Elston had been singing with the Hi-Fi's in the mid-60s, warming up for Ray Charles in tours across the country. When that group split in 1966, members Marilyn McCoo and Lamont McLemore went on to co-found the enormously successful Fifth Dimension and Elston started the Friends, whose sound was similar to, and often confused with, the Fifth Dimension -- both included tightly harmonizing men and women dressed in late 60s "hip" clothing -- though the Friends' music was generally more soulful.
The newly formed Friends of Distinction was managed by football great Jim Brown and signed with RCA Records. Hitting the popular music scene when Motown and Stax were dominating, the Friends arrived with a breezy California pop/soul sound. Great harmonies and crossover arrangements backed the individually strong lead vocals of the group members. Combined with top notch material (both originals and covers), the group, like the Fifth Dimension, sounded like a breath of fresh air on Pop radio in 1969.
Their first single, "Grazin' In the Grass," was a Elston-sung vocal remake of a Hugh Masekela instrumental cut, and hit the top 5 on both Pop and Soul charts in 1969. The group's follow-up, "Going In Circles," was a brilliant ballad that also charted high. Love took some time off to have a baby, and Charlene Gibson stepped in and sang lead on the group's third big hit, "Love or Let Me Be Lonely." She also sang on the wonderful album cut, "Crazy Mary."
The Friends were quite prolific from 1969-71, releasing 5 albums (a sixth appeared in 1973). They also released a number of great singles, including "Check It Out" (later remade by Tavares) and a terrific cover of Neil Sedaka's "Time Waits for No One." Their best cuts are excellently compiled in The Best of the Friends of Distinction, which was released in 1996.
As popular music changed in the mid-70s, the Friends' fortunes declined. Jessica Cleaves was featured with Earth Wind and Fire,first appearance on the"Last Days and Time" release. A grueling touring schedule and the lack of a hit for several years led the group to call it quits in 1975. Elston and Butler continued to write and perform for a few years, then ultimately went their separate ways, taking jobs outside of music.
Over the next two decades, there was a rediscovery of the great music that the Friends had made together, and their biggest hits were remade by several artists, with "Going In Circles" charting for the Gap Band and Luther Vandross and "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" for pop artist Paul Davis. Most recently, "Grazin In the Grass" was released by Disney star Raven.
In 1990, Elston and Butler decided to bring the Friends back together. Tragically, Butler died (at Elston's side) before the group reunion could be realized. After Butler's death, Elston spent several years forming a new Friends group, ultimately bringing together Geno Henderson, Wendy Bruné and Berlando Drake to sing with Elston. That lineup currently tours and continues to entertain audiences nearly 40 years after the world first heard the Friends of Distinction.
When A Little Love Began To Die
The Friends of Distinction Lyrics
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This your favorite song when they put it on
Girl, I know you know it's all about you
I ain't sayin' no names, but you know what I'm sayin'
I could tell it by the way that you move
Callin' all the cuties to the floor right now
Take it to the bus, we can go right now
We can roll right now, right now
It's some pretty titties on the bus right now
Tell the hotel we pulling up right now
Elevator up, take a ride right now
Baby, ride right now, right now
Uh-uh, got a room full of fly girls
Got a thing for a shy girl
Don't you want to be my girl?
It's all about you, get up on it like you should, girl
Cause I love it when a hood girl turn around and be a good girl
This your favorite song when they put it on
Girl, I know you know it's all about you
I ain't sayin' no names, but you know what I'm sayin'
I could tell it by the way that you move
Girl, I bet you think this song is about you, don't you?
I bet you think this song is about you
Yeah, I bet you think this song is about you, don't you?
I bet you think this song is about you
Call up all your friends on the phone right now
Tell 'em all to come up to the room right now
It's a lot of things we could do right now
'Bout to get another room right now
Front desk callin' up, sayin', 'Turn that down'
Take another puff, baby, burn that now
It's a lot of girls, it's a ton
You know you're the one
Uh-uh, got a room full of fly girls
Got a thing for a shy girl
Don't you want to be my girl?
It's all about you, get appointed like you should, girl
Cause I love it when a hood girl turn around and be a good girl
This your favorite song when they put it on
Girl, I know you know it's all about you
I ain't sayin' no names, but you know what I'm sayin'
I could tell it by the way that you move
Girl, I bet you think this song is about you, don't you?
I bet you think this song is about you
Yeah, I bet you think this song is about you, don't you?
I bet you think this song is about you
This your favorite song when they put it on
Girl, I know you know it's all about you
I ain't sayin' no names, but you know what I'm sayin'
I could tell it by the way that you move
Girl, you know it's all about you
Ay, this for you, baby, you know who I'm talkin' to
This song is dedicated to you, and you know it
This your favorite song when they put it on
You love this song when it comes on
Girl, I know you know it's all about you
You are the focus of this song
I ain't sayin' no names, but you know what I'm sayin'
I don't need to name you, you know who you are
I could tell it by the way that you move
Your movements give it away
Girl, I bet you think this song is about you, don't you?
You probably think this song is specifically about you
I bet you think this song is about you
You really believe this song is about you
Callin' all the cuties to the floor right now
Inviting all the attractive people to dance
It's a lot of booty on the floor right now
There are many people with attractive behinds dancing
Take it to the bus, we can go right now
Let's leave and go somewhere else
We can roll right now, right now
We can leave immediately and in hurry
It's some pretty titties on the bus right now
There are attractive women on the bus
Tell the hotel we pulling up right now
Let's inform the hotel that we are arriving shortly
Elevator up, take a ride right now
Let's use the elevator to go up and continue our night
Baby, ride right now, right now
Let's continue our fun and excitement immediately
Uh-uh, got a room full of fly girls
There are many attractive women in the room
Got a thing for a shy girl
I have a particular attraction to women who are more reserved
Don't you want to be my girl?
Wouldn't you like to be in a relationship with me?
It's all about you, get up on it like you should, girl
This is all about you, so embrace it and enjoy
Cause I love it when a hood girl turn around and be a good girl
It's great when a woman from a rough background can turn their life around for the better
Call up all your friends on the phone right now
Tell your friends to join us now
Tell 'em all to come up to the room right now
Instruct them to come up to our room immediately
It's a lot of things we could do right now
There are many activities we could engage in currently
'Bout to get another room right now
We are about to obtain another room
Front desk callin' up, sayin', 'Turn that down'
The hotel staff is asking us to lower the volume
Take another puff, baby, burn that now
Take another hit of whatever we are smoking
It's a lot of girls, it's a ton
There are a large number of women
You know you're the one
You know you are the most important person here
Girl, you know it's all about you
You are the primary focus of tonight's activities
Contributed by Julia J. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
zeranzeran
Holy shit, I regret not looking up this sample sooner. Nujabes has great taste.
Marcus Banks
@cute
Llpnp lp
QuintusKing
Nujabes beat all of us to it haha
Daiven Ventura-Acio
FOXHOUND Nujabes ft. Funky DL - Don't Even Try It
Dallas Trap League
What did he use the sample for? Sounds vaguely similar to Horizon but I'm not sure.
dbs
+Axtrvl so weird seeing Nickelus F's name randomly while I'm looking up some samples haha. my cousin's ex boyfriend produced some stuff for him, never knew that people knew of him
mugen441
that bass! the guitar kills it too, an awesome song
Esther Nguyen
i cant believe this song isn’t big. it’s so good
MexicanJumpingLlama
been looking for this for ages, finally found it! such a cool song, you can just feel the funk oozing out of your speakers :)
Ok
I love this album