She’s Leaving Home
The Flaming Lips Lyrics


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Wednesday morning at five o'clock
As the day begins
Silently closing her bedroom door
Leaving the note that she hoped would say more

She goes downstairs to the kitchen
Clutching her handkerchief
Quietly turning the backdoor key
Stepping outside, she is free

She(we gave her most of our lives)
Is leaving (sacrificed most of our lives)
Home (we gave her everything money could buy)
She's leaving home, after living alone, for so many years (bye bye)

Father snores as his wife gets into her dressing gown
Picks up the letter that's lying there
Standing alone at the top of the stairs
She breaks down and cries to her husband
"Daddy, our baby's gone.
"Why would she treat us so thoughtlessly?
How could she do this to me?"

She (we never thought of ourselves)
Is leaving (never a thought for ourselves)
Home (we struggled hard all our lives to get by)
She's leaving home, after living alone, for so many years

Friday morning, at nine o'clock
She is far away
Waiting to keep the appointment she made
Meeting a man from the Motortrade

She (what did we do that was wrong)
Is Having (we didn't know it was wrong)
Fun (fun is the one thing that money can't buy)





Something inside, that was always denied, for so many years
She's leaving home, bye, bye.

Overall Meaning

The song "She's Leaving Home" by The Flaming Lips in collaboration with Phantogram, Julianna Barwick, and Spaceface is a reinterpretation of the classic Beatles song written by Paul McCartney and John Lennon in 1967. The song tells the story of a young girl who decides to leave her home and family without any explanation. The opening lines of the song, "Wednesday morning at five o'clock, as the day begins, silently closing her bedroom door, leaving the note that she hoped would say more," set the melancholic tone for the rest of the song.


The first verse describes the girl's actions as she leaves home. She carefully closes her bedroom door, leaving a note behind, and steps outside, feeling free. The chorus then describes the sacrifices the parents have made for their daughter, giving her everything money could buy, but in the end, she still decides to leave. The second verse depicts the mother's devastation upon discovering her daughter's absence, crying to her husband and wondering why their daughter would treat them so thoughtlessly.


Finally, the last verse depicts the girl living her newfound freedom, meeting a man from the motor trade and having fun. The song ends with the repetition of the girl leaving home, bye-bye, and a musical outro that reflects on the melancholic and bittersweet nature of the story.


Overall, the song's interpretation is open-ended, leaving the listener to imagine the reasons behind the girl's decision to leave and the emotions and thoughts of the parents in response. However, the song's overall melancholic and nostalgic tone captures the bittersweet experience of letting go of a loved one who has decided to seek their own path.


Line by Line Meaning

Wednesday morning at five o'clock
The day is just starting as the woman is leaving her home


As the day begins
The morning has just begun


Silently closing her bedroom door
The woman closes her bedroom door quietly


Leaving the note that she hoped would say more
She leaves a note behind, hoping to express herself more fully


She goes downstairs to the kitchen
She heads downstairs to the kitchen


Clutching her handkerchief
She holds onto her handkerchief tightly


Quietly turning the backdoor key
She unlocks the back door as quietly as possible


Stepping outside, she is free
As she steps outside, she feels a sense of freedom


She(we gave her most of our lives)
The parents gave their daughter their all


Is leaving (sacrificed most of our lives)
Now the daughter is leaving, leaving the parents feeling as though their sacrifice was in vain


Home (we gave her everything money could buy)
The parents provided their daughter with everything they could afford


She's leaving home, after living alone, for so many years (bye bye)
After years of living with her parents, the daughter is finally leaving


Father snores as his wife gets into her dressing gown
The father is asleep while the mother gets dressed


Picks up the letter that's lying there
The mother picks up the letter her daughter left behind


Standing alone at the top of the stairs
The mother stands alone at the top of the stairs, feeling overwhelmed


She breaks down and cries to her husband
The mother breaks down and cries to her husband


"Daddy, our baby's gone.
The mother calls her husband 'Daddy' as she shares the news of their daughter's departure


Why would she treat us so thoughtlessly?
The mother is hurt and confused by her daughter's sudden departure


How could she do this to me?"
The mother is feeling hurt and betrayed by her daughter's actions


She(we never thought of ourselves)
The parents never put themselves first, only their daughter


Is leaving (never a thought for ourselves)
The daughter is now leaving, despite her parents' constant selflessness


Home (we struggled hard all our lives to get by)
The parents worked hard to provide for their family


She's leaving home, after living alone, for so many years
The daughter is finally leaving, after having lived with her parents for so long


Friday morning, at nine o'clock
Several days have passed since the daughter's departure


She is far away
The daughter is now in a different place, far from her parents' home


Waiting to keep the appointment she made
The daughter is waiting to meet someone she scheduled an appointment with


Meeting a man from the Motortrade
The daughter is meeting a man who works in the motor industry


She(what did we do that was wrong)
The parents are questioning what they could have done differently


Is Having (we didn't know it was wrong)
The daughter is experiencing something new and exciting, even if it's not what her parents wanted for her


Fun (fun is the one thing that money can't buy)
Despite all the things her parents provided for her, the daughter is experiencing something that money can't buy


Something inside, that was always denied, for so many years
The daughter is finally doing something that she's always wanted to do, but never had the chance


She's leaving home, bye, bye.
The daughter is leaving her parents' home for good




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JOHN LENNON, PAUL MCCARTNEY

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