Composed primarily of transplants to the Seattle area, The Head and the Heart write and play songs that speak to the newness of a fresh start, of the ghosts left behind, of moving forward, all brimming with a soulfulness and hope for a better life than the one we've all been sold.
Stylistically, think a folksy Beatles or The Avett Brothers with a little extra oomph. Catchy piano melodies stand side by side with a tight trio of harmonies, and solid minimalist drums, groovin' bass, and plenty of hand percussion and foot stomps make the live show inspiring and really goddamn fun.
After the band self-released its eponymous debut album in June 2010, the emblematic Seattle label Sub Pop re-released the album. For the Sub Pop version, the song “Sounds like Hallelujah” has been re-recorded, live favorite “Rivers and Roads” has been added, and the album has been re-mastered.
The band's second album "Let's Be Still" was released on October 15, 2013.
The band released their third studio album, "Signs of Light", in September 2016.
The band's fourth album, "Living Mirage", was released in May 2019.
Band member Josiah Johnson released his debut solo album, "Every Feeling On a Loop", in September 2020.
Missed Connection
The Head and the Heart Lyrics
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La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
If I never come through
Yes it haunts me
Sunny days I'd miss you
Yes it haunts me
And we're making our own thing
Now I'm following you out to the coast
If I never come through
If I never come through
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
From a missed connection
I lost myself in this maze (La-la-la-la)
Yes it haunts me (La-la-la)
Felt it slipping sideways (La-la-la-la)
Yes it haunts me (La-la-la)
But I see it and I feel it in my soul
Is there something I'm missing?
Should I follow this where ever it goes?
I will always come through
I will always come through
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Only as alone as I want to be
Passing all the people standing on the street
The fallen fruit of a family tree
A crystal ball and the odyssey
Did you find whatever you were looking for?
Had to open every single door
I get the feeling you've been here before
From a missed connection
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
And they're falling to see it (La-la-la-la)
We'd be fools to waste it but we can (La-la-la)
Falling to feel the heat again (La-la-la-la)
From a missed connection
"Missed Connection" by The Head and the Heart explores the theme of missed opportunities and the lingering regret that comes with them. The song begins with repetitive nonsensical syllables "La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la," which could symbolize the lack of clarity or confusion that accompanies missed connections. The singer expresses their haunted feelings about missing someone they care about on sunny days, suggesting that the memories of missed opportunities continue to torment them.
The chorus reveals a sense of urgency and determination to rectify the missed connection. The singer acknowledges that they are caught up in their own path and are now following the person they missed out on meeting to the coast. This signifies a willingness to seize the next opportunity and make amends for the past. The repetition of the line, "If I never come through," suggests a fear of failure or disappointment as they question their ability to follow through on their intentions.
The second verse further emphasizes the regret and longing that the singer feels. They describe losing themselves in a maze and feeling it slipping sideways, indicating a sense of disorientation and confusion. However, amidst this uncertainty, they can still see and feel something meaningful in their soul, hinting at the possibility of finding a connection even in the midst of chaos. The phrase, "I will always come through," demonstrates their determination to overcome obstacles and make things right.
In the bridge, the lyrics evoke a sense of introspection and self-reflection, as the singer contemplates their position in life. They acknowledge feeling both alone and connected to others, passing people on the street. The mention of a fallen fruit and a family tree reflects the complexities and challenges of personal relationships. The line, "Did you find whatever you were looking for?" suggests a possibility of missed connections being a shared experience, hinting that the other person might also be searching for something meaningful.
Overall, "Missed Connection" explores the emotional weight of missed opportunities and the desire to rectify past mistakes, illustrating the human longing for connection and the consequences of not seizing the moment.
Line by Line Meaning
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
Repetition of sounds to create a catchy rhythm
If I never come through
If I fail to fulfill my promises or meet expectations
Yes it haunts me
It continuously bothers or troubles me
Sunny days I'd miss you
I would yearn for you on beautiful days
First you see it, then you feel it, now I'm caught
Initially, it catches your attention, then it deeply affects you, and now I'm entangled in it
And we're making our own thing
We are creating something unique and special
Now I'm following you out to the coast
I am willingly following you wherever you lead, even to the coast
Don't tell me I lost a step
Do not suggest that I have become less skilled or capable
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Confused or took the wrong path
Found myself in a conversation
Ended up in a discussion or interaction
From a missed connection
Resulting from a failure to make a meaningful connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Being in a particular outfit or appearance
Point my eyes in the right direction
Directing my attention towards the correct path or goal
I lost myself in this maze (La-la-la-la)
I became deeply lost or confused in this complex situation
Felt it slipping sideways (La-la-la-la)
Sensed it gradually going wrong or deviating from the intended course
But I see it and I feel it in my soul
However, I perceive it and have a strong emotional connection with it
Is there something I'm missing?
