I Wanna Be the Leader
The Marcels Lyrics


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Daylight grows dim
As we ride empty roads
So close inside your car
I can smell your skin

Your hand brushes mine
I try not to think of it
On my neck, on my lips
You say something, but I’m distracted

I’m tired of pretending
Refraining the feeling
Who am I fooling?
Can’t keep it in
I’m tired of pretending
Refraining the feeling
Who am I fooling?
Can’t keep it in

Want you to know that I want you
’Cause I don’t want to be your friend
I won’t be playing by the rules
’Cause I don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Daylight grows dim
As we ride empty streets
So close inside your car
I can feel the heat
I’m tired of pretending
Refraining the feeling
Who am I fooling?
Can’t keep it in
I’m tired of pretending
Refraining the feeling
Who am I fooling?
Can’t keep it in

Want you to know that I want you
’Cause I don’t want to be your friend
I won’t be playing by the rules
’Cause I don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Don’t want to be




Don’t want to be
Don’t want to be your friend

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "I Wanna Be the Leader" by The Marcels convey the internal struggle of a person who is lost in his/her feelings of love and attraction towards someone. The song begins with the singer describing a moment of physical intimacy with the person he/she desires while riding inside their car. The lighting of the day is fading away, and the singer can smell the skin of the other person, making the moment more intense. The singer tries to control his/her thoughts, but the physical sensation becomes too much to handle.


As the song progresses, the singer expresses disappointment and frustration with his/her inability to conceal the feelings from the other person. The singer declares that he/she wants to be honest with the other person about the depth of his/her feelings and that being just friends will not be enough. The singer is tired of trying to restrain the emotions, and he/she can no longer fake what he/she truly feels.


In the end, the singer repeats the chorus, expressing his/her desire to be more than friends and admitting that playing by the rules will not work for him/her. The song ends with the singer's struggle being unresolved, uncertain of whether the other person feels the same way or not.


Overall, "I Wanna Be the Leader" by The Marcels is a beautifully crafted song that depicts the complicated journey of falling in love with someone and the struggle to express those feelings. It conveys the internal dilemma of someone who wants to be honest and transparent in their intentions but can't be sure of the outcome.


Line by Line Meaning

Daylight grows dim
The sun is setting.


As we ride empty roads
We are driving on deserted streets.


So close inside your car
We are in close proximity inside the car.


I can smell your skin
I can smell your scent.


Your hand brushes mine
Our hands touch.


I try not to think of it
I try to avoid acknowledging the physical contact.


On my neck, on my lips
You touch my neck and lips.


You say something, but I’m distracted
You speak, but I am too preoccupied with physical attraction to listen.


I’m tired of pretending
I am exhausted from hiding my true feelings.


Refraining the feeling
Suppressing my emotions.


Who am I fooling?
I am not deceiving anyone.


Can’t keep it in
I can no longer suppress my emotions.


Want you to know that I want you
I want you to know that I am attracted to you.


’Cause I don’t want to be your friend
I do not want a platonic relationship.


I won’t be playing by the rules
I will not conform to societal norms of friendship.


Don’t want to be
I do not wish to become.


Don’t want to be your friend
I do not want a friendship with you.


Can feel the heat
There is a sexual tension between us.


I’m tired of pretending
I cannot conceal my feelings anymore.


Refraining the feeling
I have been suppressing my desires for too long.


Who am I fooling?
Others may not know, but I cannot hide it from myself.


Can’t keep it in
I cannot keep my emotions bottled up anymore.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, APM MUSIC ASSOCIATED PRODUCTION MUSIC
Written by: ADAM MICHAEL GEORGE DOUBLE, ANDREW MICHAEL ERNEST, MARCEL BOLANO, MERRICK DAY, NICHOLAS JONATHAN HILL, SARAH EISENFISZ

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Comments from YouTube:

@sinfulshea

Sad to think most of my generation will never hear music like this; doo wop generally deserves so much more recognition. I’m glad to be one of the few though :D

@iamnotafederalagent5552

Gen z?

@palapa1265

They have no idea what music is

@looloo2866

I'm here

@looloo2866

I'm the only one left with good music taste

@icychill105

its hard to believe that there are almost no comments on such an amazing song from the marcels

@thecinephiliac4034

It’s also hard to believe that the ENTIRE cast of “Saved by the Bell” are all dead.

@BIOMIESGAMING

wait until marvel studio use the song, so people know this mastepiece

@EvanGundersen

I'm 14 and now this is my new favorite song

@CatPersian1

Very underrated group !!

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