I'm Afraid to Love You
The Mills Brothers Lyrics


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I knew the time had to come
When I'd be held under your thumb
I'm like a pawn in your hand
Moved and compelled, at your command
Whether it's for bad or for good
I would never change it if I could

Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong
Maybe I'm weak, maybe I'm strong
But nevertheless I'm in love with you
Maybe I'll win, maybe I'll lose
And maybe I'm in for crying the blues
But nevertheless I'm in love with you

Somehow, I know at a glance, the terrible chances I'm taking
Fine at the start, then left with a heart that is breaking

Maybe I'll live a life of regret, and maybe I'll give much more than I get
But nevertheless, I'm in love with you

In spite of all I could do
I went ahead falling for you
So if I laugh or I cry
I made my bed, that's where I'll lie




For what happens there's no excuse
I put my own head in the noose

Overall Meaning

In the Mills Brothers' song "I'm Afraid to Love You," the singer expresses their fear of falling in love with someone who has power over them. The opening lines set the tone for the rest of the song as the singer speaks about being held under their lover's thumb. They feel like a pawn in their lover's hands, moved and compelled at their command without the ability to resist. The singer acknowledges that this could lead to either good or bad outcomes, but they wouldn't want to change it either way.


The chorus of the song speaks to the singer's conflicting emotions. They know they are taking terrible chances by falling in love, but they cannot help themselves. They may win, they may lose and face heartbreak, but they are willing to take the chance because their love for this person is too strong. The singer is aware of the risks they are taking, but they also know that they will go through with it despite the potential consequences.


In the final verse, the singer takes responsibility for their feelings, acknowledging that they went ahead and fell for this person despite the possibility of regret or heartbreak. They may laugh or cry, but they accept the consequences of their actions as they made their choice to fall in love. The final line, "I put my own head in the noose," is a powerful metaphor, suggesting that the singer fully realizes the risk they are taking as they willingly put themselves in a vulnerable position.


Line by Line Meaning

I knew the time had to come
I was aware that someday I would fall in love


When I'd be held under your thumb
When I would be under your control


I'm like a pawn in your hand
I feel like a powerless pawn in your hands


Moved and compelled, at your command
I am moved and compelled to do whatever you order me to do


Whether it's for bad or for good
Irrespective of the outcome, good or bad


I would never change it if I could
I wouldn't change my love for you even if I had a choice


Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong
I may be right or wrong about my feelings


Maybe I'm weak, maybe I'm strong
I may be weak or strong to fall in love with you


But nevertheless I'm in love with you
Regardless of the situation, I am in love with you


Maybe I'll win, maybe I'll lose
There may be chances of success or failure in our relationship


And maybe I'm in for crying the blues
I might suffer from sadness and depression because of you


But nevertheless I'm in love with you
Even if I have to go through tough times, I still love you


Somehow, I know at a glance, the terrible chances I'm taking
I understand the risks involved in falling deeply in love with you


Fine at the start, then left with a heart that is breaking
Initially everything might be fine, but later, I might suffer from a heartbreak


Maybe I'll live a life of regret, and maybe I'll give much more than I get
I might regret giving you more than what I get in return


But nevertheless, I'm in love with you
Despite all the challenges, I still love you


In spite of all I could do
Despite trying everything I could


I went ahead falling for you
I still fell in love with you


So if I laugh or I cry
Whether I laugh or cry


I made my bed, that's where I'll lie
I have chosen this path and have to live with its consequences


For what happens there's no excuse
I take full responsibility for whatever happens


I put my own head in the noose
I knowingly took a risk by falling in love with you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Bert Kalmar, Herman Ruby

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Comments from YouTube:

ArtsKris

I like these photos of cinema. Perennially fashionable. The Mills Brothers sublimates them. The transition with animals, I like. Magnificent work.

EileenML aka Adamfulgence

@likekinds Thanks Doug! I DO get into these moods where I feel like getting away from serious topics. But, you know me. Eventually, the tragedies of life will emerge again! So glad you liked it. :-))

zurdo

i knew someone special but was so afraid she"d love me back cause i wouldnt know what to do if she did< is hard to explain the feeling< but this song explains it very well< Great vid Eileen< Today was tge first time i could watch it cause of some censureship over it < u"ve done it again

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