What It´s Like
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We've all seen a man at the liquor store beggin' for your change
The hair on his face is dirty, dread-locked, and full of mange
He asks a man for what he could spare, with shame in his eyes
"Get a job you fucking slob," is all he replies
God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes
'Cause then you really might know what it's like to sing the blues

Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like

Mary got pregnant from a kid named Tom that said he was in love
He said, "don't worry about a thing, baby doll I'm the man you've been dreaming of."
But three months later he say he won't date her or return her calls
And she swear, "god damn, if I find that man I'm cuttin' off his balls"
And then she heads for the clinic and she gets some static walking through the door
They call her a killer, and they call her a sinner and they call her a whore
God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes
'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to choose

Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like

I've seen a rich man beg I've seen a good man sin
I've seen a tough man cry
I've seen a loser win and a sad man grin
I heard an honest man lie
I've seen the good side of bad and the downside of up
And everything between
I licked the silver spoon drank from the golden cup
And smoked the finest green
I stroked the fattest dimes at least a couple of times
Before I broke their heart
You know where it ends, yo, it usually depends on where you start

I knew this kid named Max who used to get fat stacks out on the corner with drugs
He liked to hang out late he liked to get shit-faced and keep the pace with thugs
Until late one night there was a big gun fight and max lost his head
He pulled out his chrome .45, talked some shit, and wound up dead
Now his wife and his kids are caught in the midst of all of this pain
You know it comes that way at least that's what they say when you play the game
God forbid you ever had to wake up to hear the news
'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to lose

Then you really might know what it's like




Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like to have to lose

Overall Meaning

The Everlast's song, "What It's Like" is a poignant and emotional reminder of the struggles that people face in their daily lives. The song tells four different stories of individuals who are facing difficult and heartbreaking situations. In each verse, the lyrics focus on a different protagonist facing a unique but equally challenging predicament. The first verse tells the story of a homeless man outside of a liquor store, begging for change. The second verse is about a woman named Mary who's dealing with being pregnant from a man who abandoned her. The third verse talks about the various experiences the singer has encountered from living a life of privilege and also of poor choices. The fourth and final verse is about a drug dealer named Max who lost his life in a violent encounter.


The chorus, "Then you really might know what it's like," serves as a reminder that unless you have been in someone else's shoes, you cannot understand the pain and the struggles they face. The song aims to humanize the individuals in these situations, to offer a moment of reflection and empathy towards those who need it the most. It's a powerful message that transcends the boundaries of the individual stories and speaks to the universality of human suffering.


Line by Line Meaning

We've all seen a man at the liquor store beggin' for your change
We've all witnessed a man solicit for cash outside a liquor store


The hair on his face is dirty, dread-locked, and full of mange
The man's facial hair is filthy, tangled, and unkempt


He asks a man for what he could spare, with shame in his eyes
He requests money from another person, feeling ashamed to do so


"Get a job you fucking slob," is all he replies
The other person responds by insulting him, suggesting that he get a job


God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes
It's difficult to understand what he's going through without experiencing it firsthand


'Cause then you really might know what it's like to sing the blues
Only by experiencing his struggles could someone truly empathize with his despair


Mary got pregnant from a kid named Tom that said he was in love
A woman named Mary conceived a child with a man named Tom who claimed to love her


He said, "don't worry about a thing, baby doll I'm the man you've been dreaming of."
Tom reassured Mary that he was the perfect partner for her


But three months later he say he won't date her or return her calls
Shortly thereafter, Tom changed his tune and refused to communicate with Mary


And she swear, "god damn, if I find that man I'm cuttin' off his balls"
Mary is infuriated by Tom's behavior and vows to seek retribution


And then she heads for the clinic and she gets some static walking through the door
Mary faces opposition when trying to access healthcare services


They call her a killer, and they call her a sinner and they call her a whore
Society judges and shames her for her decisions and circumstances


God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes
Without firsthand experience, it's difficult to understand the choices and hardships of someone like Mary


'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to choose
By encountering the same complex decisions she faced, one could truly empathize with Mary's predicament


I've seen a rich man beg, I've seen a good man sin
I've observed instances of surprising and unexpected behavior from various people


I've seen a tough man cry, I've seen a loser win and a sad man grin
People can display emotions and behaviors that go against assumed stereotypes


I heard an honest man lie
Even the most truthful people can occasionally be dishonest


I've seen the good side of bad and the downside of up
Life contains both positive and negative outcomes in unexpected places


And everything between
Life is full of a wide variety of experiences in between extremes


I licked the silver spoon, drank from the golden cup, and smoked the finest green
I've enjoyed privileges and indulged in luxury


I stroked the fattest dimes at least a couple of times before I broke their heart
I've pursued and had romantic relationships with attractive partners before causing them emotional pain


You know where it ends, yo, it usually depends on where you start
The outcome of one's life often correlates to their starting point and circumstances


I knew this kid named Max who used to get fat stacks out on the corner with drugs
I was acquainted with a young man named Max who made a lot of money selling drugs on the street


He liked to hang out late he liked to get shit-faced and keep the pace with thugs
Max enjoyed partying and associating with dangerous people


Until late one night there was a big gun fight and Max lost his head
One night, Max was caught in a violent altercation and unfortunately died


He pulled out his chrome .45, talked some shit, and wound up dead
Max's actions during the altercation contributed to his tragic end


Now his wife and his kids are caught in the midst of all of this pain
Max's family is suffering because of his choices and actions


You know it comes that way at least that's what they say when you play the game
Some would say that Max's death was the result of the dangerous lifestyle he chose to lead


God forbid you ever had to wake up to hear the news
Hearing terrible news about a loved one is a painful experience


'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to lose
Losing someone close to you is an experience that defies description and truly must be felt to be understood




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ERIK SCHRODY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@williamliversage2227

12years ago ended up homeless
slept on a piece of cardboard in a vacant field every night spent half the day or more (flying a sign) to get enough money for a nik of weed and a 4 pack of naty ice
spent the rest of the day getting wasted just to ease the pain
spent 4 years doin that
had enough started to reach out to get help
spent another 4yrs finding out how fu@ked up and dysfunctional the homeless support system is
got off my ass and started my own (program)
spent another 4yrs working my Program
and with a little help from the good lord above
got pre approved for a home loan today
around july of next year I be moving out of my shitty overpriced Apt in da hood
to my own home
gunna live there till I die



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@aaronz5295

Who’s listening still in 2024

@mrluvit8232

everybody 😁👍

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Will forever be a feel good tune

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@mstyles2667

This song came out when I was 19. I am now 43 and have lived every word of this song. Don't ever judge someone, you have no idea the burdens they are carrying. Be kind. To others and to yourself.

@HipHopCantSaveMe

I just posted almost the same thing.
We were young and dumb 25 years ago.
Now we are grown up and this song hits too close to home.

Many died from drug addictions, suicide, etc.

It's a crazy world 🌏

@79tazman

this song came out in 1998 I was 19 and I just turned 45 yesterday born in 1979

@ghoraxe9000

Born in 86... 38 now... This song is timeless

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