Home Outgrown
The Menzingers Lyrics


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Condescender, Condescender,
Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself.

I know a snake, I know a charmer, I know a selfish little boy,
But I wish that I knew my friend,
A neighbour is a stranger,
And compassion is an option,
When your frigid hearts settle in.

Condescender last forever come call off your dogs,
Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself,
The old enemy.

I know a snake, I know a charmer, I know a selfish little boy,
But I wish that I knew my friend,
A neighbour is a stranger,
And compassion is an option,
When your frigid hearts settle in.

I’m not going home,
I’m not going home,
Where is my home?
Where is my home?
I’m not going home.

Condescender last forever come call off your dogs,
Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself,
The old enemy.

My heroes I have forgotten them,
My heroes maybe they never were,
My heroes I have forgotten them,




My heroes maybe they never were,
I’m not going home.

Overall Meaning

The Menzingers's song Home Outgrown is a contemplative reflection on growing older, feeling disconnected, and searching for a sense of belonging. The repeated line "Condescender, Condescender, Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself" seems to refer to the allure of drugs and the temptation to escape reality. The singer is finding it difficult to connect with people around him - he knows people who are snakes and charmers, but he wishes he knew his friend better. He sees neighbours as strangers and feels that compassion is an option instead of the natural response it should be.


When the singer repeats "I'm not going home, where is my home", it seems like he is confronting his own sense of displacement and trying to find a place where he truly belongs. The line "My heroes I have forgotten them, my heroes maybe they never were" could refer to a loss of faith in people he once looked up to, or letting go of certain expectations and coming to terms with reality. Overall, the song conveys a sense of disillusionment with the world and oneself, as well as a longing for a greater sense of purpose and meaning.


Line by Line Meaning

Condescender, Condescender, Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself.
I've succumbed to the allure of drugs and I'm making a promise to myself to stop.


I know a snake, I know a charmer, I know a selfish little boy, But I wish that I knew my friend, A neighbour is a stranger, And compassion is an option, When your frigid hearts settle in.
I've encountered deceitful and self-centered people, but I aspire to have true friendships and connections. Unfortunately, many people in my life are strangers and lack empathy due to their inner emptiness.


Condescender last forever come call off your dogs, Chemical splendour, I surrender a promise to myself, The old enemy.
I'm pleading with drug addiction to release its grip on me so that I can stay drug-free. Drugs are an enemy that has been around for a long time.


I’m not going home, I’m not going home, Where is my home? Where is my home? I’m not going home.
I'm feeling lost and displaced, and I don't know where my true home is. I can't go back to my old home, wherever that may be.


My heroes I have forgotten them, My heroes maybe they never were, My heroes I have forgotten them, My heroes maybe they never were, I’m not going home.
I've lost respect for people I previously looked up to, and I'm starting to question if they ever deserved my admiration. I'm still unsure of where my true home is and where I belong.




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AmeliaBuns

God, I've been in love with menzingers for the past 3-4 years and only discovered this now

Carthasis_333

Probably my favourite from CW

ToxicRespirator9

Fuck yeah, very nice

stephen miley

excellent little boats

Renaldo Matadeen

2021, we here

Renaldo Matadeen

2020, we here

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