Am I overlooking or failing to understand something important?
Should I follow this wherever it goes?
Should I pursue this no matter where it leads?
I will always come through
I will always fulfill my promises or meet expectations
Only as alone as I want to be
I am alone by choice, to the extent that I desire
Passing all the people standing on the street
Moving past all the individuals observing from the sidelines
The fallen fruit of a family tree
The unfortunate consequences or outcomes within a lineage
A crystal ball and the odyssey
Symbolic references to divination and a long, adventurous journey
Did you find whatever you were looking for?
Have you discovered what you were seeking?
Had to open every single door
I had to explore numerous opportunities or possibilities
I get the feeling you've been here before
I sense that you have experienced a similar situation previously
And they're falling to see it (La-la-la-la)
Others are gradually realizing or comprehending it
We'd be fools to waste it but we can (La-la-la)
It would be unwise to squander it, although we have the ability to do so
Falling to feel the heat again (La-la-la-la)
Reaching a point where the passion or intensity can be felt once more
From a missed connection
Resulting from a failure to make a meaningful connection
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Charity Rose Thielen, Christopher Shane Zasche, John Hill, Jonathan Eric Russell, Mathew Lee Gervais, Robert Tyler Williams, Scott Harris
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@AddictsoftheImmediate
If I never come through
Yes it haunts me
Sunny days I'd miss you
Yes it haunts me
First you see it, then you feel it, now I'm caught
And we're making our own thing
Now I'm following you out to the coast
If I never come through
If I never come through
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
From a missed connection
I lost myself in this maze
Yes it haunts me
Felt it slipping sideways
Yes it haunts me
But I see it and I feel it in my soul
Is there something I'm missing?
Should I follow this where ever it goes?
I will always come through
I will always come through
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Only as alone as I want to be
Passing all the people standing on the street
The fallen fruit of a family tree
A crystal ball and the odyssey
Did you find whatever you were looking for?
Had to open every single door
I get the feeling you've been here before
From a missed connection
Don't tell me I lost a step
Criss-crossed in the wrong direction
Found myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
Standing there in a purple dress
Point my eyes in the right direction
Find myself in a conversation
From a missed connection
And they're falling to see it
We'd be fools to waste it but we can
Falling to feel the heat again
To feel the heat again
From a missed connection
@theheadandtheheart
Joshua Tree was where we started this new album, Living Mirage, and it set us on a path to find a deeper connection to each other and to push our songs to a new place. Thanks for watching Missed Connection! Much more soon.
❤️THATH
@AddictsoftheImmediate
The Head and the Heart You’ve been a part of me for years and years, and I’m so happy to see how much you all have grown and found yourselves ❤️❤️
@caligirl8185
Patiently waiting for a video for Honeybee....
@wendyraye
@The Head and the Heart thanks for putting me in a good mood. Great music that has “feeling” always boosts my mood!!
@zerozerohero7189
I thought I recognized it. I lived in Palm Springs a few years. I know exactly where you guys were in this video. Fantasic hook in this song by the way. Great job guys. Keep the great music coming!!
@chrisconklin4965
Was this filmed in Joshua tree or twentynine palms? I use to live out there two years ago, awesome song and video!
@GabrielaXarert
Was driving and the car beside me was blasting this song and all I could remember were some words and I looked them up. Now I’m here. Thank you stranger next to me haha
@justkeepingitreal6645
Dude this happens to me a lot, not people in the car next to me but when I'm out in public. It's funny because I don't like talking to people but when it comes to music I'll break that wall and ask a motherfucker what song he's playin lol.
@kevindurant8388
It was probably me
@ninosawbrzostowiecki1892
I don't blame that motorist for blasting this song, it's pretty great.