Love Me or Leave Me Alone
The Lox Lyrics


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[Intro Sheek Louch]
L-O-X
Damn baby make your mind up for-real
You going to love me or leave me alone?

[Verse One Sheek Louch]
When we first met you knew that I was still in the streets
Our first time at the movies I was carrying heat
First you didn't mind that I liked to smoke, drink alot of liquor
Made a living off of bagging up coke
Hit that Louie store get two of whatever you want
Cop that speedy and that Louie monogram in the front
Then I got famous, signed with Puff
You was happy but still hated my tours and stuff
Every bitch that I took a picture with, conspicuous
Text message you ain't shit, and who is this
It was all love back in the days, until I blew up
But you don't understand my ways

[Hook 1 Sheek Louch]
Ayo Kiss I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways
Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it
Ayo Styles I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways
Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it

[Verse Two Styles P]
Mellow off the la la, leaving is not an option
Cool like Melo and La La when we be rockin'
Shit get bad we like Stevie J and Joseline
Starring at the dolphins, playing some Jannis Joplin
Hotel balcony, OT arguing
She ain't budging nigga and I ain't bargaining
I'm so high I forgot why we was arguing
I'm just trying to make up
Make love and fuck, fuck and make love
Then I'm chilling on the tub, weed bud to break up
Love is so much I ain't trying to break up
Sometimes she be tripping the minute I wake up

[Hook Two Styles P]
Ayo Sheek I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways
Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it
Ayo Kiss I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways
Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it

[Verse Three Jadakiss]
Sometimes the easiest way is just to let go
Sex after the argument is usually the best though
Brining up shit I did in the past, that's stressful
It's all good though, as long as them checks flow
You know what they say when you search you find something
That groupie shit is old school, not something?
Sit down, have a convo, mine fuck them
Pack my bags, spend the rest of my time puffing
I could take the bruises, not the accusing
? that you using, becoming amusing
Screaming and shouting, frowning and pouting
It ain't that hard, just love me or be out then

[Hook Three Jadakiss]
Ayo Styles I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways
Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it
Ayo Sheek I got a girl that's bad
But she don't understand my ways




Arguing days after days after days
Well I could dig it

Overall Meaning

The Lox's "Love Me or Leave Me Alone" tackles the theme of relationships in a unique way. The song details the internal conflicts that each member of the group faces in their respective love lives. Sheek Louch, in the first verse, admits that his lifestyle as a drug dealer was accepted by his partner at the time, but his fame and touring became a bone of contention. Styles P in the second verse describes the cyclical nature of his disagreements and how sometimes after a fight, he just wants to make love and move on. Finally, in the third verse, Jadakiss encourages his partner to communicate and not use old mistakes as ammunition during arguments. The chorus, performed by each member, highlights that in spite of the struggles faced in their relationships, they must be loved unconditionally.


The lyrics showcase that even famous and wealthy individuals struggle with maintaining relationships. Love, in general, can be hard - and oftentimes requires compromise, understanding, and open communication. The artists' honesty and vulnerability in the lyrics make the song relatable, especially as many who have been through similar situations understand the struggles with balancing life and love.


Line by Line Meaning

L-O-X
The group known as L-O-X is singing this song.


Damn baby make your mind up for-real
The singer wants their partner to make a decision about whether they want to stay in the relationship or leave.


When we first met you knew that I was still in the streets
When the couple first met, one person was still involved in illegal activities.


Our first time at the movies I was carrying heat
During their first date at the movies, the artist was carrying a gun.


First you didn't mind that I liked to smoke, drink alot of liquor
At first, the partner did not have a problem with the artist's smoking and drinking habits.


Made a living off of bagging up coke
The singer's illegal source of income was from selling drugs.


Hit that Louie store get two of whatever you want
The couple went to a luxury Louis Vuitton store and the singer offered to buy two items for their partner.


Cop that speedy and that Louie monogram in the front
The artist suggests that their partner buys a specific type of Louis Vuitton bag.


Then I got famous, signed with Puff
The artist became famous and signed a contract to work with music producer Puff Daddy.


You was happy but still hated my tours and stuff
Although the partner was initially happy about the artist's success, they did not like that the artist had to go on tours and travel for work.


Every bitch that I took a picture with, conspicuous
The partner was suspicious of any woman the singer took a picture with.


Text message you ain't shit, and who is this
The partner sent the artist a message accusing them of not being faithful and asking who they were with.


It was all love back in the days, until I blew up
Before the singer became successful, the relationship was good. But after the singer made it big, the partner became jealous and insecure.


But you don't understand my ways
The singer believes their partner does not understand their lifestyle.


Ayo Kiss I got a girl that's bad
The singer is addressing one of their bandmates and telling them about their difficult relationship.


Arguing days after days after days
The couple is arguing constantly.


Well I could dig it
The artist can tolerate the constant arguing.


Mellow off the la la, leaving is not an option
The singer is calm and unwilling to end the relationship.


Cool like Melo and La La when we be rockin'
The singer and their partner have a good time together.


Shit get bad we like Stevie J and Joseline
When the relationship gets rocky, it is similar to the tumultuous relationship between Stevie J and Joseline on the TV show Love & Hip Hop.


