The First Time
The Friday Night Boys Lyrics


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Calm down, pull yourself together, it'll be alright
Regrets, you're so completely useless
But I can't go back
But if she wanted me to stay, how could I go?
I should have known it was the first time
You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me
I can't believe it was the first time
I wonder, how she will remember me as time goes by
Was it just how she was imagining?
If I called tonight would she tell me why?
But if she wanted me to stay, how could I go?
You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me
I can't believe it was the first time
Did it mean everything?
'Cause I can feel her tears fall to the ground
Would it be like the first time, oh?
But if she wanted me to stay
You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me
I can't believe it was the first time




Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
I can't believe it was her first time

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Friday Night Boys' song "The First Time" convey a mix of regret, longing, and uncertainty after a first intimate encounter with someone. The singer starts by trying to comfort themselves, saying to calm down and that everything will be alright. However, they also express feelings of uselessness and regret, suggesting that they may not have lived up to their own expectations during this encounter.


The line "But I can't go back" implies that there is no way to change or undo what has already happened. Despite any potential regrets, the singer acknowledges that if the other person wanted them to stay, it would be hard to leave. This demonstrates a willingness to be there for the other person despite their own doubts or reservations.


"I should have known it was the first time" suggests that the singer may have had unrealistic expectations or assumptions about the encounter. They realize that they can't expect the other person to give back what they take, meaning they can't expect them to reciprocate the same level of emotion or commitment. This highlights a sense of personal responsibility for their own actions and feelings.


The singer expresses curiosity about how the other person will remember them as time goes by. They wonder if the encounter was just a figment of the other person's imagination or if it held deeper meaning for them. They question whether reaching out to the other person now would provide any answers or clarity.


The repetition of the line "You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me" reinforces the singer's realization that they can't expect the other person to mirror their emotions or actions. They acknowledge their own role in the situation and accept that it was their responsibility.


The final lines "I can't believe it was her first time" seem to express surprise or disbelief that this experience was the other person's first. This could indicate a desire to have made it more special or memorable for them. The repetition of "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah" and the overall tone of the song may suggest a mix of sadness and resignation.


Overall, the lyrics of "The First Time" delve into the singer's reflections, regrets, and uncertainties following a first intimate encounter. They question the significance of the experience, accept their own responsibility, and express a longing to have made it more meaningful for the other person involved.


Line by Line Meaning

Calm down, pull yourself together, it'll be alright
Take a moment to relax and compose yourself, everything will be fine


Regrets, you're so completely useless
Feeling remorse serves no purpose in this situation


But I can't go back
I am unable to return to the past


But if she wanted me to stay, how could I go?
If she desired my presence, I couldn't possibly leave


I should have known it was the first time
I realize now that it was her initial experience in this context


You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me
I am solely responsible for not reciprocating what I received


I can't believe it was the first time
I find it hard to believe that it was her initial encounter


I wonder, how she will remember me as time goes by
I ponder how she will recall our time together in the future


Was it just how she was imagining?
Was it merely a figment of her imagination?


If I called tonight would she tell me why?
If I were to contact her this evening, would she explain the reasons?


Did it mean everything?
Was it of utmost significance?


'Cause I can feel her tears fall to the ground
Because I can sense her tears dropping to the floor


Would it be like the first time, oh?
Would it be reminiscent of the initial encounter?


But if she wanted me to stay
However, if she desired me to remain


You can't be giving back what you take, it's all on me
I am solely responsible for not reciprocating what I received


I can't believe it was the first time
I find it hard to believe that it was her initial encounter


Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Expressing agreement or affirmation


I can't believe it was her first time
I find it hard to believe that it was her initial experience




Writer(s): Emanuel Kiriakou, Lindy Robbins, David Hodges, Andrew Goldstein

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@savkos101

I'm glad someone else appreciates them... people usually tell me I'm wasting my time and they're terrible but I love them. :)

@LeanFranci

This is perfect

@PuggleRox1014

The Friday Night Boys: The shortest lasting, yet most awesome, band... ever

@shiroshonen4115

Great video for a great song

@tomoyaokazaki2138

this video deserves over 1000 likes wtf. amazing video and lyrics

@samueldestrok3343

2020

@natashaoliveri4031

this is like my favourite song of theirs. :)

@stephaniemcneil3913

breath taking I gotta say. 😲

@BedRoomRecordsPH

2023

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Freehand 591 BT!! It's my favorite. ^.^

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