07 You Gotta Lose
The Heartbreakers Lyrics


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I hope I don't seem immodest when I tell you that my, my
Mother was a pinhead and my father was a fly.
That's why I love you darlin' with a love that's so unique:
Your glistenin' wings they complement your head's exquisite peak.

You gotta lose, you gotta lose
Not too long ago I knew a guy who thought he can't be beat
But he got rabies on his rubies now he can't unlace his feet.
And I for twenty minutes yesterday felt great, felt insensate,
But when you're twenty minutes late your fate is patient and will wait.

You gotta lose, you gotta lose
I know it's hard for you to face the fact Max Factor failed your face
And that your social life's misshapen 'cause you feel so out of place
And that the most magic man you'd meet and ask your soul to keep
Still could only love you from a distance one man deep.





You gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose

Overall Meaning

The Heartbreakers' song "You Gotta Lose" is a satire on the societal standards of physical beauty and a commentary on the inevitable nature of life's ups and downs. The lyrics paint a picture of someone who may be seen as unattractive in the eyes of society, with references to having a pinhead and fly for parents. However, despite this perceived physical deformity, the singer still loves the subject of the song for their unique qualities, specifically the shine of their wings and the peak of their head.


The chorus of "You gotta lose, you gotta lose" can be interpreted as both a warning and universal truth. The first verse mentions a man who thought he was invincible, only to succumb to the fatal disease of rabies. The second verse mentions feeling great and insensate for twenty minutes, but destiny catches up eventually. The repeated phrase "you gotta lose" can be seen as a reminder that no one can escape the inevitable cycle of ups and downs in life, and to never become too overconfident or complacent.


Overall, The Heartbreakers' use of dark humor and satire in "You Gotta Lose" serves as a commentary on the absurdity of societal beauty standards and the realities of life's struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

I hope I don't seem immodest when I tell you that my, my
I don't mean to brag but let me tell you about my unusual parents


Mother was a pinhead and my father was a fly.
My mother had an abnormally small head and my father was a fly, which makes me a unique person


That's why I love you darlin' with a love that's so unique:
I have a special appreciation for your unique beauty because of my own unique background


Your glistenin' wings they complement your head's exquisite peak.
I find your shimmering features and unique qualities extremely attractive


You gotta lose, you gotta lose
Sometimes you have to accept defeat


Not too long ago I knew a guy who thought he can't be beat
I once knew someone who was very confident in their abilities


But he got rabies on his rubies now he can't unlace his feet.
That person got caught up in their own ego and made a mistake that paralyzed them


And I for twenty minutes yesterday felt great, felt insensate,
I had a brief moment of happiness and carefree feeling yesterday


But when you're twenty minutes late your fate is patient and will wait.
However, if you're not on time, your destiny will still be there waiting for you


I know it's hard for you to face the fact Max Factor failed your face
I understand that it's difficult for you to accept that beauty products can't fix everything


And that your social life's misshapen 'cause you feel so out of place
I recognize that you struggle to fit in socially because of your insecurities


And that the most magic man you'd meet and ask your soul to keep
Even the most perfect man you meet would only be able to love you from afar


Still could only love you from a distance one man deep.
He may be enchanted by you, but he wouldn't be able to commit fully


You gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose, you gotta lose
Sometimes acceptance of defeat is necessary in life




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: RICHARD HELL

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