Choosey Lover
The Isley Brothers Lyrics


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Girl, I'm so proud of you
I'm so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I'll make you so happy
(Thought I had a lover) Thought I had a lover
But I was kiddin' myself, baby
(By the time I learned about it) By the time I learned the truth about it
She was sleepin' with someone else, oh, but not you, baby
Choosey lover
Girl, I'm so proud of you
I'm so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I'll make you so happy
'Cause you've given me (Given me security)
Given me security, baby, and you're provin' what you said
(I never worry about you) Never worry about you, baby
Jumpin' in and out of bed, no, not my baby
Choosey lover (You're so choosey)
Girl, I'm so proud of you
I'm so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I'll make you so happy
Choosey lover (You're so choosey)
Girl, I'm so proud of you
I'm so glad you chose me, baby
And I'll make you so happy
Choosey lover (Oh, you're so choosey)
Girl, I'm so proud of you
I'm so glad you chose me, baby
And I'll make you so happy
Choosey lover (Oh, choosey)
Girl, I'm so proud of you




I'm so glad you chose me, baby
And I'll make you so happy

Overall Meaning

The Isley Brothers' song Choosey Lover tells a story of a man who is grateful to be with a woman who chose him, despite his past mistakes of fooling around with other women. The lyrics express the man's appreciation and pride towards his partner, promising her happiness and security. He admits to being delusional in thinking he had a lover, but eventually discovered that his former partner was unfaithful. In contrast, the lyrics convey that his current partner is different from his previous ones, demonstrating that she is a "choosey lover". This indicates that she is selective and intentional in her romantic choices, a quality that the singer admires and feels lucky to have.


The song encapsulates the theme of having a faithful and committed partner. It reinforces the notion that being selective in romantic partners is essential and that it leads to stability and happiness in a relationship. Furthermore, the song connotes that individuals need to take responsibility for their actions and that honesty and loyalty are virtues that are important in a loving relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, I'm so proud of you
I feel a great sense of pride towards you, my significant other


I'm so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
I feel lucky and grateful that you have decided to be with me


And I'll make you so happy
I will do everything in my power to bring joy and happiness into your life


(Thought I had a lover) Thought I had a lover
At one point, I believed I had found a romantic partner


But I was kiddin' myself, baby
However, I quickly learned that I was mistaken and mistaken about my affection


(By the time I learned about it) By the time I learned the truth about it
It wasn't until later that I discovered the truth about my previous love interest


She was sleepin' with someone else, oh, but not you, baby
The person I thought I was in a relationship with was unfaithful, but you are not like that


Choosey lover
You are selective and discerning when it comes to choosing who to love and commit to


Given me security, baby, and you're provin' what you said
You have provided me with a sense of safety and assurance, and you have followed through on your promises


(I never worry about you) Never worry about you, baby
I trust you completely and never have to worry about your loyalty


Jumpin' in and out of bed, no, not my baby
You are not someone who engages in casual, fleeting sexual encounters


(You're so choosey)
You have a discerning eye and are very particular about who you choose to love and commit to


Choosey lover (Oh, you're so choosey)
You are very selective and particular when it comes to choosing who to give your heart to


And I'll make you so happy
I will do anything and everything to ensure that you are happy




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Christopher Jasper, Christopher H Jasper, Ernie Isley, Marvin Isley, O'kelly Isley, Ronald Isley, Rudolph Isley

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@stopspam43711

My husband and I have been married since 1996, and it was a second marriage for the both of us. This song definitely depicts the depth of love that we have for one another and the journey it took for us to find each other! Here it is towards the end of 2023, and this song still has us swaying in each other's arms. They don't make songs like this anymore!

@errolthomas9426

Gone but never forgotten. Rest in peace Rudolph Isley 1939-2023.

@davidrogers9667

The fact that Ron Isley said he wrote this song after hearing Earth,Wind,and Fire's "DEVOTION" makes this song that much cooler😎.

@Greyareas27

I was surprised that the Isleys came out with a song that sounded so much like Earth Wind & Fire's "Devotion". Lots of people bit off of EWF's sound, but unlike the others, the Isleys were on their level.

@Noni1

I’m 29 years old. This tune hits my soul 🌻

@johnnyhuerta3772

😋 mmmmm yaaah 🔥

@youinmybusiness1388

Same!! Omg

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No cap

@mikezero7422

I got something else that’ll hit yo soul baby. 🫡

@Noni1

@@mikezero7422 🧐 Mr. Mike!

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