But Not For Me
The Flamingos Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

The Flamingos' song But Not For Me is a melancholic tune about unrequited love, sung in the classic doo-wop style. The first stanza of the song is a rejection of optimism, with the singer dismissing the advice of those who believe in fate and soulmates. He believes that his love for someone is unrequited and the situation is helpless, marking the final curtain on his attempts at winning the heart of his beloved.


The second stanza describes the feeling of despair and worthlessness that comes with unrequited love. Despite finding himself under a "lucky star," it is not shining on him, and love has led him to more gray clouds than any Russian play could guarantee. The final lines of the song repeat the same refrain from the first stanza, highlighting the singer's sense of hopelessness and despair.


The song captures the complexity of unrequited love, the pain that comes with it, and the sense of helplessness that ensues. The style of music adds a layer of nostalgia to the lyrics, making it an emotionally charged piece of music.


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
I'm addressing the optimistic belief in love and fate


Never tell me dreams come true
Don't lie to me about love and destiny


Just try it and I'll start a riot
I'll be upset and disruptive if you try to convince me that love is real


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
I'm warning the advice columnist not to give me false hope


Ever tell me he will care
I don't believe the person I love will ever truly care for me


I'm certain it's the final curtain
I've accepted that our relationship is over


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
I don't want to hear from anyone who believes in love without proof


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
I don't believe that fate or destiny determines who we fall in love with


It's all bananas
The belief in love and fate is ridiculous and unfounded


They're writing songs of love but not for me
Love songs don't apply to me because I don't believe in love


A lucky star's above but not for me
Even if there is a chance for love, it's not meant for me


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
My experience with love has been disappointing and depressing


Than any Russian play could guarantee
Even the most tragic plays can't compare to my lack of luck in love


I was a fool to fall and get that way
I admit that I let myself fall in love, which was foolish


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
I express sadness and regret over my failed relationship


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I still have fond memories of my past love, but I know it's over


I guess he's not for me
I've accepted that the person I loved is not meant to be with me




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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