Don't Wait for Me
The Monkees Lyrics


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Don't wait for me...I'll be a long time comin'
Unless by then, you have told me something
To show how much you care
I've done much more than as a man I should have

Why did you... not do all you could have... to show
How much you care?
Over and again I've wondered was I wrong
Kept thinkin' that I maybe shoulda come along
But there comes a time in every man's life
When he must be strong

And my time's come
And if you're gone
Then I guess I'll cry and hold to memories
Of "what might have beens"

[Repeat: x2]




And when I finally leave
That will show how much I cared

Overall Meaning

This song, "Don't Wait for Me" by The Monkees, is a breakup song about a man who realizes that his relationship is not working out and that it's time for him to move on. The lyrics suggest that he has been waiting for his partner to show him how much she cares about him, but she has been unresponsive. The man acknowledges that he has made mistakes and hasn't always acted in the way he should have, but he still wants his partner to show him that she cares before it's too late.


The first verse sets the tone for the song with the line "Don't wait for me...I'll be a long time comin'." This line implies that the man is leaving and that his partner should not wait for him to return. He goes on to say that unless she shows him something to prove that she cares, he will not be coming back anytime soon. The second verse addresses the situation directly, with the line "Why did you not do all you could have to show how much you care?" This line suggests that the man feels neglected and that his partner has not done enough to demonstrate her love.


The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, with the repeated phrase "And when I finally leave, that will show how much I cared." This line suggests that the man is leaving because he feels unloved and that his departure is his way of showing how much he cared for his partner. The song ends with the man reflecting on what might have been and acknowledging that he will hold onto memories of his relationship even though it is over.


Overall, "Don't Wait for Me" is a poignant breakup song that deals with the emotions of a man who is leaving a relationship that has not worked out. The lyrics suggest that the man feels neglected and unloved, and that he is leaving because he feels that he has no other choice.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't wait for me...I'll be a long time comin'
Please don't wait for me as it may take me a long time to return.


Unless by then, you have told me something
Unless before my return, you express your feelings and make me aware of how much you care.


To show how much you care
To demonstrate and express the depth of your feelings for me.


I've done much more than as a man I should have
I acknowledge that I may have fallen short of what is expected of a man, and regret not doing more.


Why did you... not do all you could have... to show
I wonder why you did not make every effort to demonstrate the depth of your feelings for me.


Over and again I've wondered was I wrong
I have repeatedly questioned myself if I made the right decision.


Kept thinkin' that I maybe shoulda come along
I deliberated if I should have chosen a different path and remained with you.


But there comes a time in every man's life
However, every man must face a crucial moment.


When he must be strong
A time when he must display strength and fortitude.


And my time's come
That time has finally arrived for me.


And if you're gone
If you have left or moved on.


Then I guess I'll cry and hold to memories
I will mourn and hold on to memories of our time together.


Of 'what might have beens'
What our future together could have been.


And when I finally leave
When I ultimately depart.


That will show how much I cared
That will signify the depth of my feelings for you.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MICHAEL NESMITH

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