Born to a Family
The Go-Betweens Lyrics


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Born to a family
a family of workers
Born to a family
of honest workers

Then I came along
golden boy who belonged
And changed the system
of honest workers

I was square into the hole
there was something in my soul

What could I do
but follow the calling
What could I do
but follow this calling

When I was five years old
Asked when I'd be old
Did I have a plan
But I knew who I am





Born to a family

Overall Meaning

The Go-Betweens' song "Born to a Family" looks at the tension between individual aspirations and the expectations and patterns of a family. The opening two lines assert that the singer was born into a lineage of workers, a family where being honest and committed to a job was a way of life. The singer then muses on the way their own arrival on the scene altered this structure. The singer describes themselves as a "golden boy" who suddenly appeared, and suggests that their presence disrupted the established rhythm of the family.


The chorus continues to explore the tension between the individual and the family expectations that are placed upon them. The singer is clearly grappling with the weight of this history and the expectations that it creates: "What could I do but follow this calling?" The final verse offers a glimpse into the singer's childhood, with the question of "did I have a plan" apparently asked of them even as a five-year-old. The singer, however, asserts that they "knew who I am," hinting at the ongoing struggle to maintain their own identity in the face of a family history that might threaten to overwrite it.


Overall, the song reflects on the way that family structures can be both supportive and suffocating, depending on the individual. It speaks to the ways that a family can be a unit that offers continuity and strength across generations but also a weighty inheritance that can be difficult to escape.


Line by Line Meaning

Born to a family
I was born into a family


a family of workers
My family consisted of hardworking individuals


Born to a family
I was born into a family


of honest workers
My family members were honest and diligent with their work


Then I came along
But then, I was born and joined the family


golden boy who belonged
I was a cherished, valuable addition to the family


And changed the system
However, I ended up altering the way things worked within the family


of honest workers
who were honest and hardworking


I was square into the hole
I found myself fitting perfectly into the situation


there was something in my soul
I felt a strong inner desire


What could I do
I had no other option


but follow the calling
but to pursue what I felt was my true calling


What could I do
My choices were limited


but follow this calling
so I chose to follow my passion


When I was five years old
Even at a young age of five


Asked when I'd be old
When asked when I would grow up


Did I have a plan
I didn't have a specific plan


But I knew who I am
But I already knew who I was




Lyrics © DOMINO PUBLISHING COMPANY, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: GRANT MCLENNAN, ROBERT DERWENT GARTH FORSTER

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Comments from YouTube:

@harri211

Powerful song! Robert Forster is a king.

@seanboland1538

One of the greats

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