No Kind Words
The Maccabees Lyrics


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Dear friend of mine has broken his union
Broke from tradition
Broken his vision of the future

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine is testing his body
Tempting disaster
Testing water with another's daughter

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine, my ear is bending
I'm not helping, I'm not telling, I'm not solving
I'm not saying you're pretending

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine is helpless without helping
Healed without scab or scar
New union found him alone

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

Alone, alone, alone
Not alone at all

If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all

If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all

If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all

If you've got no kind words to say
Carry no weight, let the weight carry you
If you've got no kind words to say
Carry no weight, let the weight carry you





If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all

Overall Meaning

The song "No Kind Words" by The Maccabees tells the story of a friend who has broken away from tradition and is testing his limits by getting involved with someone else's daughter. The singer is aware of his friend's actions but is not offering help or advice. The friend is healing from a broken union and has found a new partnership. However, he is still alone and struggling despite his newfound love.


The chorus reminds us that if we don't have any kind words to say, we're better off saying nothing at all. This line implies that our words have power and can either heal or hurt, so it's best to be mindful of what we say.


Overall, the song presents a complex web of emotions - loneliness, fear, doubt, concern, and love. It shows us that relationships can be complicated, and even when we try to move on, we can still be haunted by our past.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear friend of mine has broken his union
A close friend has separated from a long-standing commitment


Broke from tradition
They deviated from customary practices


Broken his vision of the future
Their perception of the future has been lost


Alone, alone, alone
The feeling of loneliness is overwhelming


Not alone at all
Despite the feeling of loneliness, there is always someone there for support


Dear friend of mine is testing his body
The same close friend is putting themselves in physical danger


Tempting disaster
They are knowingly taking risks that could be harmful


Testing water with another's daughter
They are being unfaithful and cheating on their partner with another person's daughter


Dear friend of mine, my ear is bending
The friend is confiding in the artist


I'm not helping, I'm not telling, I'm not solving
The artist is listening but not providing any solutions or help


I'm not saying you're pretending
The singer is not accusing their friend of faking or exaggerating their problems


Dear friend of mine is helpless without helping
The friend is unable to help themselves and needs assistance


Healed without scab or scar
The friend has recovered without any visible signs of improvement


New union found him alone
The friend has entered into a new relationship, but still feels lonely


If you've got no kind words to say
If you don't have anything nice to say


You should say nothing more at all
It's better to remain silent than to say something unkind


Carry no weight, let the weight carry you
Don't burden yourself with negativity; let it go and move forward




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

brucopera

Dear friend of mine has,
Broken his union
Broke from tradition
Broken his vision of the future
Alone, Alone, Alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine is,
Testing his body
Tempting disaster, testing water
With another's daughter
Alone alone, Alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine my,
Ear is bending
I'm not helping, I'm not telling
I'm not solving, I'm not saying you're pretending

Alone, Alone, Alone
Not alone at all
Alone, Alone, Alone
Not alone at all

Dear friend of mine is
Helpless without helping
Heal without scabs or scaring
In union fountain.

If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all
If you've got no kind words to say
You should say nothing more at all



All comments from YouTube:

Samuel Powell

I remember buying this album, amazing from start to finish, my music producer friend in high school used to show me all these great bands but this is one of the first bands I showed him I'm proud to say, their music still gives me chills, my friend has just released a brand new banging indie track, try searching Lonely Gimmick - Beaches, brings back nostalgic indie memoires well worth checking out

Mavissing!

2019, 10 years past and this music still sounds like the present and the future of real music.

Beker Jasiel Cortez

This is a perfect band

Elena Katrina

SO SO TRUE! We miss them so!

Nika Chan

11 now

Paul Taylor

The guitar is very much of its time, and very nice. In my opinion.

Mavissing!

2022, still coming here and listening to this brilliant piece of art. lets see if I come here in 2025 but I'm sure I will

Andrew Quinn

One of the most underrated songs of all time

Jana Slobodová

"if you've got no kind words to say...you should say nothing more at all"
Maccabees are one of those "fine wine" bands...getting better and better with age.

White Bezi

+Jana Slobodová so are u

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