Starring at the dolphins, playing some Jannis Joplin
The couple is relaxing and listening to Janis Joplin while watching dolphins.


She ain't budging nigga and I ain't bargaining
The partner is unwilling to compromise and the artist does not want to negotiate.


I'm so high I forgot why we was arguing
The singer is under the influence and cannot remember what the argument was about.


Love is so much I ain't trying to break up
The artist loves their partner and does not want to end the relationship.


Sometimes she be tripping the minute I wake up
The partner often starts arguments early in the morning.


Sometimes the easiest way is just to let go
The singer believes it is sometimes better to end a relationship.


Sex after the argument is usually the best though
After an argument, the singer and their partner often have good makeup sex.


Brining up shit I did in the past, that's stressful
The partner frequently brings up past mistakes the artist has made, which causes stress.


It's all good though, as long as them checks flow
As long as the artist is making money, the partner is willing to overlook their flaws.


You know what they say when you search you find something
When someone is looking for a problem, they will likely find one.


That groupie shit is old school, not something?
The partner is accusing the singer of being unfaithful, but the singer denies it.


Sit down, have a convo, mine fuck them
The artist suggests that they sit down and have a conversation to clear any misunderstandings with the partner.


Pack my bags, spend the rest of my time puffing
If the relationship ended, the artist would leave and spend their time smoking weed.


I could take the bruises, not the accusing
The artist can handle physical harm, but not being accused of something they did not do.


? that you using, becoming amusing
The singer is unsure what the partner is accusing them of, and finds the situation ridiculous.


Screaming and shouting, frowning and pouting
The couple argues loudly and their partner often has a negative expression on their face.


It ain't that hard, just love me or be out then
The singer believes that the solution to the constant arguing is for the partner to either love them or leave the relationship.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

pantagruel

Intro: Sheek Louch]
L.O.X.! Damn baby make your mind up for real!
You 'gon love me or leave me alone?!

[Verse 1: Sheek Louch]
Yo! When we first met you knew that I was still in the streets
Our first time at the movie I was carryin heat
First you didn't mind that I like to smoke
Drink alot of liquor made a livin off of baggin up coke
Hit-Hit that Louis store get two of whatever you want
Cop that speedy and that Louis monogram in the front
Then I-Then I got famous, signed with Puff
You was happy but still hatin my tours and stuff
Every bitch that I took a picture with, conspicuous 
Text message you ain't shit! And who is this?!
It was all love back in the days
Until I blew up, but you don't understand my ways
Huh!

[Chorus: Sheek Louch (Styles P)]
Aiyyo 'Kiss I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
Arguin days after days after days, well I could dig it
Aiyyo Styles I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
Arguin days after days after days (Well I could dig it) WOO!

[Verse 2: Styles P]
Mellow off the la la leave it is not a option
Cool like 'Melo and La La when we be rockin (Cool)
Shit get bad we like Stevie J and Joseline
Starin at the dolphins playin some Janice Joplin
Hotel balcony, O.T. arguin
See she ain't budgin nigga and I ain't bargainin
I'm-I'm so high forgot why we was arguin (So high!)
I'm just tryin to make up
Make love and fuck ya fuck and make love (Word!)
Then I'm chillin on the tub we bud to break up
Love her so much I ain't tryin to break up (Nah!)
But sometimes she be trippin the minute I wake up

[Chorus: Styles P (Sheek Louch) {Jadakiss}]
Aiyyo Sheek I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
Arguin days after days after days (Well I could dig it)
Aiyyo 'Kiss I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
{UH! UH!} Arguin days after days after days {EH HEH!} Well I could dig it (WOO!)

[Verse 3: Jadakiss]
Sometime's the easiest way is just to let go (Let go)
Sex after the argument usually the best though (Yep)
Bringin up shit I did in the past that's stressful
It's all good though, as long as them checks flow
Know what they say when you search you find sum'n (True)
That groupie shit is old school, nine sum'n (Yep)
Sit down have a convo, mind fuck 'em (What's up?)
Packin my bags spend the rest of my time puffin (UH!)
I can take the bruisin not the accusin (Nah!)
The tact that your usin becomin amusin (Yeah!)
Screamin and shoutin, frown and poutin (UH!)
It ain't that hard just love me or be out then
What!

[Chorus: Jadakiss (Styles P) {Sheek Louch}]
Aiyyo Styles I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
Arguin days after days after days (Well I could dig it)
Aiyyo Sheek I got a girl that's bad, but she don't understand my ways
Arguin days after days after days {Well I could dig it} WOO!



All comments from YouTube:

papinakio5

Lox is back for the take over! need that whole album.

Antione Leonard

Classic at it's best

GBLUE

Antione Leonard hell yeah

chris ginther

Straight fire!

DirkNader

Nice flip on this ole skool heat!!!

Natty Nat

LOVE this track produced by @budadafuture and GrandzMuzik #lovemeorleavemealone

CT wave CT wave

styles killed it

Moses Rhames

ooooww flash back we need that in hip hop

Lajuana Chambers

My motto love me or leave me alone

solomon waterton

I got a girl that's bad. But she don't understand my ways. Argue in days after days after days.

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