies. The line "consenting adults reading on us" could imply parents who have their own interests first, and are not necessarily attentive to their children's needs. The chorus, "Success, success is failure, Failure is unsure" suggests the futility of striving for an unattainable ideal. It could also suggest the difficulty in reconciling one's own definition of success with that of their families.


Overall, "Family" highlights the often-difficult balancing act of familial relationships, and the struggles that one might face in attempting to navigate these relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Family, family first
The importance of family is always upheld and given priority


Sworn to be brought up then burst
The promise of being raised well and given freedom to live life later on


Quiet car rides
Silent moments on a journey, where contemplation and reflection take place


Acknowledgement of who is in there, who is inside
Realizing and accepting who one truly is at their core


Born between desert and storm
Being born in a difficult situation, where survival can be a challenge


And where they meet never gets warm
When the difficult situation persists for a long time and there seems to be no solution


Quiet car rides
Moments of contemplation and reflection continue, leading to memories


Memories of consenting adults reading on us
Reminiscing the times when the adults around us were doing their own thing, while we were in the backseat of the car


Caught between desert and storm
Stuck in a tough situation where finding a way out seems nearly impossible


But further deeds that living in success
Despite success, there is always more that can be accomplished


Success, success is failure
The idea that success can lead to more pressure and lead one to fail


Failure is unsure
The fear of failing, and not knowing what will happen next


Success, success is failure
Continuing to repeat the cycle of success leading to pressure and potential failure




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