Wondering Who
The Jacksons Lyrics


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I've got you wondering who
Look what you put me through
No more planning to start anew
I've got you wondering who

I come to you to love you once again
But you never were around
How can you say that we were more than friends
When there's no love to be found

'Cause in my mind
I knew that you weren't true
From time to time
Look what you put me through

I thought that you and I had seen the light
During the first time we met
Seem to be a sudden change in life
Is there a need for someone else?

'Cause in my mind
I knew that you weren't true
From time to time
Look what you put me through

Welcome to the night
(Stop holding on, start being strong)
Stayed up all night
(Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone)

Welcome to the night
(Stop holding on, start being strong)
Stayed up all night
Baby you've got to go

I've got you wondering who
Look what you put me through
No more planning to start anew
I've got you wondering who

I went along, thought it would be alright
Maybe it happened all too fast
Lots of torrid danger hampered me
Left me crying all the time

'Cause in my mind
I knew that you weren't true
From time to time
Look what you put me through

Welcome to the night
(Stop holding on, start being strong)
Stayed up all night
(Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone)

Welcome to the night
(Stop holding on, start being strong)
Stayed up all night
(Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone)

Stop holding on, start being strong
(Love is gone)
Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone
(Love is gone)

Stop holding on, start being strong
(Love is gone)
Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone
(Love is gone)

Stop holding on, start being strong
(Love is gone)
Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone
(Love is gone)

Stop holding on, start being strong




(Love is gone)
Baby you've got to go

Overall Meaning

The Jacksons’ song “Wondering Who” is about the pain of a failing relationship. The lyrics talk about how the singer has been put through a great deal of turmoil by their partner, who never seems to be around when they’re needed. Despite their initial hopes that they’d be able to salvage the relationship, the singer has a sense that their partner is not truly committed to them. As they come to this realization, they become strong enough to break free from the toxic relationship and move on. The repeated refrain of “stop holding on, start being strong” captures the sense of determination that the singer feels as they finally take control of their life.


The lyrics are accompanied by a driving beat that highlights the sense of urgency in the song. The Jacksons deliver a powerful vocal performance that perfectly captures the angst of the lyrics. When the song reaches its climax, the band really lets loose with a soaring guitar solo that adds an extra layer of emotional intensity. Overall, “Wondering Who” is a raw and powerful song that takes a hard look at the struggles of love and relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I've got you wondering who
You are now wondering who I am or what I will do


Look what you put me through
You caused me a lot of pain and suffering


No more planning to start anew
I am no longer interested in starting fresh with you


I come to you to love you once again
I want to show you love once more


But you never were around
You were not present or available when I wanted you


How can you say that we were more than friends
You claimed that we had a deeper connection than just being friends


When there's no love to be found
But in reality, there is no love between us


'Cause in my mind
As I think about it


I knew that you weren't true
I realized that you were not honest or faithful


From time to time
At various times


I thought that you and I had seen the light
I felt that we had a bright future together


During the first time we met
When we first encountered each other


Seem to be a sudden change in life
However, something out of the blue caused a major shift


Is there a need for someone else?
Did you feel the need to be with someone else?


Welcome to the night
Welcome to this dark and difficult time


(Stop holding on, start being strong)
Let go of your grip and become more resilient


Stayed up all night
I remained awake all night


Baby you've got to go
You must leave now, it is time for us to part ways


I went along, thought it would be alright
I followed along and assumed everything would be okay


Maybe it happened all too fast
Perhaps everything occurred too quickly


Lots of torrid danger hampered me
There were many intense and unfavorable circumstances that prevented me from moving forward


Left me crying all the time
I was left in tears frequently as a result


Stop holding on, 'cause love is gone
Let go of the past since love no longer exists




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JACKIE N JACKSON, STEVEN RANDALL JACKSON

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Donato MJ

Te tengo preguntándote quién

Vengo a ti para amarte una vez más
Pero nunca estuviste cerca
¿Cómo puedes decir que nosotros? eran más que amigos
cuando no hay amor que encontrar?


