She's Sad She Said
The Judybats Lyrics


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Her beautiful arse
Cantilevering over a table of hors d'oeuvres
She took a sip of her drink and said,
"Hey, this music really gets on my nerves."
I said, "What music?"
She said, "The music in my head
Sometimes it makes me wish I were dead
It's like a requiem
It's like a rodeo
Can't you hear it?"
I said, "No."
She said, "Like where is here
And, tell me, how will I know when I get there
I wear my little black dress, I'm just waiting around
Will I think to comb my hair?"
I said, "Will it matter?"
She says, "Matter everywhere
No one here, they never play fair
I hope heaven is a place where sloe gin fizz comes in
Those little glasses, you know the ones
That are blue on the bottom and thin on the top?"
CHORUS
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She's sad, she said
She said she said she said
She's sad
She said she said she said
She's sad she said she's sad
She said she said she said
She said, "You know, the people here, all they wanna do
Is pick you apart; trouble is, they don't have time
To put you back together again.
I hate New York. I've thought about moving, to Italy
Or Spain or Hell, maybe even Tennessee."
CHORUS
All she said
Was she's sad she said
All she said




Was she's sad
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Overall Meaning

The Judybats's song She's Sad, She Said is a poignant portrayal of a young woman's introspective thoughts, struggles, and desires. The lyrics read like a stream-of-consciousness monologue, as the singer describes her disconnection from the party going on around her. While standing near the hors d'oeuvres table with a drink in her hand, she expresses her disapproval of the music playing and reveals that the real noise is the one inside her head. The music in her mind is like a requiem or a rodeo, and it makes her wish she were dead.


The young woman then asks philosophical questions about life's purpose and meaning, wondering where "here" is and how she will know when she gets there. She muses about matters of appearance and social expectation, pondering whether combing her hair will matter in the grand scheme of things. She then shares her perception that the people around her only want to pick her apart and never bother to put her back together again. She reveals her hatred of New York and her desire to move to Italy, Spain, or even Tennessee. The chorus repeats her declaration of sadness, symbolizing the weight of her mental and emotional burden.


Overall, the song seems to be about the inner turmoil of a young woman who is at a crossroads in her life. She feels disconnected from the people around her and experiences existential angst. The singer is searching for a place where she feels she belongs and is accepted, where she can find happiness and peace of mind. The lyrics touch upon themes of mental health, the human condition, and the search for meaning in life.


Line by Line Meaning

Her beautiful arse
Her attractive buttocks


Cantilevering over a table of hors d'oeuvres
Hanging over a table of small savory appetizers


She took a sip of her drink and said, "Hey, this music really gets on my nerves."
After drinking a bit of her beverage, she expressed annoyance toward the music being played


I said, "What music?"
I asked her about the music that was bothering her


She said, "The music in my head
She clarified that it was a song that was stuck in her mind


Sometimes it makes me wish I were dead
This internal song causes her to feel so overwhelmed that death seems preferable at times


It's like a requiem
The melody has a mournful quality, as if it were a funeral song


It's like a rodeo
The music feels chaotic and wild, like a rodeo event


Can't you hear it?"
She asked if I was able to hear the song that she was imagining


I said, "No."
I replied that I could not hear the music that was troubling her


She said, "Like where is here
She began to question her current location and state of being


And, tell me, how will I know when I get there
She is uncertain of how to reach a certain destination or state of mind


I wear my little black dress, I'm just waiting around
She is dressed up and waiting for something to happen


Will I think to comb my hair?"
She wonders if she forgot to groom herself properly


I said, "Will it matter?"
I questioned whether her hairstyle really made a difference


She says, "Matter everywhere
She insists that it does matter, and that appearance is important in all aspects of life


No one here, they never play fair
She feels that people around her are dishonest and deceptive


I hope heaven is a place where sloe gin fizz comes in
She daydreams about an afterlife where she can have her favorite gin cocktail


Those little glasses, you know the ones
She is referring to a specific type of glassware for drinks


That are blue on the bottom and thin on the top?"
She describes the unique design of the glasses she desires


She said she said e said
The song repeats her words, emphasizing her frustration and sadness


She's sad, she said
She admits to feeling unhappy and upset


She said she said she said
Once again, her words are repeated


She's sad
The song acknowledges and reinforces her feelings of sorrow


She said she said she said
Her words are emphasized yet again


She's sad she said she's sad
Her sadness is reiterated in the lyrics


She said she said she said
The repetition of her words continues throughout the song


She said, "You know, the people here, all they wanna do
She expresses her frustration with the people around her


Is pick you apart; trouble is, they don't have time
She feels that others criticize her without trying to understand her


To put you back together again.
She longs for someone to help put her back together after feeling torn apart


I hate New York. I've thought about moving, to Italy
She dislikes her current location and has considered moving away


Or Spain or Hell, maybe even Tennessee."
She lists off potential new homes, both desirable and less so


All she said
The repetition of her words is the only thing left to say


Was she's sad she said
The central message of the song is that she is feeling sad and has expressed this sentiment multiple times


All she said
Continuing the repetition of her words


Was she's sad
The final line reinforces her sadness




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