Please Don
The Mills Brothers Lyrics


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Years we've been together
Seems we can't get along,
No matter what I do
I don't appeal to you
Makes no difference whether
I am right or wrong
If we can't be sweethearts
This much you can do

Please don't talk about me when I'm gone
Oh, Honey, though our friendship ceases from now on
And listen, if you can't say anything real nice
It's better not to talk at all, that's my advice
We're parting, you go your way, I'll go mine
It's best that we do
Here's a kiss, I hope that this brings lots of luck to you
Makes no difference how I carry on




Just remember
Please don't talk about me when I'm gone.

Overall Meaning

The Mills Brothers's song "Please Don't Talk About Me When I'm Gone" talks about a couple who has been together for years but cannot seem to get along. The singer laments that it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong; they still can't be sweethearts. The singer then asks his partner to do one thing for him: please don't talk about him when he's gone. The singer emphasizes that while their friendship may have ended, it's best that they part ways and not say anything bad about each other.


This song is bitter-sweet, as the singer acknowledges the inevitable end of their relationship but still wants to leave on good terms. The song's melody is upbeat, which adds to its ironic tone since the lyrics are sad. Perhaps the reason why the song is still popular today is that it's relatable to so many people. The experience of a relationship ending, but still wanting to leave on good terms, is universal.


Line by Line Meaning

Years we've been together
We have been together for a long time


Seems we can't get along,
It appears that we cannot get along well


No matter what I do
Regardless of what I do


I don't appeal to you
You are not attracted to me


Makes no difference whether
It doesn't matter if


I am right or wrong
I am correct or mistaken


If we can't be sweethearts
If we cannot be lovers


This much you can do
At least you can do this


Please don't talk about me when I'm gone
Please refrain from discussing me after I'm no longer around


Oh, Honey, though our friendship ceases from now on
My dear, even though our friendship ends from now on


And listen, if you can't say anything real nice
And listen, if you cannot say something genuinely kind


It's better not to talk at all, that's my advice
It would be preferable to keep silent altogether, that's my suggestion


We're parting, you go your way, I'll go mine
We are separating, you take your own path, I'll take mine


It's best that we do
It is for the better that we do so


Here's a kiss, I hope that this brings lots of luck to you
I am giving you a kiss, I hope it brings you good luck


Makes no difference how I carry on
It does not matter how I continue in life


Just remember
Just keep in mind


Please don't talk about me when I'm gone.
Please do not discuss me after I'm gone.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG Rights Management
Written by: Bert Kalmar, Herman Ruby

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Comments from YouTube:

Tony Satee

Truly one of the finest groups of all time

Ward Harrah

I can still hear my grandfather singing and whistling this song...thank you so much for posting!!! R.I.P. Maj. Ward M Harrah...I love you and I miss you everyday!!!

Marilyn Goad

My era.....always loved listening to them "way back when...".. Their harmony was the best.......Wish more people heard them.........now THIS is music, not that noise you hear today!!

lili1916

A wonderful recording! <3 Thanks for sharing!!!

judyaosta21

I didn't know that this was recorded with the Tommy Dorsey orchestra - it is perfectly wonderful Regard to you from another Judy

Brendan Gill

Who would dislike this!?!

Geoff Strum

If you can’t say anything real nice!!

Duo Konrad Rosa

great rendition

Francis Alan Wormald

At 83 I AM ON A MILLS BROTHERS' TREASURE HUNT...THIS IS ONE GREAT FIND...THEY MADE EACH SONG THEIR OWN!!!

Jakob Stevens

The best version of this song, in my opinion.

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