[Pre-Estribillo]
Porque en mi mente
sabía que no eras verdad
De vez en cuando
Mira lo que me hiciste pasar

[Verso 2]
Pensé que tú y yo habíamos visto la luz
Durante la primera vez que nos conocimos
Parece que ser un cambio repentino en la vida
¿Hay necesidad de alguien más?

[Pre-Estribillo]
Porque en mi mente
sabía que no eras fiel
De vez en cuando
Mira lo que me hiciste pasar
Aah...

[Estribillo]
Bienvenido a la noche
(Deja de aferrarte, comienza a ser fuerte) Me quedé
despierto toda la noche
(Deja de aguantar, porque el amor se ha ido)
Bienvenido a la noche
(Deja de aguantar, empieza a ser fuerte)
Me quedé despierto toda la noche
Bebé, tienes que irte
( Michael: Je, je, je ))
[Verso 3]
Te tengo preguntándote quién.
Mira por lo que me hiciste pasar.
Ya no planees comenzar de nuevo
. Te tengo preguntándote con quién

fui, pensé que estaría bien
. Tal vez sucedió demasiado rápido.
Muchos peligros tórridos obstaculizados . Me
dejaste llorando todo el tiempo

[Pre-Estribillo]
Porque en mi mente
sabía que no eras verdad
De vez en cuando
Mira lo que me hiciste pasar
Ahh...

[Estribillo]
Bienvenido a la noche
(Deja de aguantar , empieza a ser fuerte)
Me quedé despierto toda la noche
(Deja de aguantar, porque el amor se ha ido)
Bienvenido a la noche
(Deja de aguantar, empieza a ser fuerte)
Me quedé despierto toda la noche
(Deja de aguantar, porque el amor se ha ido)

Deja de aguantar, empieza a ser fuerte
(Michael: El amor se ha ido, je, je, je)
Deja de aguantar, porque el amor se ha ido
(El amor se ha ido, je, je, je)
Deja de aguantar, empieza a ser fuerte
(El amor se ha ido, je, je ) deja
de aguantar, porque el amor se ha
ido je, je, je) Deja de aguantar, comienza a ser fuerte (El amor se ha ido, je, je, je) Nena, tienes que irte



All comments from YouTube:

Spideymrw

Love this song. One of my favorite Jackson songs ever. The longer version with Michael's vocal is great too.

Musiclover59

Well this is Jackie song on lead vocals written by Jackie and Randy produced and arraigned by the Jacksons

Miguel Azenha

Reminds me of "Who Is It"..
The greatest music maker all time!.. ❤❤

Chet Perry

Love this. Sounds like nyc 1980. The last great Jacksons studio album.

Stephen Sheppard

@Chet Perry Your name is very familiar. Think I've heard some of your music. I was born in 1978, but I listen to a lot of 60s and 70s music, and my dad educated me on classical and big band jazz. I kinda listen to all genres but 80s and 90s were my golden age. Big smooth jazz fan myself

Stephen Sheppard

@Chet Perry I flooded this comment section with arguments about Randy being the lead. I double checked the credits and he was one of the writers. Crunch bar special 🤦🏿‍♂️. Thank you for correcting me

Stephen Sheppard

@Donato MJ I've always been a huge fan of the Jacksons since my childhood, even watched the J5 cartoon. I made a mix CD about 15 years ago that had some of my favorites from those last 4 albums 78-89 (Destiny, Triumph, Victory, 2300)

Donato MJ

@Stephen Sheppard I thought the music of the Jacksons would be boring but it was the opposite

Donato MJ

@Stephen Sheppard I met him through songs by Michael in The Jacksons, the truth is that in the albums they released there are many gems of songs especially from those two legendary albums

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Kasuba Kapambwe

Triumph is definitely an album for the broken hearted to relate too lol. Great message, great song. Jackie on lead vocals and all the brothers complimented each other well. And of course MJ rip

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