I Don't Think You Know Me
The Monkees Lyrics


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If you think I want the life you choose to live
I don't think I want the love you've got to give
If you think my goals could be so trivial and small
Then, I don't think you know me at all
Born between the covers of your fashion books
You think you can make it, girl, on just your looks
But you could never bring me up
Between us stands a wall
No, I don't think you know me at all
Believing in the promise painted in your smile
I've chased what I was running from, girl, all my life
I've known you a hundred times in memories I recall, but




I don't think you know me at all
I don't think you know me at all.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Monkees' "I Don't Think You Know Me" speak to a fundamental disconnect and lack of understanding between two people. The singer is addressing someone they have a history with, but who they feel fundamentally misunderstands who they are and what they want. The singer rejects the life and love offered by the other person, viewing it as incompatible with their own goals and desires. They view the other person as existing in a superficial, fashion-centric world that they cannot relate to or participate in. The singer hints at having known the other person in the past, but implies that they have changed and grown beyond their previous understanding of one another. The refrain of "I don't think you know me at all" is a repeated rejection of the idea that the two are still intimately connected or that the other person understands or can relate to them.


Overall, the lyrics to "I Don't Think You Know Me" convey a sense of personal growth and change, as well as the idea that people can grow apart and become fundamentally incompatible over time. The singer is rejecting a vision of life and love that they see as trivial and unfulfilling, and in doing so, asserting their own values and desires. The repeated refrain of "I don't think you know me at all" reinforces the idea that true understanding and intimacy require a deep, mutual understanding and recognition of who the other person truly is.


Line by Line Meaning

If you think I want the life you choose to live
You have a mistaken belief that I desire to live the same life as you.


I don't think I want the love you've got to give
I am unsure if I want to accept your love and affection.


If you think my goals could be so trivial and small
You have an opinion that my goals are insignificant and unimportant.


Then, I don't think you know me at all
Your perception of me is incorrect and shows a lack of understanding about who I really am.


Born between the covers of your fashion books
You were raised with the belief that appearances and fashion are of utmost importance.


You think you can make it, girl, on just your looks
You hold the belief that success can be achieved solely through physical appearance.


But you could never bring me up
Your values and beliefs are not something that would benefit me in any way.


Between us stands a wall
There is a significant divide between us and our beliefs and values are at odds with one another.


No, I don't think you know me at all
You have a flawed understanding of who I am as a person.


Believing in the promise painted in your smile
I have previously held a belief in the positive things that I see in you.


I've chased what I was running from, girl, all my life
I have spent my life trying to escape from something that I fear or am trying to avoid.


I've known you a hundred times in memories I recall, but
I have many memories of you and the interactions we have had in the past.


I don't think you know me at all
Overall, it is clear that your perception of me is flawed and does not accurately reflect who I am as a person.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE KING, GERRY GOFFIN

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