Since I Don
The Flamingos Lyrics


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I don't know why you tricked me, why you try to hide your fears. I don't know why you're cheating, acting way beyond your years. Now you're pushing me, just a little to the test. And now I'm trying to fix that silly little mess you made.

I know why you do it, move it, lose it and disappear. Now I'm stuck behind you wasting all my precious years. It's like I'm waiting for you but you don't even care. Why don't you come on over and I'll teach you something about self-respect.

I don't care.

I gotta find a way, I've got to find myself a cure. It's like I didn't want you, now I really want you more. Then you wonder why I smoke all of those cigarettes? If you don't think I'm coming around, you better f* check yourself.




Overall Meaning

The Flamingos's "Since I Don't Have You" is a song about an unstable relationship between two people where one partner is cheating and hiding their fears. The singer expresses confusion as to why their partner is acting beyond their years, meaning they are acting inappropriately mature or beyond their age. The singer is being pushed to the test and is trying to fix the mess caused by their partner's behavior.


The chorus suggests that the singer is frustrated with their partner's behavior and is taking action to find a cure for the situation. The singer admits that they didn't want their partner at first, but now they're realizing that they want them more than before. However, their partner doesn't seem to care, and the singer is waiting for them to come to their senses and learn about self-respect.


The lyric "If you don't think I'm coming around, you better f* check yourself" shows that the singer is not going to tolerate their partner's behavior, and if they want to keep them as a partner, they need to change. The song captures the complicated emotions and frustrations that can arise in relationships when one partner is dishonest and behaviorally immature.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know why you tricked me, why you try to hide your fears.
I am puzzled by your deceit and attempt to keep your worries a secret.


I don't know why you're cheating, acting way beyond your years.
I cannot fathom why you are being unfaithful and behaving in a manner that exceeds your age.


Now you're pushing me, just a little to the test.
You are now testing my limits, albeit slightly.


And now I'm trying to fix that silly little mess you made.
I am currently attempting to mend the insignificant problem you created.


I know why you do it, move it, lose it and disappear.
I understand your reasoning for constantly being on the go, unstable and vanishing.


Now I'm stuck behind you wasting all my precious years.
However, I am now trapped behind you and squandering my valuable time.


It's like I'm waiting for you but you don't even care.
It feels as though I am waiting for you, yet you show no concern or regard towards me.


Why don't you come on over and I'll teach you something about self-respect.
Perhaps you should visit me so I can impart some knowledge on self-esteem.


I don't care.
I am indifferent to your response.


I gotta find a way, I've got to find myself a cure.
I need to discover a method or solution to my predicament.


It's like I didn't want you, now I really want you more.
It seems as though I did not crave your affection initially, but now I desire it excessively.


Then you wonder why I smoke all of those cigarettes?
Do you not understand why I resort to smoking numerous cigarettes?


If you don't think I'm coming around, you better f* check yourself.
If you believe that I will not return, you ought to reassess your assumptions.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Julien Corrado, Sacha Gubany

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