Don't Ask My Neighbors
The Emotions Lyrics


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You're wondering if I care about ya
Is there's some cause that I should doubt ya
Oh, I can see boy
That you don't know me very well, uh-uh
You're so unsure

And you run here and there
To ask my feelings
Friends only guess
They can't say really (oh-oh)

Don't ask my neighbors
Don't ask the friends I hang around (never ask the friends I hang around)
Uh-uh
Don't be afraid to come to me (come to me)
Don't ask my neighbors (never), come to me (come to me)
Don't be afraid of what you see (what you see)
You'll find I love you (ooh, I love you)
Come to me (come to me)
Don't be afraid (ooh)

You ask all my friends
If I'm the same, boy
You don't understand
You think I'm changing
Ooh-ooh-ooh

Don't ask my neighbors (don't ask my neighbors)
Don't ask the friends I hang around (never ask the friends I hang around)
Uh-uh
Don't be afraid (never) to come to me (come on)
Don't ask my neighbors (oh oh oh), come to me (come on, and come on)
Don't be afraid of what you see (I'll make you feel anything)
You'll find I love you (ooh), come to me (come)
Don't be afraid

Ooh, oh baby
Ooh
Ooh

Don't ask my neighbors, come to me (come on)
Don't be afraid of what you see
You'll find I love you, come to me (I, I love you, baby)
Don't be afraid

Ooh-ooh
Honey
Come to me, come to me, come to me

Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't be afraid of what you see




You'll find I love you, come to me
Don't be afraid

Overall Meaning

The Emotions’ “Don’t Ask My Neighbors” lyrics exemplify the theme of insecurity and the singer’s reassertion of her love and commitment towards her partner. The song begins with the singer responding to her partner's insecurities and doubts by stating that she cares about him and that he does not know her well enough. The lines "Is there's some cause that I should doubt ya / Oh, I can see boy / That you don't know me very well, uh-uh / You're so unsure" highlight the singer's acknowledgement of her partners' lack of knowledge about her emotional capacity. In the next verse, the singer addresses her partner's tendency to seek validation from her friends, who can only guess and not know for sure about her feelings. This is reflected in the lines "And you run here and there / To ask my feelings / Friends only guess / They can't say really (oh-oh)."


The chorus sees the singer urging her partner to communicate with her and not seek reaffirmation from her neighbors or friends. She assures him that she loves him and will always be there for him. The lines "Don't ask my neighbors / Don't ask the friends I hang around (never ask the friends I hang around) / Uh-uh / Don't be afraid to come to me (come to me) / Don't ask my neighbors (never), come to me (come to me) / Don't be afraid of what you see (what you see) / You'll find I love you (ooh, I love you) / Come to me (come to me) / Don't be afraid (ooh)" reiterate her position and reassure her partner that he can approach her without any hesitation.


Overall, the lyrics to The Emotions' "Don't Ask My Neighbors" highlights the importance of communication and emotional openness in romantic relationships. The singer acknowledges her partner's insecurities but asserts her love for him and urges him to approach her directly instead of seeking validation elsewhere.


Line by Line Meaning

You're wondering if I care about ya
You are questioning whether I truly care for you


Is there's some cause that I should doubt ya
Is there any reason for me to doubt your intentions?


Oh, I can see boy
I understand what you are thinking


That you don't know me very well, uh-uh
You do not have a good understanding of my character


You're so unsure
You lack confidence in our relationship


And you run here and there
You ask various people about our relationship


To ask my feelings
To inquire about my emotions


Friends only guess
My friends can only speculate


They can't say really (oh-oh)
They cannot accurately describe my feelings for you


Don't ask my neighbors
Do not ask those who live near me


Don't ask the friends I hang around (never ask the friends I hang around)
Do not ask the people with whom I spend my time


Uh-uh
No


Don't be afraid to come to me (come to me)
Do not hesitate to talk to me


You ask all my friends
You seek the opinions of all my friends


If I'm the same, boy
If my feelings have not changed towards you


You don't understand
You fail to comprehend our relationship


You think I'm changing
You believe that my feelings are fluctuating


Ooh-ooh-ooh
Expressing emotions through sound


Don't ask my neighbors (don't ask my neighbors)
Do not inquire with people who are not involved


Don't be afraid (never) to come to me (come on)
Do not hesitate to talk to me


Don't ask my neighbors (oh oh oh), come to me (come on, and come on)
Do not consult others, talk to me directly


Don't be afraid of what you see (I'll make you feel anything)
Do not be scared of the outcome, I will open up to you


You'll find I love you (ooh), come to me (come)
You will discover that I love you, so let's have a conversation


Ooh, oh baby
Expressing affection through his tone


Don't be afraid
Do not be fearful


Ooh-ooh
Emotional utterance


Honey
Term of endearment


Come to me, come to me, come to me
I want you to communicate with me directly




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Skip Scarborough

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