Someday You'll Want Me to Want You
The Drifters Lyrics


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I don't want to
Go on without you
It's so bad to be alone
Oh baby come home
I need you
My room is so blue
I keep seein' your face
Oh, every place
Here in the gloom
Of my lonely room
I hold her memories
And smell her sweet perfume
I can't stand to
Live on without you
Oh my darlin' hear my plea
C'mon back to me
Here in the gloom
Of my lonely room
I hold her memories
And smell her sweet perfume
I can't stand to
Live on without you
Oh my darlin' hear my plea
C'mon back to me
I can't stand to
Go on without you
Oh my darlin' hear my plea
Go on without you
‘can't stand to (no,no,no,no,)
Go on without you
Oh my darlin' hear my plea

Go on without you.......
I can't stand to.......

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Someday You'll Want Me to Want You," performed by The Drifters and featuring Clyde McPhatter, delve into the profound emotional pain of longing and loneliness after a significant relationship has ended. At the core of this song is an earnest plea from the singer, who expresses a desperate need for their partner's return. The repetition of feelings emphasizes the severity of their loneliness and heartache, presenting a poignant picture of what it means to experience love's absence. The words "I don't want to go on without you" encapsulate the essence of this pain, as they highlight the singer's inability to imagine a fulfilling life without their beloved.


As the lyrics unfold, the imagery of the singer's surroundings plays a crucial role in conveying their emotional state. The "lonely room" filled with "gloom" symbolizes a void left by the departed partner, serving as a physical manifestation of the singer's inner turmoil. This contrast between the once vibrant memories of love and the current desolation underscores the song's melancholic tone. The vivid descriptions of “her memories” and “sweet perfume” evoke nostalgia, showcasing how deeply ingrained the partner's essence is in the singer's life. The room becomes not just a backdrop but a sanctum of memories, trapping the singer in an eternal loop of remembrance and sorrow.


Moreover, the repetitive structure of the chorus reinforces the singer's desperation as they repeatedly implore their partner to return. The phrase "Oh my darlin' hear my plea" acts as both a call for reconciliation and a reflection of vulnerability. The cumulative emotional weight of these declarations reveals the singer's fear of moving forward without their significant other, highlighting the desire for connection and intimacy. There is a sense of urgency in their words, as if time is running out and they fear their feelings might fade into the ether. This dynamic illustrates the inevitability of loss and the acute awareness of love’s temporary nature that accompanies it.


Ultimately, the song captures the complexity of human emotion—the interplay of love, loss, and longing. It illustrates the universal experience of heartache while simultaneously encapsulating the singer's individual struggle to cope with separation. The lyrics resonate with anyone who has faced similar feelings of abandonment and yearning, allowing listeners to empathize with the singer’s plight. While filled with sorrow, there is also an underlying hope that someday, reconciliation may occur, reflecting a common theme in love songs—that even in the depths of despair, the heart clings to the possibility of reunion.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't want to
I have no desire to continue


Go on without you
live my life in your absence


It's so bad to be alone
Being by myself is incredibly painful


Oh baby come home
I long for your return to my life


I need you
Your presence is essential to my happiness


My room is so blue
My living space feels suffused with sadness


I keep seein' your face
Your image continually haunts my thoughts


Oh, every place
Everywhere I go, I am reminded of you


Here in the gloom
In this dreary environment


Of my lonely room
within the confines of my solitary space


I hold her memories
I cling to our shared past experiences


And smell her sweet perfume
I can still perceive the scent that reminds me of her


I can't stand to
I find it unbearable to


Live on without you
exist in a world devoid of your presence


Oh my darlin' hear my plea
I earnestly ask you to listen to my desperate request


C'mon back to me
Please return to my life


Here in the gloom
Within this dark and dreary atmosphere


Of my lonely room
of my empty and sorrowful space


I hold her memories
I cherish the recollections of our time together


And smell her sweet perfume
The fragrance that reminds me of her lingers in my mind


I can't stand to
I find it intolerable to


Live on without you
continue living in this lifeless state without you


Oh my darlin' hear my plea
My beloved, please listen to my heartfelt request


C'mon back to me
I yearn for your return to me


I can't stand to
I struggle to endure


Go on without you
to progress in life absent of your companionship


Oh my darlin' hear my plea
My darling, I implore you to heed my cry


Go on without you
to manage life without your beloved presence


‘can't stand to (no,no,no,no,)
I absolutely cannot tolerate this feeling (no, no, no, no)


Go on without you
to carry on while you are missing


Oh my darlin' hear my plea
Oh, my dear, please pay attention to my sincere wish


Go on without you.......
to persist in life while you are not here.....


I can't stand to.......
I find it insufferable to.......




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Comments from YouTube:

@TheBaylor22

One of the great groups and lead singers ever put together! The background singers were incredible lead singers themselves. Unbelievable harmony.

@lloydreife2041

The arrangement. The harmony. The song. Perfect!

@marciaconner4430

Clyde McPhatter - one of the best. I love this song. Clyde is outstanding on lead, bass is on point and I don't know who that is in the background , but he did a phenomenal job also. Even though it's supposed to be a sad song, the talent made it a feel-good song.

@CatrinaFranklin-f4t

Clyde Mcphatter!!!! Goodness gracious handsome sir

@arthurharris9428

One of my parents’ favorite records ❤

@bluenote824jones7

Love it.one of my top 5 by this great great group

@KoKina-tt2vh

Great.
What should I do if I like Doo-Wop more.😃
… Oh well !

@bluenote824jones7

What a great group and lead

@soulfella1

great listener Clyde, another, by the superb Brook Benton, which will alway's remain my personal favourite!!

@ellenpearljackson5219

There it is Clyde McPhatter at his best and Bill Pickney right in there with me the Original Drifters the best of them all rest in peace both of my beautiful Brothers and be with our God

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