Ben
The Jackson 5 Lyrics


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Ben, the two of us need look no more
We both found what we were looking for
With a friend to call my own
I'll never be alone, and you, my friend, will see
You've got a friend in me (you've got a friend in me)

Ben, you're always running here and there (here and there)
You feel you're not wanted anywhere (anywhere)
If you ever look behind and don't like what you find
There's something you should know
You've got a place to go (you've got a place to go)

I used to say I and me, now it's us, now it's we
I used to say I and me, now it's us, now it's we

Ben, most people would turn you away (turn you away)
I don't listen to a word they say (a word they say)
They don't see you as I do
I wish they would try to
I'm sure they'd think again if they had a friend like Ben
A friend like Ben




(Like Ben)
Like Ben

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Jackson 5's song "Ben" seem to be about a close friendship between two people, one of whom is named Ben. The first verse implies that the two have found what they were looking for in each other - a friend to "call my own." The second verse seems to suggest that Ben has had a difficult time fitting in or finding acceptance from others, but the singer of the song affirms that he himself sees Ben differently: "most people would turn you away / I don't listen to a word they say." The chorus repeats the idea that Ben now has a friend who will be there for him and never turn him away.


As for the title, "Ben" was also the name of a 1972 film about a boy and his pet rat - the titular character. The song is the theme for the film and was originally going to be titled "Best Friend," but the name was changed to match the name of the character.


The song was actually written by Don Black and Walter Scharf for the film, but when it was recorded by The Jackson 5, it became a standalone hit. Interestingly, the song was actually written with an adult singer in mind - Black was friends with singer Glen Campbell and thought he would be a good fit for the song. Once it became attached to the film and recorded by The Jackson 5, "Ben" became a massive hit and remains a popular and nostalgic song to this day.


Line by Line Meaning

Ben, the two of us need look no more
Ben, we have found what we were both searching for and we don't need to look any further.


We both found what we were looking for
We have found true friendship in each other and we're content.


With a friend to call my own
I am grateful to have found a friend in you.


I'll never be alone, and you, my friend, will see
You have been a great support to me and I appreciate that I can always count on you.


You've got a friend in me (you've got a friend in me)
I will always be here for you, no matter what.


Ben, you're always running here and there (here and there)
You seem restless and constantly in motion.


You feel you're not wanted anywhere (anywhere)
You have doubts about your ability to find your place in the world.


If you ever look behind and don't like what you find
If you ever reflect on your past and feel regret or unhappiness,


There's something you should know
I want to remind you of something important.


You've got a place to go (you've got a place to go)
You will always have a safe haven with me and in our friendship.


I used to say I and me, now it's us, now it's we
Before I met you, I was focused on myself, but now we are a team and support each other.


Ben, most people would turn you away (turn you away)
Other people might reject or misunderstand you.


I don't listen to a word they say (a word they say)
Their opinions don't matter to me, because you are important to me.


They don't see you as I do
They don't appreciate you in the way that I do.


I wish they would try to
I hope that other people will eventually understand and appreciate you.


I'm sure they'd think again if they had a friend like Ben
If they knew you like I do, they would change their minds about you.


A friend like Ben
You are a valuable and precious friend to me, Ben.


(Like Ben)
Just like you, Ben.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Tratore, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Don Black, Walter Scharf

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@elvanali1998

Ben, the two of us need look no more
We both found what we were looking for
With a friend to call my own
I'll never be alone
And you my friend will see
You've got a friend in me
(You've got a friend in me)

Ben, you're always running here and there
(Here and there)
You feel you're not wanted anywhere
(Anywhere)
If you ever look behind
And don't like what you find
There's something you should know
You've got a place to go
(You've got a place to go)

I used to say "I" and "me"
Now it's "us", now it's "we"
I used to say "I" and "me"
Now it's "us", now it's "we"

Ben, most people would turn you away
I don't listen to a word they say
They don't see you as I do
I wish they would try to
I'm sure they'd think again
If they had a friend like Ben
(A friend)
Like Ben
(Like Ben)
Like Ben



All comments from YouTube:

@WinkyMac

I cry to this song, because I used to sing this to my son,Ben. He was autistic and most didn't understand him like me. He had a seizure last April and passed, he was 29 yrs old. He was special and I miss him so much. Back 29 yrs ago, not many knew what it was, now everyone has heard of it. My heart is broken in two...please help me find peace with it.Pray for me....nothing worse than losing your child.

@MsShay78

We're praying for you, Patricia.

@luisvillalta2131

Ill pray for your peace, Its so sad and i think in how MJ was abused as a child and all his life was a nightmare no matters how rich and talented and in the top of the world but inside a think he suffered so much, ,,,,,,,, sorry,,, Peace to u lady!!! God bless us everyone!!!!

@alinadel6701

May God help you and confort you with His Love and Peace!

@kens223

Im sorry for your lost I'm sure he was a great person I lost my baby sister I feel your pain

@georgiebass

John 14:27World English Bible (WEB) 27 Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, give I
to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful.

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@raquelrojas8757

His voice has always been so naturally pure and beautiful. unlike most artists nowadays .

@onyxxdrako4648

There were bad artists from his time too. It is just that he was a great music artist.

@renaniidepinheiroepereira4104

This was the phase when his voice was more beautiful.

@archiemac5137

Auto tune wah wah. Move with the times

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