Love Me for a Reason
The Fabulous Five Lyrics


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Girl when you hold me, how you control me
You bend and you fold me, anyway you please
It must be easy for you, the loving things that you do
But just a pastime for you, I could never be

And I never know, girl
If I should stay or go
'Cos the games that you play
Keep driving me away

Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl
Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love

Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl
Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love

Kisses and caresses, are only minor tests, babe
Of love lead to stresses, between a woman and a man
So if love everlasting, isn't what you're asking
I'll have to pass, girl, I'm proud to take a stand

I can't continue guessing
Because it's only messing
With my pride and my mind
So write down this time to time

Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl
Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love

I'm just a little old-fashioned
It's take more than physical attraction
My initial reaction is honey give me love
Not a facsimile of

Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl
Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love

Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl
Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love (love me, love me)
Don't love me for fun, girl
Let me be the one, girl




Love me for a reason
Let the reason be love

Overall Meaning

The Fabulous Five's "Love Me for a Reason" is a cautionary tale about a man pleading with a woman not to love him just for fun or physical attraction but to love him for the right reasons. The song is about a relationship that is on the brink of collapse because the woman is only interested in the man for what he can do for her and not for any genuine feelings of love. The song evolves into a plea for honesty and for the woman to consider the man's feelings if she doesn't really have any genuine desire to be with him.


The lyrics touch on themes of insecurity and uncertainty, with the singer questioning whether he should stay and make things work or leave and move on. The central message is that love should come from a place of purity and intentionality, and not just because it's convenient or easy. The song's melody is catchy and upbeat, which serves as a stark contrast to the melancholic and introspective nature of the lyrics. The song's paradoxical nature is further amplified by its decision to combine melancholic lyrics with an upbeat melody.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl when you hold me, how you control me
You have so much power over me when you hold me


You bend and you fold me, anyway you please
You can manipulate me in any way you want when you hold me


It must be easy for you, the loving things that you do
Showing love and affection come naturally to you


But just a pastime for you, I could never be
However, I don't want to be just a temporary entertainment for you


And I never know, girl
I'm always unsure


If I should stay or go
Whether I should stick around or leave


'Cos the games that you play
Because the manipulative tactics you use


Keep driving me away
Keep pushing me farther from you


Don't love me for fun, girl
Don't use me for just temporary entertainment


Let me be the one, girl
Instead, let me be the one you truly love


Love me for a reason
Love me for a genuine purpose


Let the reason be love
That genuine purpose being love


Kisses and caresses, are only minor tests, babe
Affectionate gestures like kisses and caresses are not enough to prove love


Of love lead to stresses, between a woman and a man
In fact, those minor tests can sometimes cause relationship problems


So if love everlasting, isn't what you're asking
If you're not looking for a long-lasting love


I'll have to pass, girl, I'm proud to take a stand
I won't compromise my desire for true, lasting love


I can't continue guessing
I can't keep playing guessing games


Because it's only messing
Because it's only causing confusion and frustration


With my pride and my mind
And is affecting both my self-respect and judgement


So write down this time to time
So let it be known


I'm just a little old-fashioned
I have traditional beliefs about love


It's take more than physical attraction
I don't believe that mere physical attraction is enough for love


My initial reaction is honey give me love
I want your genuine love more than anything else


Not a facsimile of
Not a fake imitation of it


Love me for a reason
Love me for a genuine purpose


Let the reason be love (love me, love me)
That genuine purpose being love


Don't love me for fun, girl
Don't use me for just temporary entertainment


Let me be the one, girl
Instead, let me be the one you truly love


Love me for a reason
Love me for a genuine purpose


Let the reason be love
That genuine purpose being love


Don't love me for fun, girl
Don't use me for just temporary entertainment


Let me be the one, girl
Instead, let me be the one you truly love


Love me for a reason
Love me for a genuine purpose


Let the reason be love
That genuine purpose being love




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: David Jones Jr., Johnny Bristol, Wade Brown

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Comments from YouTube:

@elizabethmccurdy4837

It's one of my favorite songs as a teenager..

@Gambet7021

Awesome music that carried strong messages then, they don't music like that anymore...that was a wonderful time in the Caribbean. Thank u for sharing!

@claudettelewis-smith1133

CHUNEeeeeeeeeee......This is d
such an awesome version of Johnny Bristol's classic song......Great job Fab 5.

@dawnth531

Love Johnny Bristol, but I think Fab 5 did this one better

@sammied3000

Big chune ❤

@zeuspanzer2317

beautiful song

@wendyjones1422

a beautiful song

@sammied3000

Love this song

@walkleysantos7696

Master

@anilshubhpandey5473

song written by johnny bristol.. and covered many times.. first by osmonds then fab5 then boyzone..

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