The Vow
The Flamingos Lyrics


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We made a vow we could never ever keep.
Still somehow the thought of it runs deep.
There is the glory of the coming of the glory of the Lord
And there's an answer where there was no call.
But I've been so unkind, no heart, no mind.
If I could give it all I would give it all
I would give it all to you, to you, for you.
This is it for you. This is it for you. This is it for you. This is all.

But I will take your money - take it with a cursory smile.
It's only fashion sense. Don't take offence - I don't like the style.
Tables turned. I call the shots. Will I be your friend?
God knows where it started or where it will end.

Don't ask me now "Was honesty the crime?"
Don't ask me now, maybe some other time.
What is there to say and what is there to prove
And who is there to prove it to?
Because there's no sense in false pretence
Would I ever lie to you or for you?

This is it for you. This is it for you. This is it for you. This is all.

But I will take your money - take it with a cursory smile.
It's only fashion sense. Don't take offence - I don't like the style.
Tables turned. I call the shots. Will I be your friend?
God knows where it started or where it will end.

But I will take your money - take it with a cursory smile.
It's only fashion sense. Don't take offence - I don't like the style.




Tables turned. I call the shots. Will I be your friend?
God knows where it started or where it will end.

Overall Meaning

The Flamingos' song "The Vow" is one of those songs that offers emotional complexity that doesn't quite let you go. The song's opening lines, "We made a vow we could never ever keep. Still somehow the thought of it runs deep," is a poignant admission of failure coming from the singer. The vows he made – with a lover or perhaps even with himself –were too difficult to keep. The idea of the vow, however, remains powerful, and it's something that stays with him. Throughout the song, the singer's realizations continue, showcasing the subtle and complicated way that emotions can hit us. The lyrics depict the singer's deep regrets and how he struggles to make up for his past mistakes, while also showcasing his resilience.


The song's title and the lyrics suggest that it's about the idea of vows, promises and commitments made in relationships. The singer reflects on how he tried to keep his commitment, but ultimately could not. There's a sense of melancholy in the song, as though the past is always looming overhead. The lines, "I've been so unkind, no heart, no mind. If I could give it all I would give it all, I would give it all to you, to you, for you," convey the guilt, remorse, and desire to make things right that the singer is feeling. Even though he is uncertain if he could ever make it all right, he still wishes to do so.


Line by Line Meaning

We made a vow we could never ever keep.
We promised each other something impossible to fulfill.


Still somehow the thought of it runs deep.
Despite knowing it's unattainable, the idea stays with us.


There is the glory of the coming of the glory of the Lord
There's a powerful feeling of awe and splendor associated with God's arrival.


And there's an answer where there was no call.
There's a solution to a problem that was never even asked for.


But I've been so unkind, no heart, no mind.
I've been cruel and insensitive, lacking empathy or understanding.


If I could give it all I would give it all
If I could, I'd offer everything I have to give.


I would give it all to you, to you, for you.
I'd give it all to you, solely for your sake.


This is it for you. This is it for you. This is it for you. This is all.
I'm going above and beyond for you, and this is everything I can do.


But I will take your money - take it with a cursory smile.
I'll gladly accept your financial contribution despite not truly needing it.


It's only fashion sense. Don't take offence - I don't like the style.
It's just a clothing preference, don't be upset that I don't like what you've chosen.


Tables turned. I call the shots. Will I be your friend?
The dynamic between us has shifted, and I'm now in control. Can we still maintain a friendship?


God knows where it started or where it will end.
Only higher power knows where this scenario began or will inevitably conclude.


Don't ask me now "Was honesty the crime?"
Please don't question whether telling the truth was a wrong act on my part.


Don't ask me now, maybe some other time.
Don't inquire about this topic at the moment, perhaps later on.


What is there to say and what is there to prove
What words or evidence can really confirm or deny anything at all?


And who is there to prove it to?
Even if there was proof, who would believe it or care to see it?


Because there's no sense in false pretence
It's pointless to put on a façade or pretend to be someone we're not.


Would I ever lie to you or for you?
Would I ever deceive you or deceive others for your benefit?




Writer(s): Horace Webb, George Motola, Zeke Carey

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Linda Dee

"And I'll never ... never ever ... let you go" The Flamingos' music lives in our hearts, forever and ever.

George Britt

Linda Dee oi

Darryl Evans

One of the greatest doowoop groups ever The great Flamingos

angelo suppa

One of the great Flamingos songs, that some how got under the radar. What a gem !

Robert Grimm

The immortal Nate Nelson along with Jake & Zeke Carey. Great later incarnation of the group.
This and "Would I be Crying" 2 often overlooked gems!

Robert Grimm

@leosperez1970 Sollie was indeed a great lead.
The original & one of the best, but he was gone from the group by this time to sing with the Moroccos,
Nate Nelson succeeded him.

leosperez1970

Don't forget Sollie McElroy.

Dee McC

Never heard a bad song from these guys.
thanks for posting.

connie

just beautiful

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