My Heart
The Ettes Lyrics


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Well you're not gonna break my heart
'Cause my heart ain't what I'm givin' to you
And I'm not gonna beg for yours
'Cause that's not what I am here to do

You're not faithful but you're true
And I don't know what to do
'Cause it never bothers me
When you're where you need to be
Oh no
I mean what do I expect
To put a rope around your neck
And just declare you property
Well babe you know it isn't me
Oh no

And I can't just estimate
When it's gonna be too late
You do what you wanna do
And I'll just do the same thing too
Oh yes
And if we go our separate ways
I won't say we was too late
'Cause we never were on time




And babe you never weren't mine
Oh no

Overall Meaning

The Ettes's song "My Heart" is a powerful declaration of independence and self-confidence. The song's opening lines, "Well you're not gonna break my heart / 'Cause my heart ain't what I'm givin' to you," immediately set the tone for the entire song. The singer of the song asserts her own autonomy and independence from her lover, making it clear that she is not willing to surrender her own heart to him. This sets the stage for the rest of the song, where the singer further outlines her own desires and thoughts about the relationship.


Furthermore, the singer makes it clear that she is not willing to beg for her lover's heart, declaring that "that's not what [she is] here to do." This shows a strong sense of self-respect and self-assuredness on the part of the singer, who is not willing to lower herself or compromise her own values to gain someone else's affection.


Throughout the rest of the song, the singer struggles with conflicting emotions, acknowledging that her lover is not faithful but is still true. She recognizes that she cannot control him or his actions, but is still unsure of how to move forward in the relationship. The song ultimately ends on a note of acceptance, with the singer acknowledging that her lover was never truly hers to begin with.


Line by Line Meaning

Well you're not gonna break my heart
I won't let you hurt me emotionally


'Cause my heart ain't what I'm givin' to you
I'm not giving you complete control over my emotions


And I'm not gonna beg for yours
I won't plead for your affection


'Cause that's not what I am here to do
I have my own goals and purpose besides seeking your love


You're not faithful but you're true
You may not be loyal but you're honest about it


And I don't know what to do
I'm confused about how to feel and react


'Cause it never bothers me
Your lack of loyalty doesn't emotionally affect me


When you're where you need to be
As long as you're where you're supposed to be, I'm content


Oh no
Expression of shock and confusion


I mean what do I expect
I have unrealistic expectations of you


To put a rope around your neck
To try to control you completely


And just declare you property
To treat you as a possession


Well babe you know it isn't me
I'm not that type of person


Oh no
Expression of shock and confusion


And I can't just estimate
I can't predict or guess with certainty


When it's gonna be too late
When the point of no return will happen


You do what you wanna do
You are free to make your own choices


And I'll just do the same thing too
I'll also exercise my personal freedom


Oh yes
Expression of agreement and confidence


And if we go our separate ways
If we have to part ways


I won't say we was too late
I won't blame our timing for the outcome


'Cause we never were on time
Our relationship was never meant to be


And babe you never weren't mine
You were never mine to begin with


Oh no
Expression of shock and confusion




Writer(s): Jeremy Cohen, Maria Silver, Lindsay Hames Copyright: Tenyor Music, Moment Ago Music

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MikeDel76

Oh, yeah!

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