Don't Sweetheart Me
The Ink Spots Lyrics


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Don't sweetheart me if you don't mean it
Don't talk sweet words if they're not true
Don't tear my heart like it was paper
Because my heart loves only you

You can't go round sweethearting others
And then pretend that I'm yours exclusively
Love must be true, mean what you're saying
Unless you do, don't sweetheart me

Sweetheart's a word you use too lightly
It's more than just a word to me
And darling I resent it slightly
So hold that kiss, remember this

Don't sweetheart me if you don't mean it
Don't talk sweet words if they're not true
Don't tear my heart like it was paper
Because my heart loves only you

You can't go round sweethearting others
And then pretend that I'm yours exclusively
Love must be true, mean what you're saying
Unless you do, don't sweetheart me

You can't go round sweethearting others
And then pretend that I'm yours exclusively




Love must be true, mean what you're saying
Unless you do, don't you ever sweetheart me

Overall Meaning

In the Ink Spots' classic song "Don't Sweetheart Me," the singer warns their partner not to use sweet talk or call them "sweetheart" if they don't truly mean it. The lyrics are a declaration of the importance of honesty and sincerity in a loving relationship. The singer warns their partner not to hurt them like tearing paper and insists that love must be true and genuine for it to work.


The song's lyrics carry a timeless message that resonates with listeners even today. The Ink Spots' smooth and melodic harmonies add to the song's appeal, making it a classic that has endured throughout the decades. By avoiding the common sweet nothings and sticking only to genuine and honest promises, the singer embodies the ideal of true love.


The lyrics also reflect the standards of relationships that were held at the time the song was written, in the 1940s. During this era, fidelity and sincerity were essential elements of romance, and people were advised to be cautious about flattery and empty promises. The Ink Spots' song thus portrays a culture that placed a premium on honesty and deep connection.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't sweetheart me if you don't mean it
Don't use sweet terms of endearment if you don't truly feel that way about me.


Don't talk sweet words if they're not true
Don't tell me things you don't really mean just to please me.


Don't tear my heart like it was paper
Don't be careless with my feelings and hurt me for no reason.


Because my heart loves only you
I care deeply for you and don't want to share those feelings with anyone else.


You can't go round sweethearting others
You shouldn't use endearing words with other people if you're pretending to be exclusive with me.


And then pretend that I'm yours exclusively
Don't act like I'm the only one you care about when you're seeing other people.


Love must be true, mean what you're saying
Love requires honesty and sincerity in what you say and do.


Unless you do, don't sweetheart me
If you can't be honest and genuine, then don't use sweet words or endearments with me.


Sweetheart's a word you use too lightly
You use terms of endearment too often and without much thought behind it.


It's more than just a word to me
Those endearing words mean a lot to me and have deep significance.


And darling I resent it slightly
I feel a little bit upset when you use those words too lightly or insincerely.


So hold that kiss, remember this
Think twice before kissing me if you're not being honest and genuine with your feelings.


Don't you ever sweetheart me
If you can't be real and honest, then don't pretend to be sweet or affectionate toward me.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHARLES TOBIAS, CLIFF FRIEND

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gian paolo Puglisi

Very amazin' Thanks

Michael Glaze

I remember Daffy Duck sang this song. It's so funny.

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