Going Without
The Fixx Lyrics


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Time, time, time again
I lose control of the situation
I go spinning 'round this helpless universe
Why, why, why? I cry
Will I ever understand
This complicated web of lies
Designed to shield my sense of pride?
And tomorrow, when it breaks
Will I have the strength to face
Another stupid, silly scene?
Can't you tell me what it means?

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long

Deep, deep, deep desire to fly away
Can't get much higher than a falling stone
That's been thrown from a bridge
Scream, scream, scream about
The lack of purpose in my life
That seems to magnify a scary sense of doubt

And tomorrow, when it breaks
Will I have the strength to face
Another stupid, silly scene?
Can't you tell me what it means?

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long

All the feelings I scorned
All the bridges I burned
You'd think a grown man would have learned
To shield his eyes from the light
Face his demons in the night
And be sane again by morning light
Sweet morning light
Sweet morning light

Yeah
Yeah

I'd like to pride myself on being a man who gets by in the end
When all I'm left is circumstance and a chance to make amends
Just a little self respect because the smile makes the man, you know

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong





Chance to make amends
'Cause the smile makes the man, you know

Overall Meaning

The Fixx's song "Going Without" depicts a sense of helplessness stemming from losing control of situations and not being able to comprehend the complicated reality of life. The repetition of "time" and "why" in the beginning reflects the feeling of being trapped in a cyclical pattern of not being able to find solutions to personal struggles. Within the lyrics, there is an indication of deep-seated insecurity, a lack of purpose, and a scary sense of doubt of finding understanding. The lines "Can't you tell me what it means?" and "All the feelings I scorned, All the bridges I burned" hint at the struggle to find meaning and establish healthy relationships. The song's tone is that of a plea, a desperate call for help.


The chorus line, "I've been without for so long, I've been without and you get me wrong," is quite significant. It shows that the singer has been misunderstood and that they feel depleted and vulnerable for not being able to articulate their thoughts and emotions, leading to confusion in their relationships. The lines about flying away, which cannot get much higher than a falling stone thrown from a bridge, are expressing a desire to escape, a metaphor for their mental anguish. The strong-yet-vulnerable voice of the vocalist, Cy Curnin, delivers the lines with an emotive punch that emphasizes the overall message of the song.


Line by Line Meaning

Time, time, time again
Repeatedly, I lose control of the situation and time seems to move slowly.


I lose control of the situation
I feel powerless in a situation and cannot control it.


I go spinning 'round this helpless universe
I feel helpless and lost as if I am spinning in circles in this vast universe.


Why, why, why? I cry
I am confused and cry out for an answer.


Will I ever understand
I wonder if I will ever comprehend what is happening around me.


This complicated web of lies
I am caught in a complex trap of deceit and falsehoods to protect my pride.


Designed to shield my sense of pride?
Is this web of lies crafted to protect my ego and self-respect?


And tomorrow, when it breaks
When things fall apart tomorrow


Will I have the strength to face
Do I have the courage to confront and handle challenges?


Another stupid, silly scene?
Another foolish situation that appears pointless


Can't you tell me what it means?
I am asking for someone to explain and make sense of the situation happening around me.


I've been without for so long
I have been deprived and lacking of something important for a considerable period.


Deep, deep, deep desire to fly away
I have an intense longing to escape and break free.


Can't get much higher than a falling stone
I feel as if I cannot rise higher even if I am falling rapidly.


That's been thrown from a bridge
A reference to a person having lost everything and hitting rock bottom.


Scream, scream, scream about
I shout out loudly repeatedly about something that bothers me.


The lack of purpose in my life
I feel that I do not have a clear direction or plan that drives my life.


That seems to magnify a scary sense of doubt
This feeling of purposelessness and uncertainty fuels my doubts and fears.


All the feelings I scorned
I refused to acknowledge or confront my emotions in the past.


All the bridges I burned
I ruined or destroyed many relationships and connections I once had.


You'd think a grown man would have learned
One would expect that an adult man would possess some level of wisdom and experience.


To shield his eyes from the light
To protect himself from the truth and avoid facing reality.


Face his demons in the night
Confront and deal with the issues and challenges he battles within himself during moments of darkness.


And be sane again by morning light
Recover and regain emotional stability, mental clarity, and peace of mind by dawn.


Sweet morning light
A sense of relief, optimism or hope associated with the new day.


I'd like to pride myself on being a man who gets by in the end
I want to be someone who overcomes challenges and achieves success in the long run.


When all I'm left is circumstance and a chance to make amends
When I am presented with a situation with limited options and an opportunity to fix past mistakes.


Just a little self respect because the smile makes the man, you know
I value self-respect because it is a key to feeling confident and presentable to others, which can influence one's life positively.




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Comments from YouTube:

Snickers' Doodles

Words can't express how much I love this song in particular. The chord changes are so crazy cool I love it!

Mike Grant

Quite possibly most underated band and cd!

progtoeternity

I keep stumbling upon one good song after another. Never mind trying to fix The Fixx. There are condemned to only write great songs !

MCSMeister

Why does this video only show half of the lyrics? For anyone who needs them, here are the full lyrics from the lyrics booklet:

Time, time, time again
I lose control of the situation
I go spinning 'round this helpless universe
Why, why, why? I cry
Will I ever understand
This complicated web of lies
Designed to shield my sense of pride?

And tomorrow, when it breaks
Will I have the strength to face
Another stupid, silly scene?
Can't you tell me what it means?

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long

Deep, deep, deep desire to fly away
Can't get much higher than a falling stone
That's been thrown from a bridge
Scream, scream, scream about
The lack of purpose in my life
That seems to magnify a scary sense of doubt

And tomorrow, when it breaks
Will I have the strength to face
Another stupid, silly scene?
Can't you tell me what it means?

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long

All the feelings I scorned
All the bridges I burned
You'd think a grown man would have learned
To shield his eyes from the light
Face his demons in the night
And be sane again by morning light
Sweet morning light
Sweet morning light

Yeah
Yeah

I'd like to pride myself on being a man who gets by in the end
When all I'm left is circumstance and a chance to make amends
Just a little self respect because the smile makes the man, you know

I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong
I've been without for so long
I've been without and you get me wrong

Chance to make amends
'Cause the smile makes the man, you know

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