Lily
The Dodos Lyrics


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Look at yourself, look at me, dear
How did we become this tear?
Why can we learn to subtract?
You are lit, but behind I see black

It’s time against your back
It’s time against your back
I have cleared, dry erase this board
I have steered, I am heading for shore
Don’t look back just to see what it was for
There’s no use, there is nothing more

But time against your back
But time against your back

You won’t speak, when you do you still don’t
I’ve been due, you’re a bitch, you’re a whore
I will love you forevermore
Let’s begin, let us love to destroy





With time against our backs
With time against our backs

Overall Meaning

The Dodos' song "Lily" is a haunting melody that speaks to the complicated and often destructive nature of romantic relationships. The lyrics suggest that the two individuals involved in the relationship are struggling to communicate effectively, and may even feel trapped by the love they share.


The opening lines, "Look at yourself, look at me, dear / How did we become this tear?," suggest that the couple is overwhelmed by their emotions and unable to make sense of what has gone wrong between them. They question why they can't seem to learn from their mistakes and move on.


As the song continues, the singer takes control, declaring that they have "cleared, dry erase[d] this board" and are "heading for shore." Despite this sense of determination, however, they acknowledge that the past can be difficult to shake, and that "time against [their] back" may make it hard to move forward.


The song ends with a sense of ambiguity, as the singer declares their love for their partner but also suggests a willingness to "love to destroy." This suggests that the relationship is both deeply important and potentially destructive, leaving the future uncertain.


Overall, "Lily" is a bittersweet meditation on the complexities of love and the challenges of navigating relationships that have started to sour. The haunting melody and poetic lyrics make for a powerful listening experience that is sure to resonate with anyone who has experienced the highs and lows of romantic love.


Line by Line Meaning

Look at yourself, look at me, dear
We need to reflect on how we got to this point in our relationship together.


How did we become this tear?
How did our relationship come to be in such an emotional state?


Why can we learn to subtract?
Why don’t you see that we need to remove the negative components of our relationship?


You are lit, but behind I see black
You look happy on the surface, but I can see that there are underlying issues.


It’s time against your back
Time is running out for you to address these issues.


I have cleared, dry erase this board
I have removed all the negative aspects of our relationship.


I have steered, I am heading for shore
I am taking control of the situation and trying to navigate us to a safer place.


Don’t look back just to see what it was for
Don’t dwell on the past and the reasons for our current state.


There’s no use, there is nothing more
There’s nothing that can be done to change the past, we need to focus on moving forward.


But time against your back
Despite our efforts, time is still running out for us.


You won’t speak, when you do you still don’t
You’re not communicating effectively and when you do, it’s not helping.


I’ve been due, you’re a bitch, you’re a whore
I’ve been patient with you, even though you have been difficult.


I will love you forevermore
Despite our problems, my love for you is unwavering.


Let’s begin, let us love to destroy
We need to start fresh and rebuild our relationship, even if it means tearing it down first.


With time against our backs
We need to act quickly to save our relationship because time is running out